Kodi kupulumuka kulekana

Munthu aliyense, komanso iliyonse mtsikana kamodzi pa moyo wake anakumana ndi kuwawa, zomwe zimabweretsa kulekana ndi munthu amene umamukonda. Ndithudi aliyense amakumbukira kwambiri ululu maganizo wosakhulupirika anakonda munthu iwe.

Nthawi yomweyo pambuyo kuswedwa si kophweka ndikukhulupirira kuti nthawi imeneyo akhoza kuchiritsa mabala wanu, amene inu chidampangitsa chikondi unrequited. Kudziwa zimenezi chimadza kokha pambuyo pa mapeto masautso anu onse ndi kusauka kwa maganizo. Tiyeni tikambirane mmene kupulumuka kulekana, ambiri mwamsanga ndipo popanda kumva ululu uliwonse.

Nthawi yovuta kwambiri kwa anthu amene anawapatsa masiku oyamba kwambiri. masiku awa simukufuna chilichonse koma mwangwiro ndi mophweka sangakhoze kuchita, maganizo anu yagoletsa mutu umodzi okha wa mavuto anu, ndiye chibwenzi. Chimene mungachite? Ndizo zabwino ndipo sachita chilichonse kuti ngakhale pang'ono zothandiza kuvutika pang'ono, tichitireni chifundo nokha ndi Musalole ngakhale kulira pang'ono, koma osati kwambiri, koma chiopsezo kuti adatengedwa ndi kukhala womvetsa chisoni kulira kanthu.

Ndipo inu kudandaula, kulira pang'ono, masiku angapo malingaliro Sindilinso aliyense msonkhano adzakhala kapena wina asanafike mapeto a masiku ake, ndi zinyalala zina kaŵirikaŵiri onse kunena woyamba masiku angapo pambuyo yopuma timakhala, kapena kani, pambuyo kuponyedwa.

Ndiyeno, potsiriza, awa masiku awiri womvetsa chisoni mu moyo wanu, mudzakhala kulira ndipo musati kudandaula moyo, koma ndinu olimba. Kuti sayenera kukhala wovutika maganizo ndipo musati kubwerera ku chiyambi, anayamba kudzaza moyo wanu ndi zonse zomwe mungathe kupeza kuti adzalola kuti malingaliro anu, kulingalira ndipo, ndithudi, kukula kachikwamako, mwina mfundo imeneyi n'kofunika kwambiri masiku ano, koma chofunikira sizikhala choncho.

Kutitimira mu ntchito, ngongole maphunziro ake, mwina ndi chikondi kaloti akhala anawapundula luso lanu ntchito ndi bwana akuganiza muli moