Chifukwa kulota pa nyanja?

Ngati m'maloto tikuona madzi, kaya ndi mathithi, mtsinje, mtsinje kapena nyanja, ndi zonse mwanjira ina zikugwirizana ndi chikumbumtima chathu. Pa madzi woyera kapena zonyansa, chipwirikiti otaya kapena bata pamwamba ndipo zimadalira kumasulira maloto. Akuti bwino, madzi aukhondo nthawi zonse limaneneratu machiritso kapena malipoti kuti tili pamzere olondola lamanja. Chabwino, ndi ambiri, ndi akulankhula za maloto amene tikuona nyanja? Tinganene, malinga adzidzidzi wathu, Mulimonsemo, ikuimira dera la achibadwidwe ndi maganizo, nthawi zambiri sangathe kuziletsa chifukwa. Kumvetsa zimene loto nyanja pa nkhani iliyonse, timayesa kuti awafike pamtima mabuku osiyana loto.

Ambiri mwa anthuwa kuti momasuka gombe maloto zikukhudza mitundu yonse ya zilakolako ndi chisangalalo, ndi anasefukira kuchenjeza za kufunika kuugwira mtima, kotero iwo sali wozingidwa ndi mutu wake. Sandy Beach ndi amatikumbutsa chakuti zonse posapita nthawi akudutsa - amachiza nthawi zinachitikira iliyonse, monga madzi nyanja akutembenukira miyala mu mchenga chabwino. Open nyanja - chizindikiro cha lokoma ndi maganizo. Ngati danga ili mukukhulupirira mu maloto, maloto anu akwaniritsidwa. Koma ngati kuyang'ana pamwamba pa nyanja, mumaona nkhawa kapena mantha - Kodi sangachitenso maganizo ndi achibadwidwe, kupeza mphamvu kupondereza iwo.

Ngati m'maloto nyanja ndi bata kwambiri ndipo ngati moyo, ndi chizindikiro cha kutopa, makamaka maganizo. Mwina tiyenera kuganizira zina ndi izo kuti zipite. Pitani ku gombe kapena gombe m'maloto - msewu, kuonera nyanja - kuyembekezera uthenga, kuya kwa nyanja kuti aone - zobisika nkhawa. Chifukwa loto la kusambira panyanja? Downers kunena kuti akwaniritse chokhumba.

Tiyeni tiyese tikupeza chimene loto nyanja mu buku maloto Freud a. Woyambitsa wa psychoanalysis ankakhulupirira kuti maloto ichi sichina, koma ngati chizindikiro cha umuna, mimba ndi kubadwa. Mafunde nyanja, ngati inu mukukhulupirira izi m'buku maloto, zikusonyeza kuti ubwenzi wanu ndi mnzanu m'pofunika kuonanso kusintha, ndipo izo zikhoza kukhala ofunika kuganiza za kuswa. Ngati inu kuyenda m'mphepete mwa nyanja, ndiyeno mu chenicheni mukudwala chakuti sanali kukumana akadali theka. Ndipo ngati muli m'madzi, muzindikira ndi ana, simufuna, ndi mosalingalira kuchepetsa kulankhula kugonana.

Lapamtima maloto buku amapereka chidwi kwambiri kutanthauzira. Nyanja bata, ziribe kanthu kumene muli pa izo sizinkawoneka - kuchokera m`chombo kapena pa nyanza, amanena kuti zinthu zidzasintha posachedwa, chifukwa udzapeza zimene mukufuna kutero. Akaona wina amasambira, kotero kwenikweni mukhoza kuthandiza munthu uyu kuthetsa vuto lomwe iye sangakhoze kupirira. Ngati inu kusambira, ndiye zonse zili bwino mu moyo wanu, ndipo inu mukumverera nokha zabwino. Mukuyesa kulowa mafunde, chipwirikiti nyanja - mudzakhala ndi zosaiŵalika usiku wa chikondi. Ngati inu kusambira m'madzi, ndiye simufunika kudziwa zimene mukufuna kuphunzira kotero, uyu adzachititsa nkhawa yekha.

Ndimalota Miller mosiyana kufotokoza zimene loto nyanja. Choncho, kumva mu maloto wonyong'onya phokoso la mafunde, zikutanthauza kuti moyo akudikira wotopetsa ndipo uninteresting, adzakhululukidwa mosatsata osati chikondi, komanso kutenga mbali wochezeka. Nthawi zambiri, maloto amenewa, malinga Dream Miller, kusonyeza kuyembekezera pachabe ndiponso kuti wolota mwauchidakwa amachita zokondweretsa achithupithupi, kuiwala zosowa za moyo. Koma ngati mtsikana akulota kuti iye glides pamwamba pa madzi, pamodzi ndi wokonda ake, maloto ake girlish mosangalala akwaniritsidwa.

The funso - kodi loto nyanja, amapereka mayankho mwatsatanetsatane olemekezeka maloto buku. Nyanja ndi chizindikiro cha ukulu ndi osawerengeka, maloto amenewa onena kuti moyo wolota ndi apo pakubwera nthawi imene zonse sadalira ntchito yawo, koma ku zinthu kunja. Komanso, ngati nyanja ndi zamwano, ndi chikumbumtima ndi za kuswa kulamulira, kuti zikhoza kuwonongeka. Bakuman bata limanena kuti nthawi kukula mwauzimu. Ambiri m'nyanja thovu maloto - chiyembekezo pachabe. Mwezi pansi pa nyanja - ndi akumane chizindikiro Komabe, njira mwezi - wachimwemwe ndi mtendere moyo.

Koma chophweka njira tanthauzo esoteric kumasulira maloto maloto, chimene moyo wathu uli ngati nyanja. Choncho, pamene inu nokha anaona loto, poyerekezera ndi nyanja (pa gombe, pamwamba, pansi), ndi kumene inu muli pompano mu moyo.