Kulekana ndi mnyamata, mmene kupulumuka kusweka

Pali mitundu iwiri ya anthu. Woyamba ndi yovuta kwambiri umene ubale ndi kovuta kuswa iwo, ngati chinachake osakhutira. Chachiwiri, mosiyana, kusuntha chibwenzi ndi mosavuta, madzi anagawanika. Kuti si zoipa mu ubale watsopano, ndikofunika kumvetsetsa chifukwa cha kugwa kwa zaka.

Ena oimira kugonana chofooka, kusiya kugona ndi mnzake kuti: "Kodi kupulumuka kulekanitsidwa munthu?". Munthu amapita ku ntchito ndi mutu ndipo amayamba kupanga ntchito, kusankha payekha. Wina M'malo mwake, masamba m'tawuni wofiira. Atsikana pachabe anyamata, ndi osaganizira kofunika kumvetsa vuto. Iwo nkhabe makasitomala atsopano kumanga ubale. Koma iyi sinjira chimwemwe ayi. Kodi izo zingakhoze kukhala anthu osangalala, ngati si Womutsatira congenial, amene amathandiza m'nthawi yovuta. N'zovuta kwambiri kukhala wopanda makalipeti ena. Aliyense wa ife akufuna pang'ono chisamaliro ndi kutentha.

Kulandira kulekana munthu timachita kudzipenda. pokambirana ndi kale kuyamba kachiwiri. Kachiwiri, kamodzinso, ife pakupita pa mafupa okhaokha chomwecho. Pofuna kukhala osangalala munthu, ndi kupeza moyo mnzanuyo, muyenera kusiya molondola. Ndicho chimene ife kulankhula.

Choyamba tiyenera imapezekabe onse "ine". Ngati ubwenzi wotopa, chonde khalani olimba mtima ndi kwa inuyo sinkhani. No kuitana zakale, kupuma mu foni, penyani iye pambuyo ntchito. Mwachidule, musati muziyang'anira misonkhano. Ngati chimachitika akutsanzikana ndi mnyamata, muyenera kupita, kamodzi kwa nthawi zonse, osati kumbuyo. Ngati inu kwapatsidwa kwa ntchito, mumayesa kupita ku malo omwewo, ali wakale wanu, muyenera kutsatira mtunda lawolawo. Yesani osachepera yochepa kupita kwinakwake, ndi pa yomweyo limaphwanya.

Yesani kuchita zinthu mumakonda, kusintha Mwachitsanzo, ntchito, ndi pamodzi ndi nambala ya telefoni. Ngati nkotheka, kudikira kwina. Muyenera chinachake kutenga nokha, akatenge mutu ndi malingaliro anu kuti kukhadzikika. Pambuyo akutsanzikana ndi munthu wolakwika, ndi zovuta basi woyamba ochepa masabata, ndiyeno inu nokha ndikuganiza kuti salinso aganizire za tsogolo la wakale zanu, ndi maganizo anu wotanganidwa ndi zinthu zina.

Ganizilani zokonda zanu. Mwina, chifukwa cha ubale wawo wakale inu ayenera kupereka nsembe iwo. Inde, nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti bwenzi lathu sanakhutire ndi zimene tili mokhudza za. Ndipo ife kutaya kwa ntchito, monga kukondweretsa wina wake wokondedwa. Choncho ichi ndi nthawi pamene mungasangalale chibwana mumaikonda. Ndi nthawi moyo osati "Wasi" ndipo mambonde. Ndiponso, kwathunthu zimalepheretsa inu kwa maganizo.

Chofunika, ngati pakhala akutsanzikana ndi mnyamata, musati muziyang'anira zolakwika nokha. Nthawi zambiri chifukwa cha kutha ndi kusadzidalira. Ndi chibadidwe amuna ndi akazi, koma akazi m'posavuta kuti akamenyane okha. Kotero kuti mabala anu kuchiritsa, zimatenga nthawi, nthawi zina zaka. Ndipo kuti sanali pochitika pachabe, tiyenera kuphunzira kukhulupirira atsikana. The njira yosavuta - kusintha bwalo chikhalidwe. Pali mabwenzi enieni, komanso anzathu kusangalala ndi amene timakhala nawo nthawi yaitali ufulu wathu, ndi mpumulo, kupita kumapate. Choncho, ndi anzanu kudzakhala kovuta kwambiri, koma akhoza kukhala abwenzi ndi m'malo. Ayenera osasankhidwa kunja. Mabwenzi enieni nthaŵi zonse chifukwa cha inu, koma mnzake, inu zimavuta bondo.

Kodi kupulumuka kulekana kwa mwamuna wake? Kaya kukhala wochezeka ndi kale?

Ndithu anena: "inde" kapena "ayi," n'zosatheka. Tiyenera zichokera zinthu, ngati muli ndi ana pamodzi, bizinesi. Pankhaniyi, ngati inu mukufuna izo kapena ayi, inu kukhala abwenzi. chikhalidwe cha dziko, chipembedzo anakhudzanso. Kupitiriza ubwenzi, nthawi zambiri akazi samamvetsa kusunga mtunda wa malingaliro, iwo njira zina zimakhudza miyoyo wina ndi mzake. Iwo anasiya mphamvu ya umwini, ndipo sindikufuna Subconsciously kuona wakale awo ndi munthu wina. Komanso, iwo akhoza kukhala okonda basi, izo Kukubweretsera masautso kumanga maubale atsopano. Mwina, munthu aliyense ayenera kusankha yekha zimene akufuna kuthetsa chibwenzicho. M'pofunika kupenda zochitikazo ndi kupeza poyamba zonse mwa Iye yekha. Koma ngakhale ngati musankha kukhala abwenzi, kwa nthawi yoyamba akadali zofunika kutenga timeout. Izi zili choncho kuti adzakhala ndi onse maganizo anu ndi maganizo zinaleka, ndipo anatha tione wosaledzera pa vutolo.