Kodi kuyamba kudziletsa chitukuko? Mndandanda wa mabuku zabwino zokha-chitukuko

Kufunika kukula mwauzimu ndi thupi ndi wosatsutsika. Maphunziro a ana nkhawa makolo awo. Munthu wachikulire yekha kukhala amanga yekha. Koma mmene bungwe ndondomeko imeneyi, kuyamba kudziletsa chitukuko?

za kulima

Kodi malangizo kwa aliyense amene wadzipereka kusintha nokha? Choyamba muyenera kudziwa chimodzimodzi chimene iye ati kumapangitsanso tanthauzo la mfundo "kudziletsa chitukuko" kwa iye. zikuchitika masiku ano zambiri zikutanthauza akuti ichi ndi mwayi kukhala bwino. Nzeru, si zabwino, luso, koma kungoti utakwaniritsa wopambana. Koma kaya ndi cholinga amene amafuna kuyesetsa kuti?

Taganizirani izi: geniuses ndi anthu opambana chabe zaka zapitazi simunawerenge mabuku amakono pochita chitukuko! Koma si kuwaletsa kuti iyende chidwi. Komanso N'zovuta kulingalira maphunziro maganizo, akhoza kupanga wojambula luso, kapena kabuku pochita chitukuko, adzalola asayansi kuti anapeza waluntha. Mosakayikira, aliyense wa munthu anazindikira ntchito mochuluka, koma ichi ndi chodziwikiratu kuti njira zofanana ndi zimene analimbikitsa lero.

Pa zolinga za kudziletsa chitukuko

zojambulajambula amene akupereka nsalu zokha ayi wake, wolemba, ziboliboli - iwo sakumvetsabe m'manja mwa ntchito kale kulingalira zotsatira ankafuna. Ndi wasayansi, kuyandikira kutsegula ake, akuona cholinga amazikonda: chipangizo latsopano, pamwamba Lingaliro Lovomerezeka. Kuganizira mmene kuyamba kudziletsa chitukuko kwambiri, ayenera kuimira chiyani chifukwa akufuna kukwaniritsa. Sankadziwa ichi, ndondomeko wodzilamulira kusintha kuyamba mopusa.

Pa kufunika ungwiro thupi akhoza kamodzinso osati kukumbutsa: mawu akuti "A thupi la thanzi wathazi" nkhani za ndithu mwachindunji. Ndi nkhani ya kusintha kwa mtundu wina, ulaliki pankhaniyi anali adakali zaka 30-40 zapitazo ndi ena. Pa funso la choti kudzikonda, Tikadakhala adayankha, muzu wa zomwe sizigwirizana ndi amakono. Komabe, munthu amene amagwira ntchito pa yekha, kuti ndiye anatumiza kwa mabuku - ntchito za upamwamba wa.

Dzhek London. "Martin Edeni"

Mosiyana zamaganizo ano, woimira ma aligorivimu zinatumizidwa kuti kuyamba kudziona chitukuko chakale mabuku malangizo omveka sakutero. Izo basi amapereka munthu kuganizira, kumvetsa moyo wake. Ndipo yesani kuyankha funso waukulu ndi ndichiyani pa dziko lino, kodi tanthauzo la moyo kwa iye.

buku Jack London ndi "Martin Edeni" angatchedwe buku pa chitukuko kudzikonda. Mnyamata, yapamadzi anagwa mchikondi ndi mtsikana Zikatere amayamba ntchito zolimba nokha, kuphunzira ndi patsogolo, kukhala woyenera wake wokondedwa. Ndipo chimene chimabweretsa zipatso wopatsa: yapamadzi akale amakhala wolemba wotchuka, munthu wolemera. Koma aziti iyeyu n'ngwabwino kamodzi bwino si kukumana Edeni, ngakhale maganizo mokhudza chokani. ngwazi wathu amazindikira kuti fano wokongola utoto ankakonda awo anali maloto chabe wokongola, koma mtsikana weniweni okha komanso kudzikonda.

