Kodi kupepesa kwa munthu?

Kodi mavuto ambiri zina amaima panjira ya anthu awiri amene akumanga ubwenzi wawo. Kodi mavuto ambiri, limafufuza mphamvu ndi zochitika zina. Yekha kwenikweni molimba wachikondi mzake awiri adzatha kuima nkhondo ndi tsoka, ndi kuchita chikondi wake kuimfa.

Milandu, feuds ndi kukangana ndi lingaliro zofunika ubwenzi uliwonse. Ngati sikudali kwa mphindi izi zosasangalatsa yomwe kunja mtima? mgwirizano akusowa kugwedeza mmwamba, kokha, kumene, osati popanda chifukwa, kapena zifukwa nkhambakamwa chabe. Nkofunika kudziwa nthawi imene alipidwa amapusitsa makani likuoneka moto mu manyazi yaikulu ndi zotsatira zake zonse. Muyenera kuletsa ngati chitukuko, kapena kani, sindikudziwa momwe, ndipo kwa nthawi yaitali kuphunzira. Mkazi ayenera kukhala anzeru ndi kuona kuti "tsopano akuyamba mkuntho."

Zilibe kulankhula za mzere pa chubu lamaliseche wa mankhwala otsukira mano, makapu ndi masokosi pansi pa bedi pa mipando. Kwenikweni kulankhula za mmene kupempha chikhululukiro kwa munthu ngati ndinu wolakwa. Mwachibadwa, kunyada, wamphamvu chakukhosi pa mawu kapena mawu, poopa anakana, mwina zoipa kusokoneza maganizo, momwe kupempha chikhululukiro kwa munthu. Kumbukirani kuti zizichitidwa patapita nthawi yina. Ife sindikuyankhula za pamene Ungathabusa mwamuna wako ndipo sindikufuna blatantly kuti "pepani." Tikuyankhula zokhudza pamene inu muli pokhapokha nthawi kuzindikira iwo anali kulakwitsa kwambiri ndi cholakwika.

Anadya inu mukulakwitsa, ndipo inu mukuganiza, momwe kupempha chikhululukiro kwa munthu, muyenera kumvetsa bwino lomwe kuti ndife okonzeka kukumana ndi kuyamba iwowo. Kuyamba, angobwera kwa iye ndi kunena banal, koma m'pofunika "Pepani, kunali kulakwa." Aliyense amene anapempha kuti akhululukidwe, amadziwa kuti n'zovuta nthawi zina kuchita. Nkobvuta kuyang'ana mmaso ndipo kuti chiganizo ichi, kuyembekezera chigamulochi. Ngati munthu ali ozizira, osalephera, Iye adzakhululukira inu, koma ngati nkumagwiritsabe udzalamulira akumuimba kukwiya ulemu, muyenera kuyesetsa mwabwino Pempha chikhululuko. Palibe musatenge chokhumudwitsa kwa lipoti "pout", ngati mwatenga sitepe yoyamba, ndi munthu simukhululukira. Kupanga pang'ono, ndipo ngati pambuyo wachitatu kapena wachinayi adzatsala zikutsatiridwa, mungondipatsa nthawi ndi ndekha - chikangoperekedwa ndi mawu a kukhululukidwa tsiku lililonse ndi opanda nzeru. Tsopano ndi sitepe Mudzakumana naye.

Ganizilani mmene kufunsa choyambirira Man chikhululukiro. Zimakhala akuitanidwa machesi, konsati nkhondo mtheradi, Kuyenda, bwato parachuting (ngati kalekale ndinkafuna). Inu angagwirizane jeeping kwa iye ndi mnzake wapamtima, koma kuti aliyense anadziwa amene kulinganiza. Izi bwenzi ingapezeke kukopa ngati okonda, mwina iye kuitana bwenzi lanu mu cafe, iye adzabwera, ndipo kumeneko chakudya chamadzulo kuyembekezera kwa inu. Kapena suli cafe, chihema mu nkhalango, mwachitsanzo, kumene angayembekezere inu, chakudya chokoma, zipatso, ndi makhalidwe ena. Ndipotu, mungathe kuganizira njira zambiri choyambirira kupepesa kwa munthu, Chofunika kwambiri, zimene amafuna, zimene limachokera, zimene iye amakonda ndi zimene amadana nawobe.

Ngati mukhululukira munthu ndipo mudawayesa, chonde, malonjezo anu ndi kudzipereka. Mwina ndi kusiya podoh mlungu uliwonse ku madansi ndi anzanga kamodzi pamwezi, nayenso, komanso akukana Loweruka maulendo mpira ndi kuchita izo kawiri pa mwezi. Nthawizonse, ngati anthu kukonda wina ndi mnzake ndi kuyamikira ubale, n'zotheka kupeza kukondera ndi kugwirizana ndi theka lachiwiri, Chofunika kwambiri, kutha kudziyerekeza winayo ndi kumvetsa mmene iye akumvera. Ngati inu kuphunzira kukhala osamala za malingaliro a munthu wina, ndiye nkhondo ndi ndewu ati amene adzakhale zochepa N luntha ndi chikondi ayi.