Kodi kulankhula bwino: Nsonga

Tonse amayesetsa kuti anthu ena chidwi, koma aliyense amadziwa kuti ziyenera a munthu aumbike mwa zigawo zinayi? Zikuphatikizapo maonekedwe, zochita, ndi zoona, zolankhula zathu. Pankhaniyi, chofunika si zimene timalankhula komanso mmene timachita.

Phunzirani kulankhula bwino

Ndithudi mukudziwa munthu mmodzi amene ali ndi vuto kuti amvane. chakuti muyenera kudziwa mmene kulankhula molimba mtima, komanso mwaluso kufotokoza maganizo awo.

Tiyeni tiyese kulankhula za mfundo zazikulu timalankhula, chifukwa palibe munthu amene anaphunzitsa bwanji kulankhula, choncho, ena ayamikira adzakhala kwambiri.

Choyamba, tiyenera kulabadira mawu a. Muyenera kuwerenga kwambiri, chifukwa nthawizina ife basi tiribe mawu kufotokoza, zopanga maganizo awo. zolankhula zathu zingakhale lilime-womangidwa, akhoza kukumana otchedwa mawu namsongole ndi kuperewera kwa ena.

Tsopano ndi ofunika powasamalira nkhawa kuti inuyo mawu. Zinali woyenera, m'pofunika kudziwa mmene molondola kutchula mawu. Pankhaniyi, dikishonare kudzakuthandizani kutchula bwino, kuphunzira mawu ambiri, koma ngati muli ndi chikaiko monga kutsindika bwino m'malo ndi lofanana, kapena ngakhale kuphonya.

Nthawi zambiri zolankhula zathu timakonda kugwiritsa ntchito mawu owonjezera kuti Musatenge pyakufunika. Mwachitsanzo: "Ambiri, Ine anasaina mapepalawo ndi zonse izo," "Chabwino, ine ndinazisiya izo kunja uko, zotani okwana mapepala". masabata awiri okha maphunziro, ndiponso mawu anu ndi zambiri "zotsukira" ndipo tikhale ndi kukongola zolembalemba.

Kuganizira mmene kulankhula bwino, sitiyenera kuiwala za kamvekedwe, amene amakhudza kuganiza chachikulu zomwe zanenedwa. linanena bungwe ndi losavuta: mukhoza kulemba mawu anu pa tepi ndiyeno kuliganizira bwino, zikhoza chikugwirizana ndi ndondomeko imeneyi, comrades, kuti ndikuuzeni zimene iwo samakonda mu mayendedwe anu.

Nthawizina ife ntchito pa zolankhula zathu kovuta kumvetsa mawu a ena. Kumbukirani zaka koleji, pamene mukhoza kumvetsa nkhani ya pulofesa, ndipo komabe izo zinkawoneka kuti iye amalankhula angakwanitse ndithu. mfundo ndi yakuti tingathe kunena m'njira yosavuta, n'zomveka kuti aliyense mwa kusankha mawu. Yesetsani zolankhula zanu inalibe mawu zovuta kumvetsa mnzanu, ndiyeno zonse adzagwera malo.

Ngati mukufuna kudziwa mmene kuyankhula, inu ndi kwathunthu kuyiwala za kutukwana, slang ndi jargon. Mosakayikira, mnzanu adzamvetsa mwangwiro ngati inu munena kwa iye: "Zinali Soul ndege Party, kotero booze zambiri anali kuyenda pansi kuvina!". Koma si koyenera mzimu yemweyo kuuza munthu wamkulu mmene anali Sunday anu madzulo. Muli zosefera zolankhula zanu ndiponso kuganizira zimene mukunena ndi ndani.

Posachedwapa, wotchuka kwambiri pakati pa anthu amene amalankhula chinenero china, anali kugwiritsa ntchito pa mawu ake, mawu achilendo. Kusakaniza zinenero iliyonse Sudzatitsogolera, izo si yonyansa, koma si bwino kwa anthu ena, ngakhale amadziwa chinenero limene udzadya mawu amenewa.

Mwina ndinu pang'ono kudabwa, koma kuti mukudziwa momwe angayankhulire, muyenera kumvetsera. N'zokayikitsa kuti iwe ukhale conversationalist wabwino, ngati inu nthawi zambiri amandiuza mdani wanu ndipo musataye iye kufotokoza mfundo yake ya view.

Pankhaniyi, izo osazindikira kwambiri mwachangu kufunsa mafunso, mwinamwake kukambirana kwanu osati monga kulankhula, koma pa mafunso weniweni.

M'pofunikanso kukumbukira golide ulamuliro wa conversationalist wabwino: Kodi tisasokoneze. Luso kupereka mawu kwambiri kwambiri. Pa nthawi yomweyo, pamene Mnzanuyo kulankhula, inu simusowa "thobvu pakamwa" kutsimikizira wosalakwa. Kukambirana sayenera akufanana ndi mtsutso ndale, pamene aliyense akufuna kuteteza mfundo yake maganizo ndi zifukwa zodzikhululukira. Mungathe kutembenukira macheza wako wosangalatsa kucheza wamba.