Moonetsera lamanja: tani kulimbikitsa nokha

Ndipotu, kudzitamandira zikhoza kukhala zothandiza kwambiri. Anthu amene molondola kumasulira zawo zikayenda bwino, osati kuchuluka awo kudzidalira, komanso kuoneka ngati zambiri woyenera mu maso a ena. M'nkhani ino tikambirana chiyani moonetsera si manyazi.

chabwino Line

bouncers Moyenera konse analandiridwa ndi anthu. Komanso, zikhalidwe zambiri, anthu kupereka msonkho kwa kudzichepetsa. Pa boaster anapangidwa kwa kumuseka monyodola, koma ngati ali adazolowera kutamanda yekha kwasanduka ndi zimabwezera dala kudzilemekeza, izo kuyambira kumvutitsa ena. Monga mukudziwa, moona kukondera, inu sichidzatha konse kwa woyenera munthu. Zamaganizo akhala anaphunzira vuto limeneli ndipo anayamba njira yeniyeni kanthu. Ntchito yanu - kuti pang'onopang'ono, pakati pa zina ndi kugawana ndi ena zipambano zawo. Basi chifukwa utumiki wanu amayamikiridwa. Tsopano inu mukhoza kuwona umboni uliwonse.

Musachite intrusive

N'kupusa kutamanda yekha ngati aliyense wa inu sanafunse. Anthu chabe sindikumvetsa. Mukayamba kucheza, imene inu kupemphedwa mafunso okhudza maphunziro anu, mukhoza kuona ola lake abwino. Ngati kudzitama wanu zikulumikizana mogwirizana ndi kukambirana nkhani, izo thunthu kusintha malonda. Zamaganizo kutsogolera Mwachitsanzo chidwi. The ngwazi yaikulu kuyesera sayansi anali wongopeka amene ntchito kudzitamandira zipambano zawo mayeso. Munthu anachita izo mwadala, iwo anazindikira ndi ziwalo zina zoipa. Koma zinali zokwanira matamando khalidwe lokha poyankha mutu, wathuyo mnzake ngati lingaliro la nthawi yomweyo wosinthika. Tsopano ophunzira ndithu anaganiza kuti iye anali zabwino munthu. Ndipo zimenezi ngakhale kuti mu matchalitchi amene amati ndi waukulu ngwazi experimental akhoza kudzitamanda ndi zimene anachita zina.

Kuli koyenera?

Usaope chitamando yekha m'madera kwa inu kwenikweni akuyembekezera, monga ntchito kuyankhulana pa usilikali bungwe. Komanso, inu mukhoza kulemba mndandanda wa luso lako luso ndi zimene anachita mu kukambirana ndi bwana wa. Taganizani za izo monga ulaliki anu.

Safuna kuti asapitirire interlocutors

Ngati kutsindika zipambano zawo pokambirana ndi anthu wamba, alibe chizolowezi kutamanda yekha poyerekeza ndi zomwe ena. Chimenechi ndi chifukwa palibe amene amakonda. Anthu adzaganiza muli mwadala kuika pansi ulemu wawo. Choncho, kuthetsa kwa mawu anu samovozvyshayuschie kuti ndinu wantchito bwino la mweziwo, wophunzira bwino kumene, kapena kunyada sukulu. mawu onse awa kokha chifukwa maganizo. M'malo kuyerekeza zikayenda wanu ndi zomwe ena, yesani zotsatirazi vuto lililonse phwando.

Yerekezerani mlingo wawo ndi zotsatira zawo zakale

Yerekezerani zikayenda kwanu ndi zakale. Choncho, mumasonyeza kuti mulibe kuyesezera kukhala "woyamba uyo m'mudzi." Tiuzeni za momwe munaphunzira izi luso kudzera mwakhama kuphunzitsa. Tchulani mu kukambirana ndi munthu amene mumadziwa mabwenzi (ndi silikukambapo za zosangalatsa). Ndipo, ndithudi, kupewa kuluma witticisms adani. Nkhani za zipambano chanu chisakhale chifukwa cha nsanje ndi dumbo, ndi maganizo chabe zabwino ndi ulemu.

kupeza anali ofanana ndi

Mukhoza "kugulitsa" mwini, kudalira izi m'khalapakati malonda. Palibe chifukwa chochitira manyazi. zikayenda wanu m'kamwa mwa gulu lachitatu muli zambiri zimene zimawapangitsa kukhulupirira. Monga kufunsa mnzanu, kulemekezedwa munthu, ndikuuzeni inu unvarnished. Ndipotu anthu ntchito kudalira maganizo a gulu lachitatu, ngati iwo paokha sangathe kupanga maganizo.

