Kodi kulera kudzidalira?

mavuto moyo nthawi zambiri amaona osatetezeka. Kudana, kuperekedwa mavuto kuntchito ndi zokhumudwitsa ndi kuphunzitsa odzikayikira, Mwapang'onopang'ono chakuti kudzidalira yafupika. Ndipo kuchokera zimatengera kwambiri mu moyo wanga, chifukwa iye anali amene chimalimbikitsa pafupifupi onse zochita anthu.

Kumvetsa mmene kwezani kudzidalira, afunika choyamba timvetse bwino za uthunthu wake. Zimene tingachite Tony? Kodi n'zotheka bwino kuwalamulira iwo?

Chifanizo cha zathu "Ine" zachokera kumverera ndi wosafunika. Maziko a Tony yaikidwa ana, ndi kwambiri zimadalira maganizo a makolo ndi mwanayo ndi mmene anamvera chikondi ndi chisamaliro. Malinga ichi, akuyika kuzindikira mfundo zawo liyamba amapereka mwa zinthu mkati. Ngati chikondi cha kholo m'njira zina kuti "kugula" khalidwe labwino, kumvera, kupambana maphunziro, izo amalenga zinthu ndi nkhawa mkati mwa kufunika zonse kukwaniritsa zofuna za wina. Anapanga kuchepekedwa ndi wosafunika, tcheru ndi chilungamo mbali ya ena, akumanga kukhumudwa.

Kodi kulera wanu kudzidalira, ngati anali bwino anapanga kale ana? Pankhaniyi, kumverera ndi wosafunika n'kofunika kupanga tokha. Iwo imatsimikizirika kuti khama akulimbana anapanga mbali iyi, tikhoza iyende chogwirika.

Choyamba, tiyenera kuphunzira kusiyanitsa pakati pa maganizo athu zotengera malingaliridwe a moyo kuchokera ku chenicheni, osati wosokonezeka maganizo ndi mfundo. Chitsanzo chapamwamba - ubwana dzina amene anapanga kumva maganizo kwabasi. Monga akulu, tiyenera kupitiriza kukhala kofunika kwambiri m'ndemanga za ena, kulandira chiweruzo anthu ena a choonadi, zimene zikutanthauza kuti akathetse okha. Tiyenera kuphunzira kukhulupirira nokha, osati kuyesa kusangalatsa aliyense.

Amayang'anitsitsa zikayenda mwini. Izi zimathandiza kwambiri kuti tipanga bwanji kulera kudzidalira yokha. Mukadziŵa mphamvu zikayenda bwino, mutha kuyang'ana pa okha m'njira yosiyana kuwona zambiri coherent ndi amphamvu umunthu, omwe ayenera kunyadira.

Taganizirani za amene maganizo anu ndi moyo wanu amene inu zimadalira amene ali ndi luso kusamalira wanu kudzidalira. Mwina ndi munthu amene pafupi ndi inu kapena wankhanza mayi, amene sangathe kuzindikira kuti akhala atakula ndi munthu palokha. Aliyense akupeza njira zawo kuletsa machitidwe wina pa moyo wawo.

Golide ulamuliro umene ungatithandize kumvetsa mmene kulera kudzidalira, chiri motere. Tiyenera kuphunzira yomweyo kugwira ntchito yomweyo pambuyo zochita. Kuti angachiritsidwe monga kukonzekera bwino, chifukwa zambiri sachedwa kufunika kukonzekera, wamkulu kumachitika ikutuluka chakuti sangathe kulimbana. Pakuti starters, mungayesere Mwachitsanzo, kuloŵa dziwe kapena othamangitsa ndiponso kupezeka pa phunziro lililonse pofuna kukoka maonekedwe.

Mwa njira, maonekedwe akulitse kudzidalira - osati mbali yomaliza. Saopa ngati chabe, tiona kuti allegation si telala zimapangitsa munthu, si ofunika kwambiri monga zaka makumi atatu zapitazo. Mmene kulingalira ngati taonani, zimadalira m'mene chidaliro tizichita zinthu. Choncho, wina chigawo kuvomerezedwa bwino mmene kulera kudzidalira - akugwira ntchito pa: chithunzi, ambiri maonekedwe ndi chikhalidwe. Musanyalanyaze ntchito ya hairdressers, masewera olimbitsa thupi, kusintha zovala zanu.

Ndipo kachiwiri, musati mlandu pa zolakwa pang'ono, musati kuziyerekeza ndi ena, musapange zifukwa, kusonyeza zambiri kanthu, mtima komanso kukumbukira kuti anaika pa chikhalidwe cha kuthekera, amene amafunika kuzitsatira. Kumbukirani malamulo kuti ntchito kudziwa mmene kulera kudzidalira. Zabwino zonse pa zochita zanu!