Ndife anthu onse - anthu onse osiyana, ndipo munthu aliyense ali ndi maganizo abwino, chilungamo ndi makhalidwe ena abwino ndi chikumbumtima. Komanso zolinga zawo, zomwe wofanana, amene atsogoleredwa pazochita zawo. Kumene, anthu ambiri sangathe kukondweretsa, ndi kukakhala kupusa kuyesera nyimbo kunja zofunika ambiri: n'zosavuta kutaya wekha, umunthu mwini. Choncho, m'pofunika pankhaniyi, pa dzanja limodzi, kukhala woona wokha, ndi pa zina - kuyesa kukwaniritsa zofuna ndi zofuna za gulu Buku limene mwini, osati popitirira miyambo, kulitsimikizira zaka za makhalidwe abwino.
Zabwino kwambiri
The maphunziro oyamba mmene angakhalire munthu wabwino, ife kupeza ngati mwana. Kuthandiza achikulire ndipo asakhumudwitse wamng'ono, kuteteza ofooka osati kukhala ndi amphamvu, kuyesa kukangana Nkhata mfundo, maganizo, osati zibakera wake, kunena zoona ndi sanama kufikira chipulumutso, kuyankha chifukwa cha zochita zawo ndi kubisa iliyonse ya kumbuyo ... Usachite adyera ndi kugawana atsopano ndi mnzanu kapena mlendo, musachite meanly ... kukhala wachifundo kwa nyama ... kuti adzatha kuima okha, zikhulupiriro zawo ... mndandanda ndi lalitali, adzakhala olondola, koma mwina kuphimba mokoma onse a mmene angakhalire wabwino munthu, ndi sangathe. Tiyeni kukumbukira kufufuza kwambiri kutanthauza kuti moyo wa Leo Tolstoy ndi zilembo zake, kukhumba awo kukhala "zabwino ndithu," kuwaponya, ndikuchilakalaka abwino, kugwa ndi zokwera. Ndipo ngwazi Dostoevsky chiyani? Ndipotu lonse Russian ndi dziko zapamwamba, zitsanzo zabwino kwambiri za mabuku amatipatsa zitsanzo zomveka bwino za ntchito kwambiri wauzimu. Ndipo chifukwa chinthu chimodzi momveka bwino: wopanda mphamvu, wopanda kuti "moyo ayenera ntchito" ife kumvetsa konse, mmene angakhalire wabwino munthu.
Ndipo izo zikutanthauza - amphamvu-akadafuna khama? Ine ndikuganiza, ndi luso kudzimana zinthu zawo, laling'ono kapena lalikulu, mu zofuna za ena. Dikirani pamene ine ndikufuna kuti amaumirira wake. Amalolera ndikufuna. Kuti pa mbali ya ntchito kapena maudindo ena. Kupereka malangizo kapena pochita zinthu. Pomaliza, kuchita chintchito mu dzina la munthu kapena chinachake. Ndipotu, ungwazi, kulimba mtima kusadziona kukhala wopambana ena - chimake apamwamba maganizo "zabwino" Motelo makhalidwe omwe kenako anthu pa umphawi wadzaoneni.
Zitsanzo za mmene angakhalire munthu wabwino, ife tikuwona nthawi zonse, ndi kuchita chintchito tsiku ndi tsiku Sikuti izi. Kukhala aluso zinthu zina ndi ntchito kuti athandize abwenzi, anzawo ndiponso achibale. Mwana wachikondi kapena wamkazi poyerekezera ndi makolo okalamba, munthu wodzipereka kapena mwamuna - kwa theka lake. Polemekeza atumiki, ngati mukupita kwa bwana, ndipo musati gwape pamaso pa mizere ya apamwamba. Wosagawanika koposa zonse pa yekha - Zikutanthauzanso kukhala munthu. Musati muzinyengerera pa mfundo za makhalidwe abwino amene amaonedwa okhazikika.
Ndipo potsiriza, chinthu chofunika kwambiri. Monga tanenera kale, "chabwino" - mfundo zotengera malingaliridwe. Munthu angathe kuonedwa ngati woipa amene amabweretsa ammudzi, koma adzakhala wabwino kwa munthu amene wathandiza - ngati ruble, etc. Kodi utumiki anthu aunikiridwa, monga Khristu, Buddha, kapena Mphunzitsi wanzeru Osho wotchedwa Dalai Lama, ndi yaing'ono kwambiri, mbali pa miliyoni. Lang'anani, monga kagulu ka anthu amene tikugwira chikondi ndi mtima wa mtima wake, monga mmene anachitira Mat Tereza kapena Lady Diana. Ndiyeno iwo musakhale miyezo ya ukoma onse a anthu. Choncho funso mmene munthu, osati kuchokera gulu la zosasinthika, nzeru zaumunthu, koma nenani, gulu laling'ono. Wake "comme il faut" alipo pamalo alionse umodzi pakuyenerera. Si onse "akunja" akhoza atengere, ndipo si koyenera.
Chofunika mwina si kuti ndikhale wosiyana, motayirira, osati kutsatira mfundo ya "si ntchito yanga." Yesani kutali zedi ndi khama kuzindikira kuthekera kwawo positive.