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Chikondi. Ine ndinaganiza kambirimbiri, koma chikondi ndi chiyani?

Chikondi mayi, kukoma mtima, oberog pamene inu simungakhoze basi wopanda mayi pamene inu simunatero, izo nthawizonse kuthandiza, iye ndimamvetsera, kupereka uphungu, amene basi - inu. anansi anu. Kukonda ana. Pamene bambo ake anagula otsiriza mwana ndalama makina, monga kumusangalatsa, osati kuvulaza. Pamene nyama wokondedwa bwenzi - mnzanu, kukupsopsonani, kukupsopsonani, mwachikondi kwambiri. Oh, Mulungu wanga! Small ana. Amva mawu chikondi pa TV, kwa amayi ndi abambo, chifukwa maholide. Kids kawirikawiri kumva izo, koma iwo sangathe kumvetsa zomwe izo zikutanthauza, monga mtengo zina anthu. Pamene iwo amati ndi makolo, iwo basi kuti: "Ndimakonda amayi inu." Koma iwo amakonda makolo awo, ndimamukonda ndi mtima wanga wonse, "zachibwana" m'njira yakeyake, koma misala. Ndipo izo ziyenera kukhala zodula ndi moyo. Okula, amazindikira kuti chikondi si mawu, ndi kumverera uku, sipangakhalenso kuyesedwa. Iwo anayamba kuvutika kwa chikondi. Pa sanali reciprocal. Ndipo basi chakuti ngati atsikana. Achinyamata nthawizina timaganiza, chabwino, n'chifukwa chiyani ndimamukonda? Koma mwinamwake n'zosatheka! Chikondi - ziri monga kupuma, ziri monga madzi, zinthu zonse popanda zimene sitinali kulibe. Monga dzuwa, amene umafunda ife. Ndipo iye, chikondi, ubwenzi. Pamsinkhu uwu, timakhala ndi zosowa ndi zofuna zathu, zina sizikugwirizana, chabe kukokomeza mwayi. Mwayi yekha, achibale, anzake, monga anthu amene timawakonda. Pamsinkhu uwu, ife samvetsa kuti anakwanitsa amam'konda. Pamsinkhu uwu, zikuoneka kuti zonse ndi zabwino, kuti chimwemwe chanu, kuti iye / iye. Nthawi zina zimachitika kuti munthu ali ndi chikondi. Ali pamodzi. Iwo amasangalala pamodzi iwo kudziwana wina ndi mzake, chikondi. Wina chisoni munthu wapanga kusuntha, koma amene zimatengera, monga "akuswa kutali", akuyankhula mu slang ano. Nthawi zina ndipo analephera, analibe nthawi kuyamba, chabe wawononga chikondi wamng'ono. Koma ichi - unyamata. Nthawi zambiri anthu amandifunsa, ine sindikanafuna wamkulu, yopambana izo tineydzherstvo. Ndinena - palibe. Chifukwa nthawi zonse, ine nkhabe kukhala wamkulu, ngati inu Sizilowana imeneyi, nthawi zina wawononga ine, koma ine sakanavomereza wamkulu, si anakumana zonsezi, sitinadzere mwa mavuto onse "Before kukhala wamkulu" popanda kuthetsa mavuto onse popanda kupanga zolakwa iliyonse.

Chikondi pambuyo 20 kungakhale. Inde, woona, ndi mtima wanga wonse. Monga safuna TV izi zonse naigrannosti. chikondi kuti mungasangalale "Pamene dzuwa abwera, pamene mwezi akubwera, tsiku ndi tsiku, kusangalala iliyonse mphindi, pamodzi". Pamene anthu zaka, nawonso chikondi. Iwo akhoza kukonda ana awo, zidzukulu, okongola, koma chikondi ndi anyamata, inde, iwo angathe. Posachedwapa, pamene ine ndinali mu paki, zapitazi ine pang'onopang'ono anadutsa ndi banja lina la achikulire, iwo anati, mmene amakondana - zina. Zinali moona, zilizonse, "zachibwana", maganizo enieni, iwo anadutsa diso. maso ake adadzazidwa ndi chimwemwe chokha. chikondi ichi onse. Inde, nthawi yathu, ife amanena "Ndimakukonda", n'zotheka mumamukonda bwenzi, mnansi, dziko, kunyumba, dziko, street, tikhoza kunena, "Ine ndimakukonda chithunzi ichi." Koma ndi osiyana, izo nzosiyana, osiyana, koma moona, koma tsopano ndi zochepa ndi mawu akuti "Kodi zimenezi kukunkhuniza."

Koma moyo, muyenera kupeza chikondi. Izi kumverera kwa makolo, agogo, chikondi choyamba, kugwa m'chikondi ndi wachinyamata, ngati, kotero kuti inu mukumvetsa kuti uyu ndi mwamuna wanu onse kuti muli naye adzakhala ndi chisoni ndi chimwemwe, nthawi zonse, kufikira chimaliziro, chikondi kwa ana. Ndimangomukonda kumverera uku, lopatsidwa kwa ife kuchokera pamwamba, sitiyenera wankhanza kunena, "Ine sindinayambe anakonda aliyense." Ayi, inu ndinu munthu, moyo ndi chikondi.