Ndipo ndi chiyani chikuchitika? Ndipotu ntchito kwambiri pa Edeni ndi opanda mu moyo, ndi wosasangalala ndipo kusafuna kulimbikira kwa moyo. Mlembi, ndithudi, amanyadira ngwazi ake ndi atsale ungwiro. Koma buku ayankhula kwa mayikidwe cholakwika wa zinthu zofunika pa moyo, ndi anthu zomvetsa chisoni akufuna kumvetsa moyo ndi tokha mu izo.

za mabuku

M'dziko pali ntchito zambiri zimene zingathandize munthu timvetsetsetse chikhalidwe cha chilengedwe. Koma mwina buku zabwino zokha-chitukuko - sufa ntchito Lva Tolstogo. Izi ndi mawunikidwe kuya pa makhalidwe ndi chikhulupiriro, chikondi ndi ntchito, kwa ungwazi, chifundo ndi chikondi. Tolstoi ndi mfundo zake mofananira kuti maganizo a zamaganizo zabwino amatsogolera makasitomala pamoyo.

Koma apa kudziletsa kusintha? Pali zodabwitsa ndi yolondola kwambiri akuti "moyo ayenera ntchito!". Anadutsa maganizo ndi moyo wa chilengedwe cha Tolstoy ndi upamwamba ena - ichi ndiko kuyankha kwabwino kwa funso la choti kudzikonda. moyo ndi mu ndondomeko ya kuŵerenga bwino, maganizo - mbandakucha anthu - bwino.

Za njira moyo

N'chifukwa chiyani anthu moyo? Iko kanali kamodzi wotchuka awa akuti: "Munthu wobadwa kwa chimwemwe ngati mbalame kuuluka." Koma tsopano mawu pafupifupi sindikukumbukira, iwo sizikugwirizana mu panopa ntchito dongosolo. Chimwemwe - mfundo poopsa, zovuta kumuphunzitsa. Kaya bwino ntchito! Wopambana anthu onse kuona, iwo amapembedza, kaduka, kuyesera kuti atsanzire. Fashion azimuth wakhala kuphunzira bwino: cholinga cha maphunziro ndi misonkhano chitukuko panokha loterolo chomera. Koma kodi ndi zolondola?

Munthu wolemera nthawi yathu - Bill Geyts - analemba chifuniro imene ana ake kulandira pang'ono kapena kanthu. Kodi izo - ndi akufunira, nkhanza? Kapena M'malo mwake, nzeru bambo ake, chilakolako cha chimwemwe kwa ana awo? Zikuoneka ndi masika.

Ndalama paokha suchititsa munthu wosangalala. N'zokayikitsa kuti Gates pa njira kuti akumoto anazunguzika mmene kuyamba kudziletsa mchikhristu ntchito bwino. Moyo wake unali chabe nadzaza, anali amakonda milandu ndi m'munsili ntchito iliyonse akapeza ndi zokhumudwitsa, zikayenda ndi zolephera. M'moyo uno ludzu chigonjetso ndi chilakolako, mwina chimwemwe. Siyani ana anu ndalama zokha, kuwamana iwo za kufunika kupita chitsogolo ndi moona moyo, kuwapanga iwo kwambiri wosasangalala. Gates anamvetsa nthawi ino.

Ndipo kachiwiri za chisangalalo

zambiri A zikuchitika ndi M'MALO bwino mfundo, ndi bwino amakhala mathero palokha. Ndipotu zamaganizo wodzilamulira chitukuko zikhazikitsidwe kufunafuna chimwemwe. bwino zitha kukhala payekha, concomitant chifukwa. Chitsanzo: Mkazi amafuna kukwatira chidwi yekha "kalonga" (by njira zambiri mabuku a maganizo wodzipereka kwa izi - kuphunzitsa achinyamata nthawi zonse kuti tikwaniritse zolinga). Ndipo tiyeni tinene ngakhale heroine wathu, zida ndi malangizo a akatswiri, onse likukhalira - "Prince" kwa iye. Koma ngati izi mudzasangalala onse a iwo? Iwo lapamtima kwawo, kaya udzasangalala chikondi ndi chimwemwe?

Ndipo mu maphwando a lenileni nthano ndi osiyana. otchulidwa Folkloric yekha ndimalota za chikondi ndi wofuna izo, kusesa kutali zopinga zonse. Kodi ukutha maphwando a nkhani yabwino kwambiri kuposa zimene timayembekezera mu moyo weniweni?

Kodi kuchita?

