zamaganizo anthu ndi chidwi kwambiri kuphunzira, makamaka pankhani ya kugonana. phunziro ili wazunguliridwa ndi subtleties ambiri chikhalidwe, zovuta ndi maganizo achilendo.
Kafukufuku wa posachedwapa
deta ndithu kafukufuku posachedwapa zafalitsidwa, olemba ayesa kudziwa ngati mchitidwe ogonana omwe anali chinthu angathe chilakolako kupeza, pempho lake. Mwachidule, ngati chiwerengero cha kugwirizana ndi kugonana umanena? Mu phunziro, ophunzira amafunsidwa kuti lembani mafunso okhudzana ndi chikoka cha akonzedwa Wonenedwa mwa ophatikidzana nawo, omwe anali ndi chiwerengero yosiyanasiyana ya kugonana, ndipo kwa ziro kwa makumi asanu. gulu Phunziro anafunsidwa kuti timakondanso chikoka cha munthu kwa mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya maubwenzi.
An chifukwa chidwi
Anthu amanena kuti anthu apaulendo umodzi mulingo woyenera chiwerengero cha zibwenzi yapita Mitandadza awiri sikisi. A chiwerengero zikuluzikulu kumachepetsa kutchuka anthu ndi nambala iliyonse wotsatira. Pakuti lalifupi chiŵerengero chiwerengero cha zibwenzi kuthekera kwa amuna ndi apamwamba kuposa akazi. Amuna ambiri amakonda kukumana ndi namwali kapena mkazi ochepa abwenzi Komabe, mawu a kusiyana anali yaing'ono, ndi kuti mfundo yaikulu zochokera chotsatirachi, si koyenera.
The mulingo woyenera nambala pachibwenzi
The kupeza zofunika kwambiri kuphunzira anasonyeza kuti akapeza wothangtana naye kwa ubale, amuna ndi akazi analandira pafupifupi chimodzimodzi. Anthu ambiri sakonda kwambiri kuyamba chibwenzi ndi munthu amene kale zibwenzi zambiri zogonana. Kuchuluka akadakwanitsira malinga ndi asayansi, ndi awiri kapena atatu. Pambuyo pake, mwamuna zina kugonana amachepetsa chikoka cha kugwirizana ndi munthu. Asayansi apeza kuti chiwerengero cha kugwirizana yapita amakhudza kwambiri pa ubwenzi. Izi refutes ndi stereotype kuti amuna wachimasomaso, ndithu wokongola ndipo anaweruzidwa akazi okhaokha. Ndipotu, oimira kugonana akhoza anakumana ndi mavuto mu ubale ngati woyamba anali kwambiri omasuka moyo. Dziwani kuti ophunzira phunziro anali onyamula mfundo zina - izo zimaphunzitsa anthu achikhalidwe amakonda demokalase ndi anthu azikhala. M'maiko zotsatira za zingakhale zosiyana makhalidwe ena, kuwonjezera, mu kuyesera sanali ayesedwa anthu ndi lathu lina.