Mimba oyambirira: kusintha moyo wa Mtsikana?

Chifukwa atsikana kukhala pakati achinyamata? Amayi wakonda kuti ndiyankhule pa phunziro la maphunziro kugonana, kukhulupirira kuti mwana wake wamkazi manyazi ndi kutali kwambiri ndi mgonero ndi anyamata. Koma achinyamata ndi chidwi kotero kuti mukagonane alibe kukhala mbali ya msewu kapena mwana kovuta, amene anakulira popanda chikondi cha makolo.

History of Dzhin Kroto

Pamene 15 wazaka mtsikana, akadali mwana, nthawi yoyamba kugonana, zingayambitse maganizo otsutsana. Ngati kokha iye anali kale, kodi chidwi izi. Ngati kokha iye anali ndi mayi, ndiye kuti kugonjetsa manyazi, anapita ndi mafunso. Koma heroine wathu Dzhin Kroto anakweza achipembedzo ndi odzichepetsa mwabodza agogo.

Tsopano, patapita zaka 23, iye imakumbukirabe zomverera za tsikulo kudwala-fated, pamene iye anafika ndi mimba mayeso manja ake. Gene kuti mwina, ndinachita mantha ndi kukhumuditsidwa. Iye sankadziwa chimene adzakhale moyo wake mu zochitika posachedwapa. Kodi kuchita uthenga wa agogo ake, ndipo kodi banja lake uyu ndi amene anali ndi chibwenzi? Palibe amene anapereka malangizo ake za ubwenzi. Yekha malangizo agogo anali kufuna kupewa kulankhulana ndi anyamata. Ndipo iye kuzipewa, chifukwa patsogolo heroine wathu ndinataya unamwali wake, iye sanali ngakhale nampsompsona munthu.

"The madzi odikha kuthamanga kwambiri"

Agogo Jean anakulira chikondi, monga kulankhula zokhudza kugonana nyumba anali taboo. Tip kupewa kucheza ndi anyamata nthawi anagwira heroine athu pa "-kuphatikiza zisanu." N'kosavuta, wachinyamata yodzaza maphunziro ndi ntchito gawo masewera. nthawi wake zojambulidwa ndi miniti, kotero za kulankhulana ndi anyamata, iye sanaganize. Munthu yekhayo amene anaona, ankakhala moyandikana. Nthawi zambiri nawo mu makonde a holo masewera ndi anasinthanitsa mawu yaing'ono. Pamene woyandikana mnyamata anali kuphunzitsa ndi mpira bwalo, Jin zambiri anayang'ana pawindo kuyang'ana pa iye.

M'mene zinachitikira

Atangotuluka limodzi chikondwerero cha Tsiku lokumbukira ufulu wodzilamulira. Anthu Lolani makombola ndi osangalatsa. Zinaoneka kuti m'mudzi anazitsanulira mwa msewu. Mtsikanayo zambiri ananyalanyaza zochitika phokoso, koma iye anaona pa windo la mnzake. Iye sanadziwe kuti njira kuthamanga mumsewu adzakhala zinasintha iye. Achinyamata kusangalala pa tchuthi kuti ola limodzi, zovala zawo zonse anakhala onyowa thukuta. Pamene iwo onse adathamanga ku bafa pofunafuna mathawulo, wanga agogo palibe mtima kumira. Iye anali kudaliridwa mdzukulu wake kuti analola achinyamata logwirana okha mu chipinda Jean kumvetsera nyimbo. Kumene, ganizo la kugonana sizibwera ndi mtsikana. Agogo sanali kudziwa nkomwe chomwe akhoza kupatsana anyamata kutsogoleredwa ndi mahomoni. Jean anali wodabwa pamene munthu mwadzidzidzi kumupsompsona. Koma iye anali pa chifundo cha chikondi chake choyamba unyamata, chifukwa alibe kubzikhotcera Man kupirira.

Kodi akuganiza kuti atsikanawo pamene iwo kutaya unamwali wawo?

Chinthu chotsiriza ndinaganiza heroine wathu, ndi za mimba. Iye anali kuganizira kwambiri udindo ubale chinayambira komanso mmene kwambiri cha mwana wake. Iye anali zilizonse kuti muone kusintha zoonekeratu kuti thupi lanu. Ngakhale pakalibe kusamba, palibe matenda m'mawa si osokonezeka. Wodziwa zambiri bwenzi woyamba adawomba Alamu. Iye anafunsa mafunso angapo ndipo anagula nyumba mimba mayeso. Zotsatira mulibe kudikira nthawi yaitali. Mayeso anali wotsimikiza, ndipo kuli lonse Gene anatembenuka pa mutu wake. Kale anali mu sabata la 17 la mimba.

Pamsonkhano wina ndi atate a mwanayo

Ankaopa ndi udindo watsopano, milandu ndipo chikhulupiriro cha anthu. Chinthu choyamba Jean anapita nkhani yaikulu kwa bambo wa mwana wake. Iye sanayembekezere kuti angakonde uthenga, koma chifukwa cha kukambirana anali chabe wosasangalala. Mnyamatayo ananena momveka bwino kuti Gona ndi mbali ya mapulani ake. Mwamwayi, makolo awo ndi munthu konse kunyengedwa, kunena kuti sanakhalepo ndi izi ubwenzi mtsikana. Ngakhale anzawo wamba anayamba pa mbali zosiyana za kutilepheretsa kuti: "Mawu anu ndi mawu ake." Anthu sanali kudziwa yemwe kukhulupirira, koma heroine wathu ndekha ndi pathupi.

