Changu - ikupita patsogolo

Kuitana munthu amakondadi zimene iwo amachita? N'chiyani chimachititsa iye "kuyang'anira" ngati kuti amalola kuchita chimodzimodzi chimene iye anasankha, ndi kupita msewu kwambiri anasankha? Monga likukhalira kukhala woona kwa nokha, ngati momwe muli mavuto osiyanasiyana? .. Nyakusowa Pol Gogen, "reveler amakondwerera" Mozart, frenetic chosintha Zhan Pol Marat ... Inu mukhoza kuwatcha otentheka ndi opusa, koma mukhoza amasirira namatetule awo amene monga musataye iwo kukhala chete, moyo wabwinobwino. Ambiri, anthu awa poyamba ikuyendetsedwa ndi kanthu ena kuposa kutengeka ndi.

pa mapiko

M'dziko nzeru ndi mabuku palibe mtengo umodzi akupeza mawu. Lekani pa aliyense wa iwo alibe tanthauzo mwatsatanetsatane, koma ndi ogula mawonedwe kuyang'ana pa lingaliro ili ndi kumvetsetsa "zimene amadya," sikusokoneza.

Nzosadabwitsa munthu amene nthawi zonse amaganiza kuti sapereka iye mpumulo, otchedwa ziwanda. Ndithudi, izi si yonse, kuti nkhondowo zomwe zimachititsa madzi oyera, pemphero ndi mtanda, koma chosiyana. Man, makamaka luso, aphimbidwa ndi mtundu wina wa lingaliro, ndipo zikuoneka kuti iye, pamene iye anayika izo mu wochita, padzakhala chinthu kulankhula zimene zidzakhala zaka, kapena ngakhale zaka ... Mu mawu ena, alimbikitsa - kudzoza. Nthawi zina munthu wapatuka pa nkhani ngati monyinyirika, monga iwo amati, opanda chidwi kwambiri, koma, monga chilakolako akubwera ndi kudya, kotero apo pakubwera kukhulupirira kuti njira osankhidwa - woona yekha. Kamodzi zambiri amaliza (ndi likhoza kutha bwinobwino), ndi wokonda akuona ngati wopambana ndi. Kwenikweni, iye ali wopambana, monga anagonjetsa awo "sangathe", "sindikufuna" ndi "sindikudziwa."

Mtima komanso zolinga

Kuphunzira chinenero china china? Kuchidziwa mwambo watsopano? Kugonjetsa pamwamba pa phiri, kutenga ulendo umodzi, kapena kuphunzira mmene kudzala mbewu? Aliyense ntchito - ndi vuto ndekha. Ndi changu - mota kuti amalola munthu momwemo kanthu.

Chidwi kwambiri ndi kuti kulankhula zambiri opatsirana. Ngakhale, zonse zimadalira wachikoka ndi luso kutsimikizira "limakonda", ndi momwe munthu wachiwiri kutengera. Pafupi mfundo changu zambiri akuti zolinga pano. Kunena mwachidule, wofuna - ndi ozindikira ndipo dala changu. Ndiko kuti, alimbikitsa - ngati Mwachitsanzo, akupereka chithunzi cha munthu chabe chifukwa chakuti akufuna ake kudzatunga. Koma pamene akupereka, chifukwa amadziwa zimene akufuna, chithunzi ichi - izi ndi zolinga ndi.

cholinga

Mwachidule, ngati pali kudzoza ndi mphamvu kukonzekera pomwepo, Mudzagwetse iyeyo, kuganiza mofatsa: chimene, mosamalitsa kulankhula, m'pofunika? Pali zitsanzo zambiri mbiri ndiponso mabuku, pamene alimbikitsa wofunitsitsa kuswa moyo osati kuti ngwazi, komanso m'madera ozungulira mzindawo.

Aliyense wa ife ndi boma zodabwitsa za malingaliro pamene mukufuna kuti "kufungatira chosefukira", koma kuponya kwinakwake mphamvu zanga kuchita chilichonse chimene kukhala waphindu kwambiri - ngati dziko, osachepera mamembala a banja. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri apa - basi kutaya nokha pa nkhani zikuluzikulu, amene kumafunika nthawi.

changu zolondola

Changu - mphamvu ndi chilimbikitso. Nthawi zina, ndithudi, kotero kuti kuchita ntchito ya mtundu uliwonse sizikanakhala zofunika, ndipo mwachizolowezi "ayenera" sikokwanira. Mu nkhani iyi, njira galimoto kuvumbitsira tingachipeze powerenga chilimbikitso. Mawu, inu muyenera kulumikiza m'maganizo, ndi kulingalira zomwe zingachitike ngati Mwachitsanzo, kutsiriza kulemba dongosolo, ndiyeno ena more ... Mukhoza kupanga ndalama, ndipo ndalama zina izi kaye ulendo kapena zogula zosangalatsa . Mwachidule, ndi bwino ndi olondola ntchito ndi chilimbikitso kuposa ndi lingaliro maganizo ngati changu. Mau ofanana kwa lingaliro ili kupanga mukuganiza: chilakolako, zikhulupiriro, atikhaulitse, chisangalalo ... Ndi zophweka kukwaniritsa cholinga, ngati inu zinthu modekha mwadala.