Woyerekedwa khalidwe - kupatuka mwakale

Mu 80s Mu zaka zapitazo, latsopano akuti mu dongosolo malamulo a USA - "woyerekedwa khalidwe". Izi zikutanthauza kupatuka pa malamulo a khalidwe analandira anthu (ku Latin «delinquo» -. «Kupatuka"). Komabe, tanthauzo udani susonyeza mokoma onse lingaliro ili zovuta. Mu milandu anthu ambiri anamasulira m'malo ndi "chizolowezi chokhumudwitsa" kuposa kanthu zitakwaniritsidwa.

Kodi nthawi zambiri anatanthauza ndi mawu akuti "khalidwe khalidwe"? Izi akuti tchimo anthu akamakula, amene asadafike gulu la upandu ndi milandu. Koma izi si khalidwe wakhalidwe losalongosoka amaona zazing'ono zopatuka chitukuko ndi malamulo abwino analandira anthu anapatsidwa. Komabe, malire pakati pa mfundo ziwiri kuposa poopsa, nthawi zambiri akulola ofufuza kutenga wina ndi mzake.

Kodi chokhumudwitsa akhoza zimaonetsa khalidwe khalidwe la ana? Mkati lingaliro kwambiri za kupatuka mwakale akhoza kugawidwa mu zigawo zingapo, malingana ndi kuopsa kwa vutolo.
Choncho, woyerekedwa khalidwe - kuti kujombajomba kusukulu ndi kusalemekeza anzanu ndi aphunzitsi, kucheza ndi magulu sakonda monga achinyamata, kupatukira malamulo a makhalidwe onse.
Akhoza kuzigwiritsa ntchito gulu ili ndi zambiri chogwirika komanso woopsa zolakwa: kulanda, kuba, kumenyana, kuthawa mowa kunyumba, ndipo ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Zinthu zonsezi anachita ndi akulu, ndine chigawenga ndipo zikuphatikizapo udindo pa chigawenga. Cholinga cha kulekana kwa khalidwe khalidwe la criminogenic ndi yekha chisamaliro cha ana, ndi kuyesa kuwateteza ku kumidima ndipo usazilembe pasadakhale angapo zigawenga weniweni. N'chifukwa chake chilango cha zochita anachita ndi achinyamata - kupatulapo aakulu - anawagawira monga zolakwa zazing'ono.

Kodi zinthu zoyambitsa achinyamata khalidwe woyerekedwa? Izi ndi funso lofunika amene yankho angagone mu mlengalenga maganizo m'banja la wachinyamata. Choncho, kupanda chidwi cha makolo nkhawa zawo ndi zokhumba, kapena M'malo mwake, overprotection, chiwawa ndi kusowa kwa kumvetsa, kapena kulekerera pochita zilakolako zake zonse, mikangano yosatha pakati pa bambo ndi mayi, ndipo, ndithudi, ndi kukhudzika kwa aliyense wa makolo mowa kapena mankhwala . zinthu izi superimposed pa akula zovuta, kuchititsa mtundu kumusonyeza, amene ali ndi udindo ambiri mwa maonekedwe a opulukira. Mwa njira, zamaganizo zambiri timakonda kuganizira makhalidwe wakhalidwe losalongosoka achinyamata yachibadwa chodabwitsa, anachita kusintha chikhalidwe anthu a.

Kodi tiyenera kupewa khalidwe khalidwe la achinyamata komanso ngati n'zotheka konse? funso lovuta kwambiri, yankho kwa amene adzakhala mwangwiro losafuna: kumvetsera kwambiri maphunziro a ana, munjira ina iliyonse kulenga owazungulira wathanzi malo maganizo. Inde, ndi maxims, koma palibe njira ina. Khalidwe wakhalidwe losalongosoka zambiri za kusaka kwa mphindi chilengedwe yamphongo ya "Ine". Ndipo pali njira imodzi yokha kuti: musandisokoneze, ndi kuyesa kumuthandiza kupeza yekha ndi njira yake.