Mitundu ya kulankhulana: osiyana, koma ofanana,

Kodi kulankhulana? Kodi munthu kukhala popanda izo? Chifukwa chiyani kuli kofunikira? ndi zolinga za kulankhulana chiyani? Nkhanizi ndi chidwi anthu ambiri, iwo anaphunzira kuwerenga maganizo. Tiyeni tiyese kumvetsetsa.

kulankhulana mfundo akusonyeza ndondomeko ya ntchito mogwirizana kuti amapezeka pakati pa anthu ndi cholinga chake chofuna kukhazikitsa ndi kukhala mabwenzi, chidziwitso cha wina ndi mnzake. Kulankhulana kumafuna chikoka tonse okhudzidwa pa mapangidwe malingaliro a wina ndi mzake, lamulo la makhalidwe, kukhazikitsidwa kwa zinthu olowa.

Mwachidule, kulankhulana lotha - ndi ubwenzi pakati pa anthu, mitundu yonse ya zochita za anthu.

Asayansi mosiyana kuganizira kugonana Ntchito.

Ena sukulu za kuwerenga maganizo amakhulupirira kuti kulankhulana ndi ntchito ndi awiri ofanana mbali aliko (umunthu) anthu. Ena amaona ntchito pofuna kuyankhulana lotha, muzilankhulana palokha - monga chinthu chofunika wa malonda. Enanso amakhulupirira kuti yapadera, ntchito yeniyeni.

Aliyense view ali kulungamitsidwa yake Choncho, ufulu kulibe. Mu tsiku ndi tsiku ntchito moyo ndi kulankhulana zambiri zinthu mogwirizana, koma zina Angawasandutse malo payekhapayekha mzake.

Communication, monga mtundu uliwonse wa ubale wa anthu, ali ake cholinga, okhutira, mitundu, maganizo, zopinga mbali ntchito.

Okhutira kulankhulana Mipikisano chilango. Zimakhala:

• Chuma, zochokera kuwombola katundu wa ntchito.
• Chidziwitso, kufalitsa nzeru.
• Zinthu zimene kuwombola maluso kapena luso.
• Salembedwa, umalimbana kusintha mkhalidwe psycho-maganizo a interlocutor lapansi.
• Angalimbikitsire, kuonetsanso chilengedwe cha zolinga zina, zolinga kanthu.

Zamkatimu kwakukulukulu ndiyo njira zolankhulirana. Zimathandizanso bwino ndondomeko kulankhulana, kuthandiza cholinga.

Zamoyo zonse kukambirana ogaŵikana mitundu iwiri chachikulu: mwachindunji kapena kudzera m'njira zina.

Lero ndi nthawi yambiri anthu anatenga yoyamba kulankhulana (wochedwanso mozungulira). The kulanda zambiri malonda ndi fax, deta kufala pafoni kapena pa Intaneti, anyamata nkhani ya intermediaries ali nkhoswe, kulankhulana zina. Kwambiri konyezimira Mwachitsanzo - ochezera. Maola kulankhulana ndi mabwanawe kutali, munthu akhoza sadzaona mnzake wake.

Posankha maonekedwe osiyana kulankhulana, kukhudza, kapena pafupi, sizingatheke, koma zamaganizo amaona kuti asonyeza. Communication "pamasom'pamaso" amalola kutsatira maphwando mwachindunji anachita ntchito (mau mawu) ndipo sanali wapakamwa mogwirizana zikutanthauza. Dama nkhope, manja, intonation ndi zina zotero. Ndi sanali wapakamwa kulankhulana kumathandiza kutsimikizira omvera kuwunika zolinga za interlocutor ndi zoona. Wapakamwa ndipo sanali wapakamwa mawonekedwe kulankhulana ogwirizana ndi kuonana. Tikhoza kunena kuti iwo ali limodzi.

Zamaganizo lero kugawana mfundo kulankhulana m'njira zambiri, akuluakulu ndi:

• Mosaonetsera. Communication pakati alendo, osati zofuna kupitiriza. Zitsanzo: okwera zoyendera odutsa mumsewu, omvetsera pa zoimbaimba. Atalandira zofunika, kapena zaka nthawi yochepa pamodzi, anthu samagwirizana nazo.
• Yokhala-udindo (zinchito). Mtundu kulankhulana "wapamwamba-Kumvetsela", "wogula-wogulitsa", "wantchito wantchito". Motalika kwambiri komanso nkhani apa ndi mabwenzi utumiki. Ogwira ntchito ambiri amakhala nthawi yaitali pamodzi ndi kudziwa zambiri za mzake.
• Mwamwayi. Mitundu yonse ya kutali-ntchito ndi ubwenzi vnedelovyh:

- Mwambo (mwachitsanzo, asilikali pa msonkhano "kutenga sawatcha," bwino akonzedwa poganiza yochepa yankho la funso za mmene choncho, etc.).

- nkhanza, kutanthauza kukhudzana okonda chili ndi njira wapakamwa ndipo sanali chabe.

- Mitundu ina ya kulankhulana.

Masiku ano, nthawi zambiri zimatengera kuti zimagwirira ntchito-udindo kulankhulana ndi kulankhulana mothandizidwa ndi njira luso. Ndi mitundu kusintha kulankhulana, mitundu yake ndi chuma pa nthawi.