Msungwana wamng'ono kuthekera pa kukongola kwake, kapena Kodi sangagwelenso nkhope mu dothi?

Atsikana chikondi makutu. Ichi chikudziwika kwa munthu aliyense. Koma si aliyense angathe mosavuta tcheru anthu madona ankakonda. Inde, kotero ine nayo yemweyo anayankha chisoni. Short kuthekera msungwana pa kukongola kwake - ichi ndi chimene mukufuna. madona kukonda pamene maonekedwe awo anayamikira. Koma momwe angachitire izo molondola, kuti awonekere intrusive, wamwano kapena mwano?

Zimene muyenera kudziwa tisanasankhe yochepa kuthekera msungwana pa kukongola kwake?

Munthu njira - zofunika kwambiri alankhulane. Koma pali zinthu zina chilengedwe popanda yomwe uthenga wapakamwa zingachititse anachita zosiyana kwathunthu:

• kudzipereka (osati kwathunthu chilungamo ananena za kukongola kwa chithunzi wamkazi, ngati anapita ku msonkhano mu Wobisa onse chithumwa nthenga bedi);
• Posts kutengeka (pamene munthu amachitira maganizo ake pamene akunena, ndi chofunika kwambiri kuposa malemba a mawu yokha);
• matamando wopanda kukoma mtsikana (kotero neno limodzi mukhoza kupha mbalame zonse - kupenda luso kuvala, utoto, sichichita);
• conciseness (lalifupi kuthekera msungwana pa kukongola kwake adzakhala bwino pozindikira kuposa yaitali chosasangalatsa nkhani mwatsatanetsatane);
• kupewa ambiguity;
• Kuthokoza mu vesi ngati si aliyense (kupatula, ndithudi, munthu safuna moonetsera talente yake kwa ndakatulo);
• kwenikweni (mwinamwake mwina amaona akuvutitsidwa).

Kuthokoza za kukongola wake wamkazi

Short mawu zikugwirizana mwamawonekedwe, ambiri, makhalidwe munthu ndi zokumana munthu wakupitiriza iye mnzake. Mu nkhokwe ya kumuyamikira wamba tikhoza kulemba:

• "Ndiri wodabwa mmene inu kuphatikiza nzeru ndi kukongola!".
• "Ndimakusilirani / maonekedwe anu."
• "Ine ndine onyada kuti maloto a anthu onse ali kwa ine."
• "Wokongola inu mukhoza kukhala mpongozi wako / wathu."
• "Inu muli ungwiro."
• "Ndinu chodabwitsa / wokongola chodabwitsa."
• "Ndinu chimwemwe maso anga."
• "Inu ndinu wamkulu chifukwa yekha".
• "Ndinali kuganiza kuti mtsikana wokongola ngati inu, yankhanza. Zikomo anathyola stereotype wanga."
• "Kodi inu kutsindikiza kukhala yotukuka ndiponso wathanzi ngakhale mu tsiku mitambo?".

Kuthokoza mwatsatanetsatane Bakuman maonekedwe

Short kuthekera msungwana pa kukongola kwake chikhoza kukhudza mphindi payekha - diso, kumwetulira, tsitsi ndi zithunzi zina. Chinthu chachikulu - kutsindika mmene iwo chifukwa anthu.

• "Sindinapanikizikepo maso anu."
• "Amenewa maso okongola zitha kukhala munthu wodabwitsa."
• "Inu ndi angelo tione."
• "Ine nthawizonse mwetulirani maso anu ochokera pansi pa mtima."
• "Kukongola ndi kafungo ka tsitsi lanu ine basi alodzedwa!".
• "Inu ndi omveka kwambiri nkhope."
• "Ndimakonda mmene inu lunched milomo. N'zosangalatsa kwambiri / achigololo."
• "Mtima khungu lanu alibe chirichonse mu dziko."
• "Tsitsi lako kunyezimira ngati mathithi dzuwa."
• "Muli mapewa ngati osalimba ... Ine adzakutetezani."

Kuthokoza ndi nthabwala

• "Inu sitinamuone mutu wanga? Ndikuganiza anachitaya icho kuchokera kukongola kwako."
• "Kodi inu kusunga chinsinsi? Ine ndikuuzani inu munthu. Pamene inu muli kozungulira, anthu onse nsanje nsanje yanga wakuda."
• "Zipolopolo wojambula zithunzi wake! Muli moyo wanga nthawi zana bwino!".
• "Ndinu chochepera! Kodi mwaika moyo?".
• "Pamene inu anachira, chakhala ang'ono kwambiri."
• "Inu musati muziganiza ndinu okongola koposa? Pajatu kwenikweni woipa kuposa inu."
• "Ngati ine ndikanakhala wabadwa msungwana, ndiye wokongola monga inu."
• "Mtsikana iwe, ndiwe wokongola kwambiri kuti ndinaiwala ayezi kufufuza ndi inu."

N'zovuta kuyankha, kodi kuthekera mukufuna mtsikana wina. Zidalira pa zokonda ndi mlingo wa kugona ndi izo. Ndipotu, tsiku loyamba si bwino ndithu kafungo madona achigololo (ngati mukufuna kudzakomananso, kumene). Oipitsitsa - mawu kuti Milomo aliyense, monga, "Ine ndiri kuyitana kuchokera kumwamba ...". Kupitiriza "mayi mpongozi wako osafunika?" - wina kukhumudwa mnzake.

Zonse ziyenera kukhala pansi pa mtima, makamaka prose complimenting msungwana kukongola. Short kapena yaitali, womangika kapena wosakhwima - iwo ali, koposa zonse, ayenera kukhala payekha ndi odzipereka.