Chikondi Man Woman

Mgwirizano wa amuna ndi akazi chikuchitika mu magawo angapo. Choyamba - izo womangidwa, chikondi wachiwiri, wachitatu ndi wachinayi kumulakalaka chikondi. Otsiriza, wachinayi, ndipo zimatheka chifukwa ubwenzi wolimba pakati pawo. Nkhani za chikondi zimakhala zovuta, chifukwa yapadera, mbali yauzimu ya moyo, kuwatsogolera ndi kupereka mphamvu kwa kukhalabe izi.
Chikondi pochitika, ngati wakucha pamapeto mu kumulakalaka, ndipo sakonda, popeza molimba mu chilakolako. chuma ndi chilakolako akusocheretsa poyerekezera chikondi. Koma, ngati izi zimachitika, ndiye kudzakhala kovuta kusunga amuna ndi akazi ndipo pamapeto mapeto. Woyamba magawo atatu - siteji chosakhwima, kapena, kuti, kukalamba pang'onopang'ono, pachimake pa ndilo chilakolako. Ine sindiri pano kuti apereke tanthauzo la chikondi, T. Kwa. Ndimaona kuti n'zovuta kunena mawu ochepa, koma kuganiza za izo exhaustively akuti St. AP. Paulo mu kalata yoyamba kwa Akorinto / Chapter 13 /. Koma kumulakalaka, chikondi ndi chilakolako, ndiye ndiroleni ine kuwasiya mwatsatanetsatane.
Kotero, izo zonse akuyamba ndi changu - boma komwe munthu n'kudzuka mphamvu mahomoni chogwirizana ndi lingaliro (kumvera chisoni ndi kupezeka). Kenako m'dziko lake kunja afika imodzi kapena amene limafanana ndi dziko mumtima pa nthawi, kapena kani, mu njira iyi, munthu anapanga fano la misonkhano tsogolo. Changu ziwembu zopulula ndipo nthawi zambiri umabala yekha okhutira ndi, chimaonetsera kukhumba ndi, chidwi, ndipo ndikuusa.
Pamene pali munthu weniweni, wotengedwa mwa munthu anasonkhanitsa zake mphamvu mofanana ndi chilakolako kuthekera, kuti chilakolako kwasanduka chikondi. chikhalidwe ichi angayerekezedwe ndi ndondomeko zina za kuphunzira mzake. Pali otsegula zinsinsi mangawawo kwa wina ndi mzake, anamanga pa kukhulupirira, pali ziyembekezo ndi ziyembekezo, zolinga ndi zolinga chikuperekedwa kwa. Kukula kudzaonananso, kukhudza, kufuna kuchita chinthu chabwino, kusamalira ndi kubweretsa chimwemwe. Izi angatchedwe chikondwerero woona awiri. Centralized padziko okonda dziko.
Ngati zimenezi zachitika kwa inu, koma n'zotheka kwambiri kuti kukhala zikugwirizana ndi nthawi kuti inu - pamodzi, inu kale moyo pamodzi pamaziko a mphamvu maganizo ndi mphamvu kugonana, mtundu wa "mafuta" kuti Umakuthandizani ndi kulimbikitsa ndi nthaŵi kusowa kwanu chitukuko, zomwe ndi zopezeka mu ndondomeko wodzilamulira vumbulutso la yekha kwa munthu wina. Nthawiyi ndi yaifupi, ngati kasupe mu chikhalidwe, mwatsoka, ndipo posakhalitsa gawo latsopano, ndi "anthu wamba," chikondi cha munthu. Patatha zaka zitatu kapena zinayi za chikondi, izo zibwere kwa inu chosiyana, qualitatively osiyana, kumverera. Iwo amasintha pa mkhalidwe m'mbuyomu, koma nthawi zina, mwatsoka, si zipse ndiyeno, ngati bwino, mudzakhalabe kutentha ndi kulemekeza ake akale, chifukwa cha kuwawa zoipitsitsa zakale ndipo tinataika.
Nthawi zina, mnjira ayamba liwiro ndi mphamvu zambiri mofulumira, ngati anachita nyukiliya, amene anaonekera kulamulira. Ndi chizolowezi pamodzi amakhala opweteka, ndi chilichonse ngakhale kovuta.
Ndiyeno akuyamba chilakolako - kufuna kukwaniritsa, kusamalira, ndiponso amakakamizidwa kumvera. Chikondi kubwerera pa mtengo uliwonse. Mtima wofuna kusintha mbali yake limodzi, zina, kulira, kukuwa, zoipa, milandu ndi zonena, ndi chinyengo zina, wochenjera, ngakhale kuuma. Chilakolako amatha kwambiri. Chilakolako Nature ali nkhope ambiri pano ndi Maphunziro Akakhalidwe Kazolengedwa, koma zambiri zolakwa zake zobisika wauzimu, zimene zinaphatikizapo sanali kugwilizana chiwembu amuna ndi akazi a chikhalidwe wawo. Chilakolako nkhambakamwa chabe, chifukwa palibe mphamvu mwakufuna zinthu palokha, kuti aombeze kumakunenani ena onse mavuto awo wamba ndi, kungotchula achieved potero makonzedwe malamulo samoravnovesiya.
Ndi tsopano bwino kuti inali nthawi kusiya, sikuti kwa achibale, choncho bwino - kukula woopsa wa moyo, mwa zolakwa ndi misozi. Akuti ku chikondi kudana ndi sitepe imodzi, koma izo siziri. Chikondi zinagwira mkwiyo, chidani, koma chilakolako zambiri, ngakhale poyamba, chilakolako ndi bwino atsimikiza chidwi ndi zimamvekera ndi kudzipereka, ndi chonse chimene iye akufuna kukonda moyo, koma ichi ndi chiyambi chabe ...

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banja matanga ngalawa mitsinje masewera, igwera mu nyanja ya chikondi, kumenyera moyo wake mu nyanja chikondi, ndipo pamapeto, zinamera nyanja ya chikondi. m'chombo ali kapitao ndi adalira, ndipo sangafanane amene ndi ofunika kwambiri kwa iye, pakuti onse ndi chofunikira umodzi wa zodabwitsazi.
Munthu nayo chiwongolero ndi Mzimuyo Inde, akhoza osati kumira chombo, komanso kupanga limodzi zosangalatsa ulendo padziko lonse pa banja.
Mkazi amakhulupirira ndi 'mbuye wake, "wake mkulu, iye ayesera kumutumikira monga achitira amalinyero, opalasa, kuphika kapena boatswain. Iwo amagwiranso ntchito mu ulendo olowa ndi kubweretsa kwa kanyumba "chakudya bwino" kukhala mphamvu yolenga pa mkulu wake.
Tinayenda chombo, kudziwa dziko, nyanja ndipo dziko, kupeza zinachitikira, kusonkhanitsa chuma ndi chisangalalo moyo wake ...

Mu Act izi ...
Mu njira iyi kupitiriza chawo, ndi kukhulupirika kwa mfundo ziwiri zimene zimapanga limodzi ndi Mlengi wake.
Mwina chabe musaiwale kuti ngalawa wabwino ndi namondwe abwera, ndipo ngalawa bata osauka angathe kupita pansi. Ndipo nthawi zambiri, izi ndi mwayi chodabwitsa kupitiriza ulendo pamodzi zimadalira kusankha moyenera ophunzira paulendo kovuta.