Kuyamikira pa Tsiku la Kubadwa kwa Wodziwika Kapena Wodziwika

Pomwe kubwera kwa maholide, nzika iliyonse ikuyankhidwa ndi funso: chiyani choti mupereke, ndi mawu otani, momwe mungasayire positi? Izi zimakhala zofunika kwambiri ngati kuli kofunikira kukonzekera kuyamikira pa tsiku lobadwa la bwenzi.

Apa chofunikira kwambiri ndizomene anthu akudziwana bwino. Kwenikweni, ngati mnzanuyo "cap", pamene ulemu ndi wothandizira kapena bwenzi la abwenzi, sizikudziwika bwinobwino zomwe zingatheke kuti asakhumudwitse kapena mwangozi kuti alowe mumsokonezo. Choncho, ndikofunika kwambiri kuti muyambe kudzifunsa za njira ya moyo yomwe iyenera kuyamikiridwa.

Moni uliwonse uli ndi zilakolako zoyenera. Chinthu chabwino kwambiri pa nkhani ya mnzanu wochepetsetsa ndi kudziletsa nokha pa khadi lamasewera lomwe liri ndi zilembo kale zolembedwapo - monga tsopano zambiri zimagulitsidwa m'mabwalo odyetsera. Kuthokoza kotereku pa tsiku lobadwa la bwenzi, yemwe congratulator sali "pamlendo wochepa", ndizoyenera.

Koma ngati nthumwi yoyenera kugonana - woyandikana naye yemwe adakhala naye mwana, kapena membala wa gulu la zofuna, kapena wogwira ntchito amene adamwa tiyi imodzi yokha ya tiyi ndi kudya, monga akunena, "piritsi la mchere", ndi madzulo, Amuna, wina ndi mzake ndi amuna awo, nkokayikitsa kuti khadi laling'ono laling'ono lidzapereka mayi kapena mtsikana kukhala wokondwa.

Mwina, pokonzekera moni wa tsiku la kubadwa kwa mnzanu amene muli naye mgwirizano wapamtima, kodi wina ayenera kufooka pang'ono ndikumulembera chinthu chake, ndikugogomezera zosayanjanitsa za munthuyo? Mwachitsanzo, agogo achikondi angafune kuti "awerenge nkhani zambiri kuti nkhani za zidzukulu zawo zokondedwa zikwanira ku ukalamba wawo!" Ndipo "galu" kapena "galu-galu" adzasangalala kwambiri ngati mukulakalaka zaka zake zokondweretsa kwambiri pafupi ndi mabwenzi ake okondedwa anayi.

Kuyamikira pa tsiku la kubadwa kwa mnzanu yemwe amakonda ndakatulo kapena kulemba bukuli ayenera kuphatikizapo zofuna kupeza nyenyezi yosangalatsa mu fanizo la wofalitsa wabwino yemwe adzasindikize ntchito zake mu ma kopi miliyoni kapena owerenga othokoza. Mutha kumufunanso kuti alembere kalata yake yochititsa chidwi kuti "agwedeze dziko lonse ndi ntchito yake".

Kuyamikira pa bwenzi lachibadwidwe la chibwenzi kungakhale ndi zofuna zowonjezereka. Amene nthawi zambiri amanena mosangalala kuti amatha tsiku limodzi pabedi kutsogolo kwa TV, mungathe kulakalaka kwa zaka zambiri mzanga wapamtima anayi - sofa. Kawirikawiri oimira chilakolako chogonana samakonda kwenikweni mawu ochepa, koma bwino amazindikira kuseka komanso mwachinyengo. Makamaka ngati izi sizikhala zabwino, sangalalani "podnachka".

Kawirikawiri, kuseka kumafuna pafupifupi nthawizonse kumapindulitsa kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, akafuna "galimoto yamphongo" kapena "thumba la thanzi, matumba awiri achimwemwe ndi matumba atatu okondweretsa." Ndipo ndithudi palibe amene angakonde kukhumba kwa thumba la malingaliro, chithumwa ndi talente ... Pambuyo pake, potero ndikuyamikira zonena kuti lero wolemekezeka alibe wina kapena winayo, kapena lachitatu.

Choncho, ndibwino kukhala osamala kwambiri, ngati chisankho chikupangidwanso kuti "nthabwala" pang'ono pothokoza. Mwachibadwa, atsikana amakhala okhudzidwa kwambiri komanso osasangalatsa kuposa achinyamata. Ndipo, posankha kuti mubwere ndi zofuna zanu, muyenera kuyesa zonse bwino.

Kuyamikira pa tsiku lakubadwa kwa msungwana wodziwika bwino kumayenera kumatsindika kuti iye ndi wodabwitsa kwambiri: kukongola kosasangalatsa ndi chithunzithunzi, mawonekedwe okongola ndi malingaliro okhwima, kukonzekera kapena kusoka, kukonzekera kapena kuwerenga masalmo. Ndipo zokhumba ziyenera kulumikizana ndi moni: "Ndikukhumba iwe ukamakula bwino," "Ndikukhumba kuti okondedwa akuyamikira miniti iliyonse imene amakhala pafupi nanu, chifukwa palibe wina wotere padziko lapansi" ndi zina zotero.

Koma chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndikuthokoza wokondedwa mwamsanga, pakangopita nthawi. Komabe, izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kutchula tsiku la kubadwa kapena mtsikana wa tsiku lobadwa osati kuwala kapena mdima, makamaka ngati tsiku lobadwa limalowa tsiku limodzi kapena mumadziwa kuti munthuyu amakonda kugona nthawi yayitali, Ntchito. Ndi bwino kubwezeretsa izi zosangalatsa kwa ife tonse.