Kodi "zinkandisangalatsa"? Meaning, ofanana matanthauzo ndi zitsanzo

Nthawi zina anthu kulankhula Kuthokoza mzake. Kumene, ndiye funso lakuti: "Kodi " zinkandisangalatsa "? Ndi kunena zoona kapena kutsindika ulemu weniweni wa munthu? ". Tiyeni tione izi mwatsatanetsatane, monga mwa nthawi zonse, kudzakhala zitsanzo, ndi ofanana.

mtengo

Dictionary si wolemera, ndipo amapereka matanthauzo awiri okha a mawu kwanu:

1. Kambiranani ndi munthu wabwino kuti njira yanga. Kuti ndi munthu ali mu nkhani iyi chodzikonda.
2. Bweretsani nokha kapena munthu kusangalala.

N'zoonekeratu kuti m'nkhani yoyamba, pamene munthu akufuna batala Kuthokoza ndi interlocutor, chikhomo-utoto ubwino mdani - phwando la sewero moyipa. Ndi yankho ku funso la chimene "pofuna" ndi izi: ndi kunyenga munthu, muloleni iye fumbi pamaso pake pa Iye kuchita zimene zimafunika.

Tanthauzo chachiwiri cha mawuwo, malinga dikishonare, vuto lililonse, ngakhale abwino. Kumbukirani mawu akuti "wodzimva" kapena kuti akuyembekezera chinthu pafupifupi unrealizable kwenikweni. Ndiyeno pali njira "kwa amadzinamiza ndi chiyembekezo", koma sikawirikawiri ntchito choyamba. Mukhoza kuona kuti Kuthokoza, koma mungathe, ndi zina, osati nthawi yomweyo kuthamangitsa cholinga makamaka.

Mau ofanana

Kamodzi mtengo limasalira, anali kwa oloŵa m'malo mwa mawu. Tiyeni tione iwo:

• kunyenga;
• kukhala obsequious ndi;
• mwamantha;
• anawonjezapo chenicheni;
• prevaricate;
• kubisa zina zimene;
• kunena zabwino;
• thandizo;
• kupereka thandizo maganizo.

Munthu amene ali ndi chizolowezi osyasyalika kuti - ndi zoipa, samvetsa kuti kudziwa Mau ofanana anali positive. Modekha, koma bata. Monga momwe taonera, osyasyalika mwina kunyamula mtengo negative.

Tiyeni tinene, mkulu woyang'anira za matamando chimene iye ali wabwino pa ntchito. Mutu, ndithudi, zinkandisangalatsa kapolo, chifukwa amadwala neblestyasche, koma mkulu akusonyeza tilinazo wauzimu ndipo akufuna kuthandiza wantchito wake, kuti iye potsiriza sanataye mtima. Tsopano mutha kuganizira za "zimene zinkandisangalatsa". Koma ife kufika zitsanzo.

nthano IA Krylov ndi Dzhim Kerri

Kumene, chinthu choyamba chimene chimabwera m'maganizo - ndi nthano "Khwangwala ndi Fox". Fox anali wangwiro chinsiriro njira. Koma chilungamo Ine ndiyenera kunena kuti Khwangwala - ndi chinthu zosavuta kwa mpheto. Nthawi zambiri, akhwangwala - wochenjera mbalame, koma osati nthano, monga mwa ntchito za anthu otchulidwa Krylov ali pa utumiki wa mzimu ndi makhalidwe abwino, choncho zenizeni ndi oipa mogwirizana ndi zolinga. ife tonse tikudziwa chiwembu, choncho safuna m'lingaliro kubwereza. Mwa njira, ndendende chifukwa cha nthano za osyasyalika akungodutsa dzina zoipa.

Chitsanzo china flatterer ndi - ngwazi ya kanema "Wabodza Wabodza," Fletcher Reed. Kumbukirani mmene zinthu pamaso anawamasulira kuti? nthawi zonse ananama, gwape, ndi zonse izi pofuna kuti ntchito. Kumene, Kenaka iye anali adzabadwanso. Ndipo angati zambiri anthu ngati Fletcher, amene sankadziwa chilichonse ndi kukhotetsa amodzi? Kwambiri. Anakhalabe yokumbukira zithunzi chitsanzo odziwika a Hollywood kanema, ndi kosavuta kumvetsa zimene "zinkandisangalatsa", sichoncho?

"Wosyasyalika" - wachibale akuti

Ndipo potsiriza, pang'ono nzeru kwa amene amakonda angakhumudwe ndi osyasyalika, kuganizira mofatsa chinachake otsika ndi osayenera.

Mu moyo, anthu a anthu osiyana nawo. Ndipo ena a iwo ndithu moona mtima kumupanga iye Kuthokoza. osyasyalika kutengeka kumachitika pamene mayamiko mphoto ndi khalidwe kuti khamu liri n'zodziŵika. Mwachitsanzo, aluntha kunena mau okoma ndi kusirira erudition wake. Nayenso, amakhulupirira kuti ndi otsogola, chifukwa kuti iye - chinthu chopepuka.

Koma ulamuliro sikuti ntchito. A mkazi wokongola satopa wa Kuthokoza ku adiresi wake, ndipo sangakhoze tikumbukire osyasyalika. Choncho, zimadalira makhalidwe munthu.

Chinthu chachikulu - ndi kuti lingaliro la mawu oti "okweza", ndi kuzindikira kuti anthu kuti si nthawi zonse ikuyendetsedwa ndi chifukwa chodzikonda, nthawi zina munthu monga munthu, ndipo woyamba kuziyika izo mofulumira momwe iye angathere. Koma chifukwa cha nthano tikugwiritsa ntchito pofuna kuchiza zabwino ndi kukayikirana kwambiri, koma pachabe. mawu okoma ofunika kanthu, ndi kubweretsa phindu "yofunika galimoto" (MA Bulgakov). Nthawi zambiri, muyenera kukhala ndi nthawi kuti amasirira anthu, chifukwa moyo ndi waufupi, ndipo, ndithudi, musaiwale za chinenero cha Chirasha. Mwachitsanzo, pa funso la chimene zikutanthauza kuti "zinkandisangalatsa". Timaganiza owerenga adzakumbukira yankho lolondola.