Kodi asiye kukonda munthu: malangizo ndi malangizo a zamaganizo

N'zokayikitsa kuti m'dziko pali mkazi mmodzi, kutsogolo kwa amene kamodzi pa moyo wanga panali funso mmene asiye kukonda munthu. Chifukwa pakuwonekera kwake kungakhale mabwenzi kusiyana kapena chisamaliro cha mwamuna wake wokondedwa ndi wina, ndi zinthu zambiri zomvetsa chisoni monga imfa ya wokondedwa.

Mulimonsemo, mkazi ali mu mtundu wa impasse maganizo, amene yekha kungakhale kovuta. Choncho sizachilendo choyimira cha kuyitana kwa zamaganizo pali mwina pa nthawi imene mkaziyo n'kofunika kudziŵa mmene asiye kukonda munthu ndi kuyiwala izo. Mabungwe Traditional mu Zikatero zimakhala zovuta kuti achepetse, chifukwa onsewa ali osiyana, koma anasankha ena danga wamba mwachibale kwa Council akatswiri odziwa akadali zotheka.

Choyamba, zofunika kwambiri poyambira mu ndondomeko imeneyi ndi kutenga Limbikirani. Nthawi zambiri kumafunika mphamvu. Ndithudi, wofunitsitsa kukhulupirira kuti lisaoneke sadzakhala komaliza, koma m'malo mwake, izo imautsa wozungulira latsopano ubale. Zimakhala zovuta kwambiri makamaka kusankha bwanji chibwenzicho akazi amene akufuna kudziwa momwe dana chikondi ndi mwamuna wokwatira. A njira lililonse vuto ndi "mapeto a chinyengo" pamene msungwana, kuswa kugona ndi mwamuna unfree ndi kuwerenga mfundo yakuti iye akufuna ake, ndi ubale amatswa chinachake yaikulu kwambiri. Mwatsoka, m'njira imeneyi mkazi yekha amakankhira yekha m'kati "thamanga". munthu akudziŵa bwino tsenga ake komanso amabwera mu sewerolo otchedwa "Ine ndidzakhala linatha."

Chotero zokayikitsa masewera akhoza mzaka - izo kachiwiri ndi kuponyera kachiwiri, adzabwera ndi zifukwa zatsopano sachedwa kulekana pang'ono kuchokera kwa mkazi wake, ndi chifukwa cha zaka zambiri zokondweretsa Yehova adzakhala okhawo pachabe anakhala nthawi ndi unhealed akakhumudwitsidwa. Popanga yopuma, muyenera kuzindikira kuti palibe njira kumbuyo. Only mu nkhani iyi kuyiwala ubale yapita ndi kuyamba mwatsopano.

Chinthu china chofunika kwambiri pa njira ya chimaliziro cha ubale chowawa ndi tanthauzo amakhala kudzaza voids zinachitika. Kuti tichite zimenezi, zamaganizo, kupereka mayankho ku funso mmene asiye kukonda munthu, tikulimbikitsidwa kusintha kwathunthu kayendedwe ka moyo. Ovuta kwambiri nthawi pambuyo kuswa - woyamba masabata ochepa. Ndipo ngati inu adzawalange mu kayendedwe mofanana polankhula ndi okondedwa, ululu kungakhale mumamva. Ndimakumbukira anakumana nanu pa ntchito imene munapita sitolo pa tsiku winawake, ndipo inu kawirikawiri ndiphike mkatewo kuti ndidye chakudya - ntchito molimbika, opusa, koma, kalanga, mosalephera, ngati tipitiriza kuyenda njira yomweyo, ndi moyo womwewo . Choncho, ngati Council mmene asiye kukonda munthu, Ndibwino ulendo yaing'ono koma ochititsa chidwi. Tengani tchuthi, ndiponso kuchita zimene yaitali ndinalota. Akuphedwa wokondedwa pambuyo - losaiwalika, amene supersede lingaliro la kuswa mu kuya kwenikweni kwa chikumbumtima cha. Kwa masabata anakhala ku Njira chikhalidwe cha moyo, ubongo akhoza kukonzanso ndi kupulumuka yopuma atabwerera kunyumba kudzakhala kosavuta.

Atabwerera kunyumba, sayenera yomweyo m'gulu la ntchito tsiku. Njira - kuthera nthawi kudzimvera kusintha. Kukongola mankhwala, kusintha kwa fano, kugula latsopano, sagwirizana nazo zovala thandizo kwathunthu kusintha mawonekedwe. nthawi zambiri amathandiza - amaona pa galasi si "otsiriza" amene yekha kuganizira mmene ndaiwala wokwatira, ndi latsopano lokongola mlendo amene si zokhudzana ndi aiwala nkhani yachikondi. Mwadzidzidzi kusintha kwa fano, ndipo mwina malo a ntchito (makamaka ngati inu kale mwakhala mamembala a bungwe lomweli) kudzakuthandizani kuti zinthu zisinthe ndipo kuti zithe azivutika chisawutso cha chikondi.