Sizichita nawo pa ukwati: Khalani pachiyambi!

Ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi ukwati (anu kapena ukwati wa ABWENZI, ABALE, etc.) wakhala wochititsa chidwi ndi zosaiŵalika chochitika, muyenera bwinobwino angakonzekere. No ukwati adzakhala wangwiro ngati sanali kuthera okwanira kuchuluka kwa nthawi, mphamvu ndi mphamvu. Ntchito si kwapafupi, sichoncho? Koma zotsatira n'kosathandiza!

Popeza kukonzekera ukwati, n'kofunika kusamalira ichi monga mphindi kofunika sizichita nawo ku ukwati! Inde, si zotheka kuti aganizire ngakhale kwambiri ukwati wosafuna popanda zinthu monga: Tilandire woyamba pa ukwati kapena moni alendo. Kuti Zabwino ndi sizichita nawo pa ukwatiwo chiyani sizikumveka corny ndi "anamenyedwa", muyenera kuganizira zimene zidzachitike kulankhula lililonse ya alendo, zimene mau oti tinene, chifukwa nthawi zambiri Tilandire pa ukwati ndi kulenga chikhalidwe zamatsenga za chikondi ndi chofunika nthawiyo! Mwachitsanzo, bwino zingamvekere Tilandire chuma kuti amanyamula bwino zofuna makolo komanso ana awo: "Tiyeni tsiku lodabwitsa ndidzamuukitsa magalasi awo kuti ana athu makolo osangalala ndi wolemera Ndipo makolo wathu wokondedwa! nayenso - moseketsa ndi olemera ana "!

Choncho, kodi zambiri wofunitsitsa "chachikulu" alendo, ndicho, amayi, abambo ndi grandmothers a mkwatibwi ndi Mkwati? Kumene, sizichita nawo awo pa ukwati monga zofuna yaikulu chimwemwe, luntha, chikondi ndi thanzi, kenako Tilandire ndi akanema cholakalaka wa ana, etc. Chitsanzo chabwino choterocho Tilandire

Chimalimba kwambiri tiyeni mgwirizano wanu,

Chikondi ndi zodabwitsa - ndipo palibe mphoto,

Ndipo moyo pamodzi ndi nsinga za ngongole -

Osati chilango, koma chimwemwe ...

Kuyankhula za sizichita nawo ukwati, ayenera kuganizira peculiarities chikondwerero makamaka chifukwa nthawi amalembedwa osati mwachindunji ukwati, komanso ena "ukwati", akuti: nsalu, nkhuni, siliva, golide, ndi zina ... Kodi Mwachitsanzo, ayenera kukhala Tilandire ukwati golide?

Inde, golide ukwati (monga mmene zaka 50 za ukwati!) Usakhalenso zikuphatikizapo wachangu ndi "mpweya" Zabwino pa tsiku lodabwitsa. Apa m'malo sizichita nawo oterewa zambiri bata ndi anayeza mawu kunyamula mwakuya kwambiri ndi zambiri zofunika lingaliro ... Mwachitsanzo, zotsatirazi:

Inu - chitsanzo cha mabanja ambiri amene zopinga
Pa msewu wa moyo kukhala pamodzi ndi kulekanitsidwa kuteteza chaka ...
Ndipo munali okhoza kudutsa namondwe ndipo nyengo yoipa,
Pakuti ulemu uwu inu ndi matamando!

Anthu amene ankakhala mbali ndi mbali, ambiri ndithu zaka, oyenera ulemu wapadera, kotero, ukwati Zabwino, mu nkhani iyi, monga ulamuliro, monga mafuno chitukuko zina m'banja, kumvetsa ngakhale chokulirapo, kupitiriza ndi kulimbitsa mabanja athu. Si phokoso sizichita nawo "wa ana," apa tikukamba zambiri za zidzukulu - ndipo ichi makamaka olimbikitsa! Full ndimakonda ofunda ndi wochezeka, zopempha oterowo ndi lalikulu mlandu zabwino, omwe amathandiza kale amphamvu banja mabanja.

Kulankhula ndi kulankhula pagulu si zovuta kwa ena. Monga kukonzekera pasadakhale, kuti atsekerezedwa ndi kumumenya ena ndi mawu awo chodabwitsa! Tangoganizani kokondweretsa ndipo kukhudza mkwati ndi mkwatibwi adzamva moni monga "njira ya moyo ndi osiyana kwambiri, koma wasankha kukhala pamodzi, ndipo ambiri Chofunika - tsopano kusamalira wina ndi mnzake ndi kulemekeza maganizo ake ..." etc. Kuwonjezera mkate wanu m'maganizo pang'ono ndi nthabwala, popanda zomwe moni zingaoneke mawu oti amanenedwa pa chilichonse ndi zokongoletsa ntchito zachikondi ndi wofatsa.

Bondo m'maganizo anu, ntchito mokwanira - ndiyeno ukwati Tilandire lidzalira kwambiri, ndipo koposa zonse choyambirira ndi watsopano! Kudzayamikira mkwati ndi mkwatibwi wokongola, kusangalala kwa makolo wachimwemwe ndi kulemekezedwa ndi agogo, musaiwale za azakhali ndi alendo ena - chifukwa aliyense ndi zabwino kuti osachepera moni ang'onoang'ono adiresi yanu!