Ganizirani - ndi ... chimawala munthu - ndi chiyani?

Tingawadziwe bwanji munthu amaganiza za mbewu, munthu ku mwala, chizindikiro cha fumbi? Kulola kuti apewe chizolowezi cha moyo ndi kuyang'ana mmbuyo ndi kupenda zochitikazo, zolakwa zawo ndi kugonjetsa kwenikweni? Ndi chinyezimiritso - luso malingaliro a munthu yovuta kudziletsa kusanthula.

Kumasulira kwa Latin reflexio - kumbuyo-kuyembekezera. Amaonetsa umunthu si kuona otsutsa pa dziko otizungulira, komanso kuti tisanthule zochita zawo, malingaliro ndi zotsatira za mphamvu yake ndi moyo mwa chitsanzo chawo moyo. Izi si zazing'ono kukumbukira, tedding "Affairs masiku makedzana" kusungulumwa. Izi zinakhala bwanji kuti akhoza kusintha kwa tsogolo labwino wa munthu, maganizo ake kukhalanso.

Kutanthauzira maganizo kusonyeza - zikutanthauza bwino mwanzeru kuzindikira zili m'maganizo mwake, moyo wake zinachitikira.

A pang'ono mbiri. Poganizira ndi Wauzimu

Poganizira tcheru kumbuyo mu wakale Greek nzeru, Socrates ankaika ndondomeko wa anthu odziwa, omwe anakhala nkhani ya zinthu zauzimu ndi ntchito yake chidziwitso. Munthu amene adzandikana chidziwitso ndipo amakana kudzimvera chidziwitso, sangathe kukhala munthu wauzimu ndiponso makhalidwe sangathe kukhala. Ganizirani - kumatanthauza kukhala, kukula mwauzimu.

Plato ndi Aristotle ankaganiza ndi kusinkhasinkha anali zotsatira chibadidwe demiurge ndi maganizo Mulungu. Only ndi wapamwamba-nzeru, mu chidziwitso chawo, ankatha umodzi thinkable ndipo ndinaganiza. Mfundo imeneyi inasanduka Wachiwiri-Platonism kunena motsindika kuti kusinkhasinkha kanthu ena kuposa ntchito okhazikitsa mtendere wa mulungu. Chiphunzitsochi n'zomveka ndipo amapezeka kutanthauzira ano. chakuti reflexing akhoza ikuchitika poyamba awiri. Woyamba malo - pamene pali kutanthauzira payekha: I-reflexing. Amandidziwa bwino kuposa ndekha ndipo akhoza kukambirana maganizo anga ndi zolinga? Ineyo yekha.

Udindo wachiwiri - palibe-I-reflexing. Koma amene koma ine akanakhoza kulowamo malingaliro anga? Mulungu ali ndi katundu wa munthu.

Choncho, okhulupirira osati yekha refleksiruet ndi kuona zochita zawo, ilo mapanga sikani nzeru, kuganizira za mmene Mulungu anafotokoza kuti khalidwe lake. Olungama ngati moyo wake, kaya iye ndi wochimwa.

The chifukwa cha reflexing izi amawonjezera, ndi zotsatira za Kudzifufuza, ndithudi, wamphamvu.

Amaonetsa munthu

Mu mfundo zambiri nthanthi za kulingalira izo monga mmodzi wa katundu chofunika kwambiri pa kutsitsimuka. Mogwirizana ndi mawu amenewa amazindikira ndi nkhawa angathe kuonedwa yekha anthu amene akudziwa limati maganizo. Mwachidule, munthu sangathe kufufuza boma maganizo, sitinganene kuti maganizo. Maganizo, kulenga, koma simukuganiza.

Poganizira akhanda ziro - iye samazidziwa padzikoli mwachibwanabwana, makolo - onse mopanda malire zikuluzikulu za dziko lino. Mu ndondomeko ya kukula ndi kukula kudziyimira pawokha ndi makolo chisamaliro kukula munthu amayamba kuwona ndi zomveka zotsutsana ndi. Izi zimapangitsa iye kuvomereza kapena kukana ulamuliro wa makolo, lotha kuganiza mozama zochita za anthu pafupi. chinyezimiro limagwirira ndi anapezerapo, ndipo tsopano anthu likhoza kusintha ndi kukula mwauzimu ndi mwamakhalidwe.

Poganizira anthu akhoza kukhala chomwecho. Izo zimasiyanasiyana mlingo wake ndi malingana ndi zaka munthuyo. Ntchito kwambiri ndi matalikidwe a kusinkhasinkha ndi pa chiyambi cha kukula kwa umunthu - pa siteji ya ubwana ndi unyamata, achinyamata. Ndi pakati pa moyo kusinkhasinkha kwambiri kumawononga kayendedwe, ndi mapeto a moyo ndi m'malo onse.

Kodi n'zotheka kukhala ndi bongo wanu?

Monga bwino, taganizirani munthu aliyense - izo zikutanthauza kuti apewe yokha mu ndege wauzimu. Kodi n'zotheka ntchito ndondomeko imeneyi kulimbikitsa chitukuko zauzimu ndiponso makhalidwe abwino?

Kodi zikutanthauza kusonyeza? Mwachidule, kusonyeza - kumatanthauza kulabadira zimene zikuchitika kunja. Nkhondo, mavuto, mikangano, kukambirana, kusankha, kukayikira - zonsezi zimachitika munthu tsiku lililonse. The zambiri munthu wa zimenezi, ndi watanthauzo matalikidwe ake chimawala.

Amaonetsa anthu - ndi mtundu wa psychoanalyst nazo, kupirira vuto ndi kupeza njira yothetsera m'miyoyo yawo kudzera mmakhalidwe awo.

The peculiarity wa malingaliro moyo ndi kuti ayenera pang'ono chabe kuti muwona ndi kumva, kotero iye akhoza kuganizira. N'zotheka kuti ayese njira woganiza rethinking luso ndi ulemu kwa munthu wina aliyense. Kodi maola ambiri ukuganiza tingowerenga bukhu, anaonerera mafilimu, anawona filimu? Ola, tsiku, sabata? Kodi polojekiti zochitika za m'buku la palokha, kuyesera kuti muone ngati zochita zawo pa nkhani ya luso powonekera?

Ichi ndi kukuphunzitsani reflexive. mtundu wa chinyezimiro masewera olimbitsa thupi amalangiza kulemba pa chidutswa cha nkhani zofunika kwambiri ndi zofunika nkhawa kwa inu mu moyo. Kuika iwo mu malo amodzi, yesani kuona mafunso zolembera a mitundu yosiyanasiyana ndi kupeza zomwe ambiri a nkhani yanu. Za tanthauzo la moyo? Za ntchito yanu? ubale weniweni ndi ena? Pa chigawo zakuthupi? Za m'tsogolo?

Atalipenda kotero zoyembekezera zanu, mukhoza kupitiriza chinyezimiro mu madera ambiri mabvuto, kukhala wangwiro kwambiri ndi kupitiriza kukula mwauzimu.

njira jenda

Pali chiphunzitso cha njira jenda ndi ndondomeko chinyezimiritso. Malinga ndi stereotype limeneli akazi amene amakonda chinyezimiro, kuposa anthu, ndipo ichi ndi chifukwa ankati, kuti zobisika kwambiri zamatsenga lamulo akazi fairer. Zimenezi maganizo ndi wopanda umboni sayansi.

Pali asayansi ambiri, zamaganizo kuyang'anila zimene zinasonyeza mawonekedwe osiyana a chinyezimiro mwa oimira amuna ndi akazi osiyana.

Choncho, anapezeka kuti akazi ndi pamlingo wochepa wa chinyezimiro m'posavuta kuti kutsatira zofuna zawo kwa moyo wa ena. Mwachidule, otsika nzeru, osati amasonyeza wamkazi umunthu zambiri zankhanza ndipo ndi khalidwe feisty. Pamene amasonyeza oimira wamkazi amakonda kupeza kukondera ndi kuchoka kumuyalutsa, kuposa kukhala mu zameshennym nkhondo.

Amaonetsa munthu M'malo mwake, mu Kukolanaku akutumikira womenya kuteteza zofuna zawo. Amuna ndi chizindikiro osachepera chinyezimiro adzakusonyezani pankhondo zinthu dziphunzitsiranso, khalidwe.

Choncho, Polongosola mwachidule pamwamba, tikhoza kunena motsimikiza kuti kusonyeza - zikutanthauza kuti munthu amaganiza, mmene amamvera Kuganizira. Mundawu wa umunthu chimatichimwitsa wosiyana ndi anthu ena a dziko wamoyo, ndi katundu uyu akhoza kubweretsa munthu kuti latsopano, mlingo qualitatively atsopano chitukuko.