Pemphero chikondi - njira bwino kukonza moyo wanu

"... Ine ndinapeza iye amene moyo wanga akonda,
Ndinatenga iye ndipo mlekeni apite,
mpaka ine adamtulutsira m'nyumba mwa mayi wanga ... ".
"Nyimbo"

Ife tinabwera mu dziko lino kwa chikondi

Aliyense amene amabwera mu dziko lino likusowa chikondi. Man - ndi kukhala wodalira kwambiri pa kuwala a moyo wotchedwa chikondi. Choyamba, kuchokera pa nthawi yomweyo ya amayi ake, iye ndi wofunitsitsa kumuchotsa iye makolo ndi chilengedwe yomweyo: achibale, abale, abwenzi. Kukula, iye amazindikira kuti ayenera chikondi cha munthu wina. chikondi Izi ndi zosiyana: si wochezeka, osati bambo ndi mayi, osati fraternal, chosiyana ... Chikondi ndi mlendo kwambiri amene avomera kuti kupereka miyoyo yawo. Apa mu mphindi ino munthu amazindikira kuti ali wokonzeka osati kuvomereza chikondi, ndi wokonzeka kudzipereka (chifukwa chikondi - sipatenga ndi kutenga ndi kupereka ndi kupereka) ndipo sangalalani pamenepa.

Kodi kufunafuna chikondi ndi chiyani pemphero la chikondi?

munthu wamkulu Kodi, pamene iye akuona kufunikira kwa chikondi, koma sakuona mumsewumo, munthu amene angathe kukonda ndi amene zimayenderana pa moyo wathu? Tiyenera kufunsa chilengedwe chonse kwa munthu woteroyo. Popeza kuti ganizo chuma - kalekale ndi osatsutsika choonadi. Izi zikuonekera mwa sayansi (makamaka kuwerenga maganizo), zipembedzo zonse, nzeru, ndi mitundu yosiyana kudziwa anapeza mwa anthu kwa zaka zikwi zambiri, werengani motere: ngati munthu mwamphamvu akufuna chinachake ndi kupempha, iye ndithu zimene mukufuna. Pamenepo anamanga zinthu zonse zamatsenga, akuti Yesu mu Chipangano Chatsopano: kugogoda, ndipo adzatsegula, funsani ndipo adzapatsidwa. Kodi kupempha chikondi? Izo zimatengera amene mukufunsa, amene inu mukufuna kuti ena chikondi, ndi pempho lanu. Kodi mukufuna kuti chokonda kwambiri mizimu kwa makamu osiyanasiyana wosadziwika, ntchito matsenga ndi maula. Kodi izo? Ngati bwino - kanthu. Mu koipa - magulu ankhondo osadziwika kupeza chinthu choopsa, ndiye izo zidzakhala kuthana nazo okha, koma kwa mizimu konse kuchedwa chinthu chabwino nokha ... bwino ndi odalirika kwambiri onse - kupempha thandizo kwa Mulungu, ndiye kumufunsa pemphero. Muyenera pemphero la chikondi.

pemphero za chikondi?

Kuti adziteteze ku mizimu yoipa isasokoneze umbeta ndi zina machenjerero oterewa nsanje ena ndi udani muyenera kuwerenga Salmo 90. kuwerenga Baibulo nthawi zambiri 1 nthawi patsiku, kapena osachepera 1 nthawi pasabata. Izi zidzathandiza kuchotsa kopanda akhudzidwa kuwonongeka, ngati, ndi kuteteza kuukira latsopano. Sankhani pemphero chifukwa cha chikondi cha buku pemphero, kapena kunena mawu anu. Pemphero ali mapemphero ukwati asungwana ndi amuna. Ndikufuna kuweruza chakuti simudzapeza kumeneko monga pemphero chikondi cha munthu, kapena pemphero chikondi msungwana. Kukonda atsikana popanda ukwati ngati tchimo. Kupempha chikondi chimenechi, ndithudi, inu simungakhoze kukhala Mulungu. Choncho kwambiri kuthana ndi vuto la chinsisi, m'pofunika kufunsa za ukwati. Amene, Mulungu yekha adzakusonyezani. Kuchita izi, inu muli naye ndiponso kutsatira. Khulupirirani mwa Mulungu chiyenera kukhala, mu chinenero chamakono, ndi kusakhulupirika. Samalani pemphero la chikondi:

• Ambuye Mulungu kwa atsikana za ukwati bwino
• Mariya Namwali Wodalitsidwa
• Saint Matrona wa Moscow
• Nikolayu Chudotvortsu ukwati
• Barbara
• Xenia wa St. Petersburg

Palinso chodabwitsa pemphero Katolika St. Yosefe, mwamuna wabwino. Chinthu china bwino kudzifunsa kuti mayi anga kupempherera Catherine wamkazi wa mkwatibwi zabwino. pemphero akuchikazi ndi wamphamvu kwambiri komanso zothandiza.

Kodi mukudziwa tsogolo lanu?

Amuna ndi akazi, ngati wina kumeneko, kuti atsimikize ngati kuti ndi munthu amene wosakwatira anatumiza zochitika moyo, ndi zothandiza kwambiri pemphero ili: Ambuye, ndipereka kwa inu ubwenzi wanga ndi (dzina munthu). Ngati iwo kupindula ine, mulole izo (iye) adzakhala mkazi wanga (mwamuna). Ngati uyu ndi mwamuna, zonse zimapita ku ukwatiwo - ngati si madzi anagawanika. Pankhaniyi, musayese kubwerera munthuyo. Mulungu chifukwa ananena momveka bwino - si lanu.

Kodi kupempherera chikondi?

Mulungu sasamala momwe iwe popemphera, kuti ndi zimene mukunena. Chinthu chachikulu - kuti mukumvera. Iye amayang'ana mumtima mwanu ndi kuwona chirichonse chimene inu mukufuna kunena. Choncho yesani kufotokoza maganizo anga oona mtima ndi maganizo muyeretsa ndi momveka, mu malo oyamba yekha. Chifukwa, ngati izo, funsani mtima wanu wonse ndi maganizo ake onse, ndiyeno zinafika pochitika. Ngati mukufuna chikondi, muyenera kudziwa ndi kuzindikira chikondi chotani. Ndipo ndinu okonzeka kuyankha kumverera? Ine ndikufuna, koma sindikudziwa tanthauzo chakuti: sindikufuna kuchita, kapena - Ndine zoterozo, ine ndikufuna ulendo. Kumbukirani, ngati ngalawayo sakudziwa kumene kupita, mphepo ndi mosayembekezera kwa iye. Sangalalani m'chikondi.