Kafukufuku wina wochitidwa ndi asayansi Chidanishi, anthu ayesedwa makhalidwe a yamtunduwu asamangochita zimene akufuna limene munthuyo kapena anzake. Kukachitika kuti anthuwo anali kukhulupirira kuti kulengeza anali umene wolemba, nthawi zambiri amaonedwa iye woyenera mwadala mpweya. Ngati maonekedwe a munthu wakhala wopita gulu lachitatu, gulu ankangokhalira kukhulupirira kwambiri olembedwa. Izi kamodzinso zimatsimikizira chakuti timakonda kudalira maganizo a anthu ena, ngakhale tikudziwa kuti kunena amachokera mkamwa mwa nkani munthu (mwachitsanzo, mnzanu wapamtima).

Ntchito ndi omvera

Iwo likukhalira kuti kudzitama kungakhale njira bwino, malinga. Ngati omvera amamvetsera munthu, zotamandira ubwino wawo, ndi zedi kumva chilichonse. Kumlingo, sizidzakhala pa dzanja. Anthu ndithudi kuganizira inu mwano boor. M'malo mwake, kudzitamandira mwina amaona ngati omvetsera ndi ambiri, ndi ophunzirawo nthawi zonse kuganizira zinthu zina.

Mwachitsanzo, mukhoza monyadira afotokoze nyota awo pa msonkhano kapena mafunso gulu. Koma choyamba, komabe ganizilani zinthu. Mu zikhalidwe za akamagwiritsa wothinikizidwa, ndi mawu mkulu otaya kudzitamanda anu zambiri kukhala padera. Ngati mu msonkhano yaitali motero, pali zambiri yomangika Imani, sangachitepo pochita ulaliki. Koma ngati pamene gulu kumvera inu monga ngati amangotchula, kuyesa kwanu bwino. Multitasking adani awo zododometsa ndipo osati kupanga chithunzithunzi zoipa inu.

Musati khama Kudzichepetsa kwambiri

Kuwonjezera kudzitamanda ndi wofunitsitsa, kudzichepetsa kwambiri, nawonso kutulutsa kuganiza zoipa ofunsidwawo lapansi. Anthu amene ali ovuta kwambiri okha ndi kunyoza nyota awo, mofanana ngakhale zosakwana bouncers wosapita m'mbali. Choncho, ndi chizolowezi kulankhula za iye mwini kudziletsa deprecatingly. Kumlingo mupereka unsembe interlocutors. Zitatero, iwo osati kubwereza mawu anu, koma kwambiri ndikuganiza za inu. Kumbukirani mbali imodzi: amaonera anthu ena kukhala moyenera. Choncho, ngati mukukambirana za mtundu wina zofooka zake, onetsetsani kuti zoperewerazo mwayi uwu, ndi mosemphanitsa. Koma simukhala adatengedwa. Monga kuvomereza mphamvu ndi zofooka zawo.

Musati khama kuthamanga pa chisoni

Komabe, kudzichepetsa chivundikiro kapena kukankha mwamphamvu osavomerezeka chifukwa chisoni. Kotero inu kupeza kawiri monga mawunikidwe zoipa zambiri. Koma anthu bwino, inu Woyerekedwa, pamene nthawi yomweyo ali ulichat kusaona mtima.

matamando interlocutors

Praise, omwe umachokera kwa wolankhulayo, imatengedwa bwino kwambiri. M'mawu ena, bwenzi lanu, anzanu kapena anzake ayenera kupeza cholowa chake cha ndemanga zabwino. Onetsetsani kuti amenewa si ankawoneka ngati fawning chinyengo. Mwachitsanzo, akamva za kuphedwa bwino ntchitoyo, musaiwale kutchula mawu abwino a anthu amene anakuthandizani ntchito. Tsindikani kuti inu sibwenzi wakwanitsa iyende chachikulu popanda thandizo lawo. Ndiye zonse zidzakwaniritsidwa.

Kulembera mwa zinthu zanu

Nthawi iliyonse inu kukwaniritsa zinthu zabwino, kulemba pa pepala. Izi kubwera imathandiza mu Kukwezeleza makwerero ntchito. Aliyense mfundo anatsimikizira kupindula mbiri yanu. bwana wanu kwambiri chopereka cha chipambano cha kumalo a ntchito.

Pomaliza

Kuwonjezera kulimbikitsa ntchito makwerero, kudzitama anu ati awulule kwa inu ndi M'maso ena unexplored. Kukhala munthu wodzichepetsa kwambiri ndipo zimenezi zingachititse akusowa mwayi mu moyo.

Chochitachi chikhoza kukhala yosangalatsa kwambiri. Ngati inu mukudziwa momwe kutamanda okha ndi kudzapereka pamaso pa anthu ndi malingaliro abwino, ubongo wanu ankapatsidwa gawo lina zosangalatsa, mofanana ndi kudya chakudya chokoma kapena analandira.

Owongolera chidaliro ntchito unobtrusive kudzitamandira kwambiri pa maganizo a mapangidwe moyenera ziyenera anu zachilengedwe. Ndipo potsiriza, kugawana nyota awo, mungathe kuukitsa bala chifukwa cha kuphunzira m'tsogolo. Inu dziperekeni unsembe mwa zinthu zatsopano kwambiri.