Kodi kuphunzira kusankha kuti amalangidwa

moyo la munthu lili ndi zochita zazikulu ndi zazing'ono. Tsiku lirilonse tiyenera kusankha bwanji kuima, kodi kudya kadzutsa ndi zimene msewu kupita ku ntchito. Ngakhale zinthu zazing'ono amayambitsa zolemekezeka, osanenapo chinachake zikuluzikulu: zimene yunivesite kuchita, zimene mtundu wa ntchito kuti amene kukwatira - kapena kusudzulana, kusiya ndi kupita kukafunafuna chinthu chabwino? Kuyankha mafunso amenewa zambiri maganizo, chilakolako kukhulupirira mwamwayi kapena monga kuwasiya ndi kupita ndi otaya lapansi. Ndipotu kuchita chinachake, kotero nthawi zambiri tiyenera bondo pambuyo pake. Koma alape chilichonse anabweretsa chimodzimodzi. Kodi kuphunzira kusankha bwino?

Kupanda zambiri

Chimodzi mwa mavuto zazikulu zimene kuonekera pamene muyenera kupanga kusankha - ndi incompleteness mfundo zilipo. Sikutheka kuoneratu mavuto onse, kuti mupewe mavuto onse, muganize zonse - basi chifukwa tikuona m'tsogolo, tsoka, siyikuperekedwa. Komano aliyense mwa njira zilipo - izi ndi osachepera pang'ono, koma mphaka mu thumba.

Fatalism ndi chidziwitso

Zotsatira za zochita zathu ndi ovuta kulosera, koma palibe chifukwa kuti kusankha, ndi kudzipereka kwa chifundo cha tsoka. Kuyamba, kudziwa za masankhidwe a ambili. N'zoona kuti n'zosatheka kudziwa chilichonse za iwo ndi kuti achotse ku nkhani ya dongosolo chifuniro mwadala. Tikhonza nazo izo ndi dzikhulupirireni, ziribe kanthu zimene munapanga, zivute zitani, mudzakhala kupirira mavuto ndi mwayi pa ubwino. Mfundo imeneyi kumachepetsa nkhawa mkati: inu sipafinikanso kwa inu kusankha ndithu m'mbali.

njira zopangira zisankho

1. Inu mukhoza kukhala ukagone, kuyenda mu msewu (monga mukuganiza bwino) komanso m'maganizo waonetsetsa lapansi. Inu mukhoza kuchita chinthu chomwecho pa pepala: kufotokoza lililonse njira, ndi ubwino ndi kuipa. Pakuti momveka kwambiri, mungathe kujambula tebulo, mizati ndi kuti atchule ubwino onse ndi kuipa kwa aliyense mwina, kenako podchitaete - ndipo mwina ndi mtendere wa mumtima kusankha njira kuti Ubwino kwambiri. Monga musaiwale kuti chiwerengero chawo sikuti zikugwirizana khalidwe.

2. Pali zochepa zomveka njira. kuwerengetsera youma malisiti ndi ndalama zili zopanda phindu ngati zofunika kwa inu mudzamva pankhani inayake. Ndiye ndi bwino kulingalira alternately iliyonse njira zotheka ndi kudutsa izo mu malingaliro anu. Kotero inu mukudziwa zimene iwo adzachita anu maganizo pa nkhani zosiyanasiyana, ndipo ngati inu muzisangalala.

3. Trust yanu yodziŵiratu zinthu pasadakhale. Kusankha ndi thandizo ake - wapatali talente: ngati wina angabwere ngozi yekha ndi zoterezi Mwachibadwa zopanda nzeru. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kusankha mwachisawawa, koma ngati mukuona ngati, mosiyana ndi mfundo iliyonse kuti imakuuzani kanthu kena zochita zosiyana, musawafulumizitse kuponya izo mu mutu wanga.

Ena mwa njira izi ndi zambiri zachibadwa kwa inu, ena - zochepa: zimatengera pa kaganizidwe. Ndi yabwino ndi yosavuta kugwiritsa ntchito zawo, mbadwa, koma ndi zothandiza kuyesetsa zina ndi ntchito yomweyi: kotero mudzatha kuyang'ana pa vuto lanu ku kumathandiza kupeza ngodya zabwino osiyana ndi kumvetsa kwambiri.