Ngati inu musaike cholinga lanulo Mokhumbira, zoyenera kuchita? Kukhala, ngati lodziwika bwino Emelya pa mbaula ndipo dikirani kuti isanayambike chimwemwe? Mulimonsemo! Anthu aulesi ndi mtima kanthu, sizitanthauza Mwachidule. Njira Chimwemwe - ndi khama, ndi Pofuna kumvetsa okha ndi kusintha kwa bwino. Kodi kuyamba kudziletsa chitukuko? Ndi mabuku komanso nyimbo, amaonera kukongola (n'zosadabwitsa zikunenedwa kuti kukongola adzapulumutsa dziko!). Ngakhale zoyesayesa kumvetsa anthu angapo, ndi chilakolako chofuna kupititsa patsogolo miyoyo ya padziko (ndi zovuta kukhala osangalala mu dziko inharmonious!). Self-kusintha amakhala ndi ntchito yaikulu pa okha, ndi malangizo a akatswiri pa nkhani imeneyi adzakhala kuposa yoyenera. Sikuti onse. Malangizo kwa bwino pa mtengo uliwonse ndi kuyenda kwa cholinga chake pafupifupi mitembo sudzakhalanso munthu wosangalala. nsonga zothandiza adzakhala iwo amene amathandizira kuwongolera chenicheni cha makhalidwe ndi umunthu chabe.

Zamaganizo amalangiza kuti

Ndi palibe chinsinsi kuti anthu timabadwa mosiyana. aphunzitsi anzeru ayenera chilichonse, ngakhale amphamvu ndi ambiri aluso. Koma ngati wina udindo wa mlangizi wa adzatenga buku labwino, ndi munthu wina akufunika thandizo lalikulu kwa kunja.

zamaganizo Kodi mwamsanga? Kodi kuyamba kudziletsa chitukuko? Ngakhale akatswiri njira zina zimasiyana kwambiri ndi si angatsutse angapo ayamikira akhale chenjezo. Mwachitsanzo, kudziwa okha, kuyesera kumvetsa zolinga ndi zofuna zawo, mwabwinobwino kuwunika mphamvu ndi zofooka zawo, ndiye kuti ntchito zambiri kuposa ena, zilibwino munthu. Munthu aliyense ali ndi malire a mwayi, koma limakupatsani kulikankhira malire wodzilamulira chitukuko ndi kupanga zomwe zinkaoneka ngati zosatheka dzulo.

Mu Stock zamaganizo kwambiri othandiza. Mwachitsanzo, kutsegula tsiku lililonse kupeza zinthu zatsopano - njira wodzilamulira chitukuko zambiri. Ndipo kuswa cholinga chachikulu mu masitepe, kukwaniritsa ndondomeko sizikuwoneka zovuta. Akhala akugwira ndi malangizo mmene tingagonjetsere ambiri chibadidwe ulesi, zilibe kupereka mavuto monga kuchita zinthu mumakonda, osati zinthu zofunikira.

zothandiza

Nkofunika kwambiri malangizo maganizo adzakhala anthu amene Akulemedwa maofesi. Nthawi zambiri, kudzikonda chitukuko ndi cholinga kumathandiza kulephera kulankhula ndi kusadzidalira. Zoika zofuna zawo ena si wabwino - aliyense akudziwa izo. Koma palibe bwino kuposa kupereka, osati kukhala wokhoza kunena yekha, nthawi zonse kunja zikhumbo wake, ayenera, akufuna.

Wapatali chifuniro cha kudzikonda chitukuko ndi malangizo m'gulu. Kodi akwere maganizo mavuto ndi Mokhumbira? Kodi sakhala ndi nthawi yocheza pa ntchito, koma ndisamathe, mmene kusiya kuchedwa choncho mpaka mtsogolo, bwanji kuopa kulephera ndi kuphunzira pa zolakwa zawo? Mungaphunzitse munthu ngakhale mu njira yatsopano kuwerenga mabuku, kujambula ndi phindu pazipita. Ndipotu popanda kutha kuzindikira mfundo ndi musalankhule!

Moyo chimwemwe

Nanga kudziona chitukuko cha munthu? Izi ndi njira zogwirizana ndi moyo wokhutira, wosangalala. Choncho, malangizo ofunika kwambiri ndi kwambiri ndi amene kulimbikitsa munthu kukhala wosangalala. Kodi kukhala ndi moyo mwaphindu ndi healthily? Kodi kuchotsa mkwiyo ndi nsanje, kuphunzira kukhulupirira mwa iwo okha, kukhala ndi maganizo oyenera kwa ndekha ndi anthu ena? ayenera kukhala chifukwa cha luso la kudzikonda chikondi ndi ubwenzi, luso kuzindikira chikondi anthu ndi chidwi kwambiri ndi kukongola. Mtima wofuna mogwirizana ndi ungwiro mu magazi a munthu, angofunika zimafalitsa zikhumbo anthu njira chofunika.