Kodi kusunga banja

Mabanja ambiri amene atangothamangitsidwa kumene losangalala, si mphindi wangwiro kudziwa kuti ndi nthawi yoganizira za momwe banja kukhala pamodzi. Zili zovuta, koma mwamwayi, n'zotheka. Lapamwamba nthawi popatsa wina mphatso zina ndi chiyembekezo duwa apitirira mu ubale si bola ngati tikufuna. Pamene banja limakhala banja, akuyamba ntchito tsiku zolimba bwino ake ndi osangalala coexistence. Banja mavuto m'banja adzakhala kwambiri, choncho usakhale nawo mantha. Chilekano - izi kwambiri kunja, koma kusunga banja muyenera kuphunzira.

Kudziwa kuti ubwenzi akhoza deadlocked ena malo. Choncho, inu musanakafike nsonga pa momwe banja kukhala pamodzi, muyenera kumvetsa zimene amafuna izo. Choyamba, mungayambe kuona kuti pang'onopang'ono kukhala zoipa pagulu ngakhalenso pamaso pa ana sikungalepheretse chitukuko. Kachiwiri, kukangana anu apita mfundo zomveka chomvetsetseka, kusiya recriminations yekha ndipo amakwanitsa kupita kwa munthu ( "inu kupusitsa", "Mukuwoneka ngati amayi ako," "ndi maphunziro anu," ndi zina zotero). Chachitatu, mwamuna akhala unatha chidwi nkhani za m'banja, ndipo mkazi wake M'malo mwake pambali kukonza nsanza ndi sanaone chilichonse, kuphatikizapo slovenly maonekedwe ake. Chachinayi, ena a inu nthawi zonse evades kugonana. Chachisanu, nkhondo kwayamba zochepa ndipo m'malo mwa chete imfa. Ichi ndi gawo lotsiriza ndi pakufunika kuchitapo kanthu ndipo mwina amatchula za zamaganizo banja, amene ndikuuzani mmene angachitire ndi kapena kusunga banja ambiri.

Mavuto moyo wanu ndi nambala yaikulu. Uyenera kukhala wokonzekera izo ndi kuwaphunzitsa ulemu kugonjetsa. Crisis kokasangalala kumeneko pa siteji koyamba za m'banja pamene zinthu zazing'ono kuti anali sakumvetsa kukhala zooneka ndi chifukwa osachepera - anazunguzika, pazipita - kuyabwa. woyamba mavuto nthawi zonse pamene mwana wabadwa. mwamuna ndi kusakhutira ndi kupanda chidwi moyenera komanso kugonana ndi mkazi zonse kutopa komanso kutopa. Amuzolengedwa mavuto kumatanthauza kuti patapita zaka zingapo banja kugonana salinso okwanira munthu kukopeka, chifukwa imafoola. Choncho, m'pofunika kuti zinthu zina wamba. The vuto la tsiku lililonse, amayi galimoto, m'ma moyo ndi ambirimbiri akufuna kusokoneza moyo wa banja lanu. Kotero kuti iwo zapita amaona ngati n'kotheka ndi modekha, muyenera kudziwa zina mwa malamulo a momwe banja kukhala pamodzi.

Choyamba, muyenera kuphunzira kuganiza m'njira zabwino. Zoipa, chabe kukusalani ku mitu yawo. maganizo anu akhoza kusintha kokha inu ndi wina aliyense. Lekani akudandaula kuti abwenzi theka lachiwiri. Ndi bwino kuyesa kupeza mnzake wa khalidwe labwino ndipo iwo kudzitama. Phunzirani kukondwerera zonse ndi zabwino, zimene zimapangitsa nyumba mnzanuyo - kuzindikira zimenezi ndipo usamfunse kwambiri.

Khalani ndi ulamuliro konse kukumana mwamuna wake ku ntchito ndi Moody kapena wowawasa mawu. Ndi bwino kugawana naye maganizo abwino ndi kukhala wokongola, komanso wosangalala moyo. Mkazi popanda zochitika kunyumba ayenera kulimbana ndi maonekedwe ake. Sikuti kuvala wokalamba nyumba odula kapena thalauza ndi mawondo anatambasula. Muyenera kukhala mfumukazi ngakhale popanda zodzoladzola ndi zodzoladzola. Umadzikondera wekha - ichi ndi chikhalidwe zazikulu zimene mwamuna komanso adzakonda ndi kunyadira inu. Lekani kulamulira mu theka lachiwiri, kumpatsa ufulu. Kugonana ayenera zatenga kwambiri pa moyo wanu, musaphonye chimwemwe cha ubale ndi mwamuna wake chifukwa cha kukangana kapena mbale kutsukidwa.

Njira mmene kuika banja. Sankhani yoyenera kwambiri ndi kupanga khalidwe la bwino ndekha ndi mwamuna wanga.