Kodi kuteteza umoyo wa mwanayo kapena zimene simuyenera kuchita pakati

Amayi ena amaona kuti mimba - ndi pafupifupi matenda, ndi yovuta mu moyo wa mkazi aliyense, koma izi siziri choncho. Ndi yowala ndi wokondwa nthawi pokonzekera chozizwitsa. Koma kuti kudikira mwana wathanzi ndi dzipulumutse, muyenera kudziwa kuti simungathe kuchita pakati.

Ngati mumamvetsera grandmothers, amayi, oyandikana nawo anzawo komanso azimayi osiyanasiyana, n'zotheka kupeza zinthu zachilendo zimenezi za mimba: Kodi ndipo sangathe kuchita mayi woyembekezera. Likukhalira, ambiri amakhulupirira kuti n'zosatheka kuchita zinthu ofunika pakati, ndi zokayikitsa. Mwachitsanzo, kubudula mbewu, kulukana kapena embroider, penyani maliro, kudula tsitsi lawo, popachika zovala ndipo, ndithudi, Chapafupi aliyense. Zingatanthauze kuti onse palibe kugwirizana , ndi zina zamkhutu.

Koma si kanthu kuti anthu amalemekeza ukalamba ndi nzeru yochokera ndi zinachitikira. Mwachitsanzo, posachedwapa, asayansi atsimikizira kuti mbewu zokazinga ndi mankhwala omwe amachititsa kamvekedwe ka chiberekero, kotero akazi amene mimba ali pangozi, ndi bwino ndekha akufunira izi kukana. Monga zovala, mkazi anapachika pamaso pa minda zingwe mkulu, ichi iwo anali kufika pamwamba. Iwo likukhalira kuti simungathe kuchita woyembekezera, choncho yaitali ataima ndi manja ake mmwamba, makamaka magawo oyambirira mimba chifukwa zingachititse kuti kumulowetsa wa mwana wosabadwayo ndi chingwe umbilical.

Kaya kukhulupirira zina mwa zizindikiro, zimene palibe njira zenizeni, kusankha chilichonse pa mayi awo. Koma apa, mwatsoka, ena zikhulupiriro kanthu amachita chimamangidwa mwana malowolo, kapena miyezi M'sitolo pa zonse muyenera. Ndiyeno abambo achinyamata mopupuluma kuthamangira masitolo mpaka mkazi ndi rebonochkom bodza m'chipatala ndi kugula zonse zofunika ndi zosafunika. Koma pamodzi ndi kugula mkazi zikuku, cribs, raspashonok ndi zovala ndi zotsatira zabwino pa boma la mayi woyembekezera.

Koma pali zinthu zina zimene pamndandanda wa zimene sizingakhoze kuchitidwa kwa amayi apakati.

Choyamba, mufunika kuleka kusuta. Ndipo palibe chifukwa chomveka yokha mitundu yonse ya absurdities za chakuti ndi nkhawa yaikulu kwa thupi. Zimenezi zikutanthauza kuti, kusuta - izi ndi zoona zovuta zinyenyeswazi kuti sindingakhoze kumvetsa chifukwa mayi anga alakwira iye. Sikuti mwa zipinda utsi odzazidwa, ndi kulola anzanu, achibale ndi anzake kusuta pamaso panu.

Kachiwiri, ndithudi, muyenera kulowa taboo pa mtundu uliwonse wa mowa kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Mfundo kuti pali mlingo otetezedwa, m'pofunika kuiwala. Izi ndi nthano zonse anthu ofooka amene sakhoza kudzikana ndekha zosangalatsa. Ndipo zamanja anthu amene amapindula nawo omwe tabadwira m'badwo ofooka ndi chimanga chosakhwima. Sikuti kutsogoleredwa ndi connoisseurs ngati a mowa, sipafunika kuwononga nokha ndi mwana wanu.

Kachitatu, m'pofunika kusiya tiyi kapena khofi, ngakhale ngati poyamba sanathe kukhala popanda angapo makapu a khofi tsiku. Asayansi yaitali anapeza kuti ntchito yambiri pa Kafeini kumabweretsa chiopsezo padera, komanso kubadwa kwa mwana ndi kulemera otsika kubadwa.

Kachinayi, m'pofunika kuonanso amadya mosamala. Yoletsedwa ndi mitundu yonse ya chotchedwa sushi ndi masikono, nyama yaiwisi, mkaka atsopano. Onse zipatso ndi masamba ayenera bwinobwino osambitsidwa. Simukhala nawo lokoma ndi zipatso.

Chachisanu, muyenera kuyesera kupita ndi zidendene okwera pa yekha m'munsi, yesetsani chisokonezo ndi umagwirira chilichonse (osati utoto tsitsi lanu, misomali), musati overheat. Katemera ndi sikuthandiza.

Anthu ambiri akudziwa kuti simungathe kuchita pakati, pakati ndi zimene mukhoza kuchita?

Ndipo inu mukhoza kuchita zonse kumabweretsa chimwemwe, osati kovulaza thanzi. Ambiri amayenda, kupuma mpweya wabwino, kusangalala kukongola kwa chilengedwe ndi luso, mafilimu wabwino, kuwerenga mabuku. Mukhoza chikondi pozungulira ndipo amaona kuti dziko lonse amakukondani. Mukhoza chizolowezi moyo wathanzi ndi kutenga monga maziko a tsogolo. Mukhoza kukhala wokongola kwambiri, okondwa ndi yowala, chifukwa mayi wapakati - ndi wosamvetsetseka chozizwitsa ndi chinsinsi chachikulu.