Kodi kudabwa munthu

Kodi kuti tisangalatse munthu? Mfundo imeneyi ndi nkhawa akazi ambiri. Makamaka amene ali pa ubwenzi, pang'ono mtima ndi nthawi. Kumene, pa siteji koyamba, ndi amuna ndi akazi akuyesera kuchita zonse kudabwa, kusangalatsa mzake. Koma bwanji ngati akhala chizolowezi, moyo pamodzi anakhala yosasangalatsa, wamba? Motsimikizika - kuchita. Komanso akazi mu dongosolo zambiri yogwira. Iwo anali oyamba kuzindikira kuti inali nthawi kupereka kupanda zachilendo. Tangoganizirani za funso mmene tisangalatse munthu?

Choyamba, tiyenera kukhala okonzekera chakuti kuoneka zizindikiro chidwi mnzako akhoza mokwanira ngoziyo "N'chifukwa chiyani inu modzidzimutsa anaganiza kuyamba chakudya chikondi?" Taganiziraninso kuti chala chinachake. Inu konse. Uyenera kukhala mogwirizana ndi kulimbikira zake. Yambani yaing'ono. Zimakhala kangapo kuyika chikondi kalata ndi kuzindikira mu tsikulo kapena malaya thumba, kapena kutumiza uthenga SMS kuti zili zogwirizana.

Ngati mukumva chisoni chifukwa cha funso limeneli kuti tisangalatse munthu, kupitirira. Inu ayenera kuperekedwa kwa tsiku wawo. Mubwere naye bedi khofi ndi kadzutsa. Ndipo kuchita kapena chinachake zokoma ndi zachilendo, kapena kuti mwamuna wanu akonda.

N'zotheka kukonza msonkhano kukumbukira masiku akale. Sitidikira mundondomeko ku anu osankhika. Amuna, pambuyo zaka zingapo ukwati ambiri pafupifupi konse ndikuganiza pamaso izi. Matikiti kuti masewera aja, kwa siketing'i rink, filimu zisudzo, konsati wa theka gulu mumaikonda kachiwiri.

Ngati ali kuonera mpira, funso bwanji kuti tisangalatse munthu, ndi kuthetsedwa palokha. Muyenera tikupeza pamene yotsatira yokonzedweratu kulengezetsa za machesi, kukonzekera pogulitsira zakudya chokoma, angapo mabotolo a mowa. Football zimakupiza ndithudi tikuyamikira moyang'ana m'tsogolo amenewa ndi chidwi. Mukhoza kuitana kukaona anzake, kotero adamuyang'anira machesi pamodzi. A bwino - nawo.

Ngati simukudziwa mmene kudabwa munthu wokondedwa, kumupanga iye kutikita ulesi. Ngakhale ngati inu zambiri kwathunthu m'dera lino, inu nthawi zonse ndiphunzire pa Intaneti. Munthu amene kutopa nayo mu mlingo ukwati ndi mayesero mosayembekezereka pabedi. Limbikitsani mwana wanu kuyesa chatsopano. Ndipo mwina mukudziwa chinachake zimene kalekale ndinkafuna? Agwire kukhumbira wake. Mu uzitsine, inu mukhoza kugula magazini ya Kama Sutra ndi kupereka osankhidwa kuyesa angapo kuika latsopano. Amathandiza ndi kugonana mosayembekezereka. Mwina ubwenzi wanu nthawi zonse amapezeka nthawi zina nthawi Mwachitsanzo, m'mawa. Ngati inu mwadzidzidzi ayambitse madzulo, munthu ndithudi kudabwa.

Kukachitika kuti yankho ku funso la mmene kudabwa munthu wokondedwa, si zogwirizana ndi cholinga chanu chofuna kusangalatsa mwamuna kapena mkazi, kuyesa kusintha. Mukhoza kuyamba ndi maonekedwe. Amadziwika kuti amuna ambiri yekha kulandira kusintha kwa fano la amachepetsa awo. Ndi cholinga chawo ndi chidwi. zovala zatsopano, hairstyle, chithunzi (inde, likulu olimba sadzakhala superfluous), mwamuna wake kuyang'ana pa inu monga ngati kwa nthawi yoyamba. Basi musati overdo izo, kotero kuti osachepera akhoza kudziwa kuti mnzanuyo.

Mukhoza kudabwa munthu mwanzeru. Kuti, kuyesa zinthu zatsopano mu munda, umene ndi chidwi wanu wosankhidwa. Mwina akazipereka kwambiri zokhudza zipangizo zamakono, magalimoto kapena kuk? Ngati inu simukudziwa kanthu za izo, yesani kudzaza kusiyana ichi Kalanga. Kotero, inu mumakhala zofunika mkazi, komanso chidwi conversationalist.

Achikondi kuzindikira zokongoletsera wokongola kapena chakudya candlelit. Inu mukhoza kupita pamodzi ndi odyera, kumene Mwakumana, kumuitanira kukayenda ku malo amene ali oyanjana ndi kosiyana za ubwenzi wanu.

Chinthu chofunika kwambiri kuona ndi kuzindikira kuti tiyenera kuchitapo kanthu mwamsanga. ubwenzi amakhala ndi chizolowezi posachedwapa. Ndipo ngati nthawi zonse kutenthetsa iwo, inu mukhoza kukhala moyo wako onse ndi chizolowezi kuti ngati chotikakamiza mwamuna wake kufunafuna chuma. Njira zikachitika - ndi, ndithudi, kusintha. Ndipo ngati mkazi sadzayang'ana njira kudabwa munthu wokondedwa, mwina tingoyamba kufunafuna zidindo atsopano kumbali.