Kodi kukwaniritsa cholakalaka

Aliyense wa ife mwina cholakalaka, amene limene ife tikudziwa, ndipo anatseka maso ake, tikuona kutsogolo kwa inu ndimalota.

Nthawi zambiri ndi chilakolako cha kukoma chikhalidwe, tiyese kuganizira, chifukwa iwo ali wolemera kwambiri maganizo. N'zotheka kuti ena kulota za momwe awine njuga kapena kugula zovala mumaikonda, koma kuti chidwi cha anthu chidwi tikufuna zambiri.

Mulimonsemo, njira kuti aphedwe chilakolako ndi chimodzi, mosasamala zimene mukuganiza. Ndikufuna akuchenjeza kuti, kulozera kwa munthu winawake mu chilakolako chake, ife sitingapeze kulakwa kuganiza kuti kudzakhala bwino kwa ife, komanso kuyesa pogonjetsa zofuna za ena. Ndipo izo si zabwino.

Kodi kuchita ndi momwe angaganizire cholakalaka?

Mwina mukufunika kumvetsa zinthu, kapena kuti kumvetsetsa zimene ndendende mungathe kukoka nthawi imene kukhala moyo wanu. Anthu amene achita ntchito yaikulu chotero iye ndi anazindikira vuto lawo, ambiri pafupi kupambana.

Tsopano muli mokwanira bwino cholinga ndipo ankaiphwasula udindo wake mu moyo, inu muyenera liyenera mtima wanu bwino. Zingakhale olondola ngati inu sikusokoneza umunthu zakunja maganizo anu, kusiya zinthu za chilengedwe ndipo "wasankha" pyadidi kwa inu. Mwina tikusonyeza chikondi chanu osangalala - uyu si ubale limene kufunsa, mwina mukufuna kumasula malo kukumana moyo wanu woona mwamuna? Tsamira kuli!

Zotsatira za pachithunzichi anakonza chilakolako zina kungachititse kuti zotsatira cholakwika mukuyembekezera.

Tsopano muyenera kumva ndi moyo wanga wonse kuti Zokhumba zanu lakwaniritsidwa. Muyenera kumva chimwemwe cha kukhala ndi adatambasula. Mwachitsanzo, mukufuna galimoto latsopano. Kukhala bwinobwino mpando kunyumba kutseka maso anu ndi kuika manja anu pa kungoganiza chiongolero. Ndikumverera galimoto hums ndi fungo mtundu galimoto latsopano. The owala inu mukhoza kulingalira cholinga chanu moyo weniweniwo bwino ndipo mofulumira iwo adzatha pochitika.

Musaphwanye kukayikira, kukayikira kaye mphindi ya ntchito.

Ngati mukufuna yankho ku funso la mmene kukwaniritsa cholakalaka, kupanga gulu Amagwiritsa kumene mudzakhala muiike zithunzi momveka bwino maganizo anu kum'dalira. Mwina galu yaing'ono, ndipo mwina lalikulu nyumba yatsopano. Ndipotu, musati mwaganiza kuti - chilakolako yosavuta, ndipo - waukulu ndi zovuta kuzitsatira. Chilengedwe angamvetsere mofanana pempho lililonse, ngati inu ndendende kukwaniritsa zofunika zonse ndipo adzatha kunyadira mwini chobisika.

Musaiwale kuti muyenera nthawi zonse kuganizira Zokhumba zanu, kuika maganizo awo abwino izo, kudyetsa mphamvu zawo.

Nthawi zambiri, ine ndikulingalira kuti chirichonse chakhala anazindikira, ndipo inu chimwemwe cheni cheni ndi chimwemwe kwa izo. Mukamaphunzira kuyika mu chobisika, ndi bwinobwino chidzakhala. Palibe amene anganene yayitali bwanji yomwe idzafunike kuti cholinga Zokhumba zanu okondedwa kukwaniritsidwa musatisiye chipinda kukayikira ndipo Musataye mtima.

Kumayesa kuganiza za china chili kuti zikhoza kuvutitsa munthu. Ngakhale munthu woipa, kapena mphaka wosamvera anzathu amene analowa chizolowezi kukwera kwa khonde wanu. Sindikufuna kuvulaza munthu, ndipo musawaletse kubwezera. Akuphedwa zilakolako sayenera negative.

Pamwamba pa zonse, ine ndinganene kuti muyenera kuona kuti mapulani athu zikukwaniritsidwa. Muyenera kwathunthu kuthera maganizo awo pa kufuna kuchotsa kutali chikaiko onse, ndi kuyang'ana zabwino mtima, amene ali ndi olimba mtima wanu chimwemwe kukhala anaima.