Dziko sizinali zabwino anthu

Mwamwayi, pafupi ndinkakhala achinyamata ena okwatirana ndi mwana wamng'ono. Mayi, tsiku lililonse akuyenda mu msewu stroller, iye anali chabe maphunziro a sekondale. mnansi A atangomva Jin pansi phiko lake ndi kuthandizira izo mpaka kubadwa kwa mwana.

Tsopano pali awiri

Bambo a mwanayo otchedwa Jin molunjika ku chipatala. Akusamba atsikana ankayembekezera kudzakhalanso. Komabe, iye sanayembekezere Zabwino, koma m'malo atamva mawu musankhepo: "Ine sinditi kutengera mwana. Ndipo Ndikukupemphani kuti asauze anzanga kuti ndine bambo. " Pamene Jean anayang'anitsitsa ting'onoting'ono wamakwinya nkhope ya mtsikana wakhanda, iye anangoyamba kulira chifukwa cha chisoni.

Anzathu ena am'kana pa iye

Zinali zaka zoposa ziwiri zapitazo, pamene milandu ya mimba unyamata pobereka ankaziona ngati chinthu chochititsa manyazi. Kwa atsikana amene abereka kwa woyamba, anali analandira sekondale dipuloma, njira yopita ku sukulu zinali kutsekedwa. Choncho, kwa Jean anatumizidwa ndi mphunzitsi munthu kuphunzitsa kunyumba, ngakhale kuti pamaso mimba iye anasonyeza zotsatira zabwino maphunziro awo. Pamene heroine athu anakumana ndi namwino sukulu, izo zonse chinaonekera. mkaziyo ananena kuti aphunzitsi ndiponso makolo sindikufuna atsikana ena anatenga chitsanzo choipa kwa iye.

Mtengo wa ubwenzi ndi ululu wa kupatuka

Zinali zachilendo ndifa ku sukulu. Koma bambo wa mwana wakhanda ndi moyo wabwino. Anaphunzira masewera monga kale, ndipo ngakhale nayo nthawi kuti tikumane ndi atsikana ena. Jean anayamba kuona kuti ena mwa anzake akale anasiya kuyankha mafoni. Palibe a iwo ndisanafikeko mwana. Mufufuze chimene chifukwa kusintha mwadzidzidzi, mayi wachitsikana iye adachemera ashamwali. Kodi makolo ndi achinyamata anayankha mosapita sindikufuna kulankhula ndi ana awo zimenezi mtsikana oipa. Ndipo kumapeto kwa aliyense kuitana anali limodzi ndi pempho konse kusokoneza banja lemekezedwa.

Ndipo kotero, pa siteji oyambirira mu miyoyo yawo, heroine wathu anaona kufunika kwa ubwenzi ndi ululu wa kupatuka. Mwamwayi, anali anthu amene amamuthandizanso. Mabwenzi enieni anakweza ndalama ndipo anathandiza kugula zofunikira kwa ana: machira, matiresi, tebulo ndi nsalu. N'zosadabwitsa kuti ngakhale panopa, zaka 23 pambuyo pake, anthu awa komanso mndandanda wa mabwenzi ake abwino.

Ngakhale alendo zinadzala ndi kunyoza

heroine athu amanena kuti m'mimba yace yatoma kukula kokha mu trimester wachitatu wa mimba. Komabe Chenjerani kunong'onezana kumbuyo kwake, kukumbukira maonekedwe a odutsa, zonse kunyozana. Ngakhale Jean anamuda kuonekera poyera, iye ankaona ngati mlendo mu "olondola" dziko. Tsiku lina, kukhala ndi pakati, heroine athu anapita basi yodzaza pa msewu vuto. mipando yopanda sanali, koma palibe m'basimo atakhala mu kanyumba, kuyang'ana pa mimba lalikulu la mtsikana sanali wofunitsitsa kupereka njira.

Pamapeto pake adapeza munthu wachifundo amene amuchitira mpando. Pamene mayi woyembekezera zitengere pamalopo, mayi wokalamba monyansidwa mofuula kuti: "Iye sakuyenera mwayi umenewu. Pa msinkhu wake ayenera kuphunzira, osati kukhala ndi ana. Mwa njira, inu sanaphunzitsidwe ntchito makondomu? "Koma Jean sankatha kunena podziteteza. Pamene iye anakhala pansi, kenako anatembenukira kwa zenera, kotero kuti palibe amene alipo okonzera anthu sanathe kuona misozi.

kutali chisoni

Tsiku lililonse Jean ndinadzifunsa chifukwa Zonsezi zinachitika. Iye mobwerezabwereza unrolling nthawi zapitazo ndipo mipukutu Kuyesa. Iye anachita izo ndi chilakolako mokhudza kuti chiyanjo cha anthu ena. Kwa kanthawi, mayi wamng'ono adali kudalira thandizo chikhalidwe, kupereka mwana sukulu ya mkaka ndi kupitiriza maphunziro awo. Iye ankadziwa kuti iye silidzakhala Lofewa kulenga malo abwino kwa mwana wake wamkazi.

Koma Jin anakana kumva chisoni ndi zonse ankazunza zolinga yaing'ono. Ankayesetsa mwakhama kuphunzira. Kenako anapeza njira bwino. Mwachitsanzo Izi zikhoza kukhala zimasonyeza peresenti ya 98 ya amayi amene anabereka achinyamata. Mwatsoka, kudzakhala kovuta kwambiri kupeza mphamvu kuti maphunziro apamwamba kwa zaka 30.