Kodi moyo ngati mkazi wasiya

Zingatanthauze kuti osauka angayambe pamene anthu awiri amakondana, ndi kukhulupirira Kungoti osati asiya? Anthu kukumana, ndiye kukwatiwa, kukonzekera moyo m'tsogolo, kulota ku m'badwo pamodzi penapake mu nyumba yabwino pa gombe. Koma, mwatsoka, nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti banja adagawana mwadzidzidzi, mwakuwoneka popanda chifukwa chenicheni. Mwadzidzidzi madzulo, mkazi wake ananenera kuti akuchoka. Anafuna mokwanira, ndipo iye akufuna kusintha, choncho kupita ena. Ndicho malongosoledwe onse.

"Koma nanga bwanji loto cha tsogolo losangalatsa, tipeze ndalama kwa galimoto ndi ulendo Thailand? Pajatu zakonzedwa mwezi "- mutu dzombe maganizo ndi mafunso, koma monga ulamuliro, iwo onse osayankhidwa. Ambiri mwa mwamuna wake anachoka amakhulupirira kuti ngati mkazi wasiya, ali - otayika, koma ine, izo siziri choncho. Kwambiri kutaya wokondedwa zovuta. Onse bwino dzuwa likuwala, mphepo ikuwomba, kupita kwina pa ziziyenda malonda, m'bwalo zosangalatsa kukuwa ana, ndipo palibe lapamtima. Only izo zinali dzulo, ndi lero anapita kwa mkazi wa mnzake, ndipo palibe mtendere mu mtima mwanga.

Lekani! Pano pa cholemba izi m'nyimbo ayenera kusiya wozingwa, kudzikonda popemphera ndi ambiri mafunso losafuna. Ndatopa M'pofunika "ndisamacheze pamodzi" (chifukwa nthambi ali, ndi zimene zikhoza kukhala wokongola kwambiri?) Ndipo kusuntha! Ngakhale mkazi wake anamusiya wina, muyenera kuchita izo mwachibwanabwana, ndi kumanganso miyoyo yawo m'njira imene alibe nthawi maganizo opusa.

Nkofunika mosamala kukonza ndandanda yanu. Anapitirizabe pa kuntchito? Ndi nthawi agwera mu iwo ndi mutu wake. Khalani yaitali, tengani ntchito kunyumba, chinthu chachikulu - kujambula tsiku ndi miniti, kwa kufika kunyumba, ndimangofuna madzi osamba ndi kupita kukagona.

M'pofunikanso ntchito, ngati kale nkhani. Kulowa masewera othamanga ndi kuyenda zonse. Osati ndi mawonekedwe wangwiro ndi minofu amawapopa, kotero ndi chidaliro zidzawonjezedwa, ndiyeno msungwana amayamba Mwachidule powumbidwa.

Njira yaikulu kumasula mavuto ndi chikhalidwe. Ndipo kwenikweni limatanthauza nthawi iliyonse pachaka. M'nyengo yozizira - kutsetsereka, snowboarding, liwiro lapamatalala, chilimwe - mtsinje, kayaking, onunkhira skewers. Pali chiwerengero chachikulu mungachite kuti momwe kusiyanitsa zosangalatsa kuganizira kwambiri za chinachake, kupatula mkazi wake anachoka, ndi moyo wawo tanthauzo ..

Musaiwale za anzanu, koma osati anthu amene amauza kuti "adzawonongedwa mu kapu phiri", chifukwa mkazi wasiya, ndipo Ndithu ndikuthandiza kutuluka quagmire lapansi. Nawo, kupita masewera kuyamba, mpira, kuphana.

Osati zoipa komanso muthanso ena zosangalatsa. Mwina ino idzakhala chithunzi kapena kuphika, kapena maulendo mwina zonse ku bathhouse misa mankhwala. Mukhoza kuphatikiza zonsezi ndi - Chofunika, kwathunthu kutsegula okha ndi ntchito, ntchito, ntchito ndi mphindi osowa yopuma.

Kapena mwina inu nthawizonse ndinkafuna weniweni kumenyana galu mtundu, ndipo anali ndi wokondedwa? Chabwino, makadi dzanja lanu, chifukwa ngati mkazi wasiya, tsopano ndipo palibe zoletsa! Ndipo angakhale galu ndi mphaka, ndi chingolopiyo nsomba! Yesani kuyang'ana pa zinthu ku njira ina - tsopano mulibe chilichonse aliyense!

Ulamuliro zofunika - limaletsanso ndekha kuganiza za momwe zabwino zinali inu kukwatira, ndipo tsopano mkazi wake anachoka ndi dziko latembenuzidwa. nkhaniyi - taboo!

M'kupita kwa nthawi, ululu adzakhala kuchepa, chokhazikika, izo mosavuta. Padzabwera bata ndi kuzindikira kuti pali wofuna kumanga ndi chikondi chatsopano. Koma kuti mfundo imeneyi ndi kutali kwambiri ndi kokha ntchito ndi khama kudzakuthandizani kuti akakumane naye.

Kumbukirani kuti asangalale ndi kulola maganizo chisoni kuthana mosavuta, ovuta kwambiri, "kukoka nokha pamodzi" ndi kuwauza kuti: "Ine sindidzalola limp! Ine - munthu wamphamvu! Ndimatha ndipo ndidzakhala wokondwa! ". Ichi ndi mphamvu si aliyense, koma inu muyenera kuthetsa yovuta, ndi kuphunzira kukhululukira anthu, ndiye moyo kunyezimira ndi mitundu yatsopano.