Zangwiro: ndani?

Zangwiro: liwu

Anthu ena amafunsa kuti: mosalakwitsa - ndani izi? Kuti tichite zimenezi, muyenera chimatanthauza mfundo ina: (. Ungwiro French - ungwiro) - mosalakwitsa analengedwa ndi analeredwa ndi chilengedwe kunachititsa chilakolako yabwino anthu zochita zake zonse ndi khalidwe. Choncho, zinthu mosalakwitsa - munthu amene ali achilendo perfektsiionizm. Akhutitsidwa wa kuthekera ndi kufunika kukwaniritsa ungwiro mu malo oyamba poyerekezera yekha. zamaganizo Komabe, ambiri amakhulupirira kuti mosalakwitsa - osati ukoma, koma vuto lalikulu munthu kuti amalenga kudziyang'anira wa munthu, komanso kungasokoneze ntchito zake. Zangwiro saona "golide zikutanthauza" ali mbali ziwiri zokha: koipa ndi zabwino kwambiri - abwino ake. Iye sakuona imvi, pali chabe mtundu wakuda ndi woyera kwa iye. Iye pali yekha "abwino" ndi "si abwino" osati "abwino" ndi chirichonse koma abwino. M'mawu ena, iye amafuna kuchita zonse mwangwiro, kuposa ena, kapena kuchita kanthu, ndipo iye ali ndi chidaliro chonse. Iye anati pempho zofooka thandizo.

Zangwiro - ndani?

Kodi munthu amene mwina akufuna kanthu kukwaniritsa kuposa kukwaniritsa chinachake mokwanira. Amene maganizo kuika zolinga unrealistically mkulu iye. Kulakwitsa amazindikira maganizo a anthu. chikunena awo kutsutsa aliyense. Kulakwitsa amakonda kubisa zolakwa zawo kwa ena. Amaopa poyera kufooka kwawo. Choncho, kuchita chirichonse chimene chimadalira pa iwo kukhala wangwiro. Kulephera kapena kulephera ambaaonesa kuti sangathe kusintha okha. Motero, iwo amaona achabechabe, ndipo awo kudzidalira akutsikira.

Kodi kudziwa mmene inu ntchito liwu "mosalakwitsa"? Ndani, ndi mmene tingadziwire kuti?

1) Inu ndinu wofunika kwambiri, kuopa kulakwitsa, inu amamvetsera kwambiri mwatsatanetsatane.

2) Kodi mukufuna kuchita chilichonse monga zabwino mmene angathere, Choncho.

3) inu nthawi yambiri pa kuwongolera chilichonse.

4) Inu anapereka mfundo mtheradi, koma china chirichonse savomereza kwa inu.

5) Inu ndinu wotsutsa chachikulu kwambiri yekha.

6) momvetsa akuchitanji ndi kutsutsa ena.

7) Inu nthawizonse amaimira cholinga chachikulu, yachitika alibe tanthauzo kwa inu.

Kodi ngati mosalakwitsa si nthawi zonse wachiwiri? Taganizirani zimene zidzasonyeze chopanda ntchito zazikulu za mabuku dziko, kupenta, zomangamanga, popanda analemba zazikulu ndi zodabwitsa? Tiyeni tiyang'ane pa izo tiyerekeze. Zangwiro - ndani? Izi munthu zilandiridwenso, mlengi, mlengi. Mlengi basi zangwiro zokhazokha, kapena wolemba amene amalenga ntchito yake, akhoza kusiya ndi kunena, kulemba amayesetsa choyamba, "bwerani ndi choncho," kapena "zabwino basi." Timatha kuwerenga "Faust", "Notre Dame," ngati Goethe ndi Hugo sizikanakhala kulakwitsa? Kodi tisinkhasinkha Mona Lisa, ndipo tsopano ngati da Vinci akanati anaganiza kubweretsa ku ungwiro chithunzi pamwambapa kumwetulira madona?

Sitifuna tamva "Nyengo Four" ndi Vivaldi anali woimba zeze anati: ". Ine sizigwira ntchito chipani, ndipo yachibadwa" Choncho, mosalakwitsa ndi wadidi basi m'madera ena a m'moyo wathu amafuna abwino amene ndi wofuna. Komabe, kukwaniritsa ganizoli si kophweka tsiku ndi tsiku, kwa anthu amene timakhala ali kutali abwino. Choncho kaya kapena ayi kuzidyetsa wokha Musanyengedwe tanthauzo? Inu muyenera kuti azisangalala ndi chilichonse?