Mugone Culture: Kodi chinkhoswe?

Chibwenzi chibwenzi ndi ukwati - zodabwitsa, miyambo wokongola amene anabwera kwa ife kuchokera nthawi makedzana. Fuko lirilonse, iwo ali a khalidwe lanu. Komabe, pali chinthu chimodzi.

Tili-tili-mtanda

Kotero kuti zikutanthauzanji - chinkhoswe? Pamene awiri pokopeka amazindikira kuti iwo mwangwiro wosakanikirana ndi mzake, ndipo kotero ife tikhoza kukonza ubwenzi ofunda, iwo anzawo, abale, abwenzi. Kapena - momwe zinalili m'zaka za m'ma 19 - mnyamata akufunsa makolo dzanja mwana wawo wamkazi, ndi chilolezo. Izi analengeza mtsikanayo, ndipo ngati sasamala kupeza angapo mkwati ndi mkwatibwi. Apa pali chimene chimatanthauza "chinkhoswe" mu chikhalidwe ndi miyambo ya anthu Russian. Chinkhoswe akanakhoza kutenga malo mwa bwalo banja yopapatiza, koma kuwasandutsa chachikulu, wodala tchuthi. munthuyo, kuyambira tsopano wosasamala mwalamulo mwamuna m'tsogolo, kupeza mwayi ufulu kulankhulana ndi osankhidwa ake. Iye mwaufulu kupita naye kokayenda, kuti apite la zamasewero.

Kuti "kuipitsidwa" munthu touted mphete okondedwa ndi ena nsangalabwi-chithumwa. Iye otdarivalas poyankha, ndi kuwombola tonse onse awiri chizindikiro ena za malingaliro awo. Pambuyo mwambo achinyamata udindo waukulu mzake ndi zambiri adaletsa zinthu ndi malo bwino. Ndipotu limatanthauza chinkhoswe? Izi zikutanthauza kuti tsopano dona sayeneranso kudziyalutsa ndi kudziyalutsa ndi njonda zina, kukhala tsiku lonse pa atsikana. Ndi mkwati, m'malo kupereka wapadera madalitso akunja kukongola ayenera nthawi yocheza ndi bwenzi lake.

Kumene, tsopano nthawi ya kusintha kwakukulu, makhalidwe kukhala omasuka, ndi anthu - kutukuka. Ndipo si nthawi zonse akazi tsogolo asanakwatirane mwayi pafupi, osati pakangopita, zodabwitsa mmene zingamvekere, amafuna kutsatira kukhulupirika mangawawo. Ndipo komabe, monga mwamuna ndi mkazi chinkhoswe (amene amatanthauza - chinkhoswe), choncho iwo amadalira mzake, iwo kuonananso mnzanu, ndi mzimu umodzi wapfuko, naye chiwerewere, wokondedwa wina angathe kholo ana awo. Mwa njira, mu West pafupifupi mabanja wopalidwa ubwenzi ankatengedwa mwamuna ndi mkazi!

Mapangano ndi mapangano

Pa chinkhoswe zambiri zinakambidwa mokoma ndi kumene kuchita ukwati, momwe alendo ambiri kuitana mphatso kugawana, kumene moyo wamng'ono, ndi ena ambiri. More zana ndi theka chapitacho pa kuipitsidwa takambirana amene kusankha makolo posazhonnymi, kukula kwa mtengo mkwati ndi malowolo, limene kwa mkwatibwi wake mudzamulandira.

Kodi zikutanthauza wolonjezedwa kukwatiwa, iye akhoza kumva posachedwapa, chifukwa iye yekha sanaloledwe "kusangalala" kapena mtsikana spree limodzi, koma anakakamizika kukhala masiku singano da hoop. Mkwatibwi anali kukhala chakudya waukulu wa zovala, matawulo, nsalu za patebulo, zofunda ndi katundu, ndipo izo zonse iye anali kwakukulukulu ndi dzanja. Komabe, panopa angolowa kumene m'banja palibe mosavuta ntchito. Ngakhale ndi chithandizo cha achibale pa ukwati wawo, madiresi, etc. iwo kupanga okha. Kumene, ngati iwo sali ana a Anthu. Ndipo chinkhoswe ano ndi kukambirana mfundo za mgwirizano wa ukwati, ngati aliyense, akupita kunena. Koma anthu ambiri lero kondwerani mwa kubadwa kwa banja latsopano.

mayesero a nthawi

Ndipo komabe, kodi inu mukudziwa iye chinkhoswe kapena ayi? lophweka: inde, ngati anapanga kupereka. Ayi, ngati mawu matsenga iye sanamvebe, kuti miyoyo ndi chibwenzi chake ndi miyezi sikisi, chaka chimodzi kapena ziwiri. Komabe, kuipitsidwa si nthawi zonse sikutanthauza ndi formalization ubale. Kawirikawiri pakati pa chibwenzi ndi ukwati ayenera kukhala nthawi achinyamata kuti akhazikitse mu maganizo awo kapena kubwereza iwo. Nzosadabwitsa, pambuyo kugonjera yofunsira ku ukwati kaundula ofesi ayenera kukhala mwezi umodzi basi. Ambiri, achinyamata angaletse mzake yaitali, ngakhale zaka. Komabe, mu zinthu zimenezi, chikondi likuoneka kuti pokhala ubwenzi, mgwirizano, kapena kusungunula kwathunthu.

Izo ndi zosangalatsa mwambo wa chinkhoswe ndi zonse mogwirizana ndi zimenezi!