Catherine ndi buku lake Krongauz

Catherine Krongauz lero chikudziwika ngati mlembi wa buku groundbreaking "Ine ndine mai oipa?". chilengedwe chake akupita kwa akazi openekera kufunitsitsa ake ndi mwana, nthawi zonse kukakamiza okha zofuna wokwera ndipo kenako mantha si wolungama. Krongauz mtolankhani Catherine imakamba zimene siteji kwambiri patsogolo maonekedwe a mwanayo m'banja. bukuli ndi zosavuta kuwerenga, olembedwa ndi nthabwala, underpinned mwa zochitika zogwirizana.

Catherine Krongauz. yonena

wolemba anabadwa pa April 27, 1984. Catherine Krongauz - walunthayu Mtolankhani Banda ndi wolemba malemba ambiri, kuikidwa pa intaneti. Mu 2009 iye anamaliza MGPPU. Iye anagwiritsa ntchito nthawi zambiri kuphunzira mutu ubale wa kholo ndi mwana ndipo ndi wokonzeka mowolowa manja kugawana ndi owerenga anakumana nazo. Pa nthawi ina Krongauz anatsogolera mzati mu "Snob" magazini, anakakhala mkonzi wamkulu wa "Big City".

Pa nthawi, mnyamata bwino mkazi, mayi wa ana awiri - Leva ndi Yasha. mmakhalidwe awo ndi ana ndi maganizo awo pambuyo pa kubadwa kwawo, ananena m'buku lakuti "Ndine mai oipa?". Catherine Krongauz yaitali anafuna mayankho a mafunso chopweteka. Malinga ndi iye, aliyense kholo bwino kapena ayi, akuona kumverera kwachilendo mlandu kwa mwanayo. Kodi kuthana ndi mantha awo, ndiponso wolemba limati mu nkhani yake zimasangalatsa.

Kulolera ndi ana

Palibe banja wamng'ono sanali kwathunthu wosayenera wa chimwemwe chochuluka. Palibe mkazi sangakhale mayi mpaka Timasangalalanso wachikondi ndi chikondi, chimene iye kosalekeza wazungulira mwana wake. wolemba kwambiri akugwirizira lingaliro lakuti mukhoza kugwa m'chikondi ndi mwana pasadakhale, mpaka nthawi mpaka iwo kubereka izo, simungaone mmene amapanga njira yake yoyamba. Ndi zomvetsa chisoni ndi zolakwika kudzatenga kwa iye zina mwa makhalidwe abwino kuti kulola kuti tikapeze chisangalalo ndi chimwemwe ndondomeko kulankhulana ndi mwana.

Masiku ano, anthu ambiri kusonkhana kufunitsitsa kukhala ndi mwana, poyamba pa zonse, zinthu ziwayendere bwino. Chuma m'banja, ndithudi, zofunika, koma siziyenera kukhala chopinga chakuti kuganiza kuti: Ndingatani kukula mwamuna wamng'ono kapena ayi? Kulolera ndi mwana - ndi koposa zonse, ndi chizimuthandi- za udindo, ndipo ambiri Chofunika, kufuna kusamalira, kupereka munthu chidutswa cha moyo wanu.

Kodi ndifunika nsembe?

akazi ambiri amaoneka kuti akhale kuti apeze mwana awo kuti akule wathanzi ndi osangalala, iwo modzipereka podzipereka mbali ya chimwemwe chawo. Catherine Krongauz debunks nkhani ya Pafunika kudzipereka okha nsembe. Zimadzetsa owerenga kumvetsetsa kuti palibe mwana kuponya maphunziro awo, kusiya moyo wake, kusokoneza kugona ndi achibale. Inde, fano la mayi yokha ndi pang'ono nsembe. Mmadera pali amakhulupirira kuti mwana akhoza kukula popanda chirichonse mavuto, nkhawa ndi mavuto. Nkhawa muli mu kuwonjezeka aliyense case, koma nsembe Sikuti.

Young mayi, kukayika ali ndi ufulu chimwemwe, akatswiri kuzindikira. Koma kodi akazi angati amene angakwanitse amasangalala nthawi kupeza mayi? Pafupifupi onse tikuvutika ndi mantha zomwe zingachitike ngati ine sindikanakhoza kuchita izo, nthawi zonse?

kupalamula

Izi ndi item osiyana lidziwe mwapadera. Krongauz m'buku lake, limatsindika mfundo yakuti akazi ambiri zinachitikira pamaso mwana wawo kusalankhula kupalamula. Pankhaniyi, zilipo chopereka makolo si n'komwe. Uliwonse wa kugonana chilungamo ndi malo ake chathu chimene likukhalira kuti "zoipa" ndi osayenera mayi: si powasamalira, chinkhoswe mu chitukuko cha nyenyeswa alibe nthawi maphunziro apamwamba, etc. Zikuoneka kuti nthawi zina ife tokha kuyambitsa mavuto nokha ndipo .. tivutika kwa iwo. Musaphwanye kuyesetsa abwino wangwiro. Kumbukirani kuti aliyense wake chidwi ndi wapadera. Bola ngati inu kumanga fano malo amodzi, dziko ndi nthawi kusintha nthawi zambiri. Ndi akutulukira kudziona ndi kulakwa m'pofunika ntchito. Kodi chimodzimodzi? Catherine Izi anafotokoza m'buku lake labwino.

Chisangalalo mwanayo

Amayi nthawi zonse nkhawa mwana ngati anadyetsa, pamenepo atavala mpaka ofunda, osati ozizira kumeneko, ngati akudwala? Mndandanda zambiri. Chisangalalo mwanayo ndipo, koma zake moyo wa akazi osati kwa nyenyeswa za. Pokhapokha ngati inu kutulukira zinthu zodabwitsa, ife amene angamvetsetse dziko. Musamangocheza wofufuza wanu wamng'ono.

Choncho, Catherine Krongauz m'buku ananena kuti amayi ku malo maganizo ndi kulingalira. Iye anatchulapo zitsanzo zambiri za maphunziro za ufulu ndi udindo mu mphamvu zimene bungwe mwana wawo aliyense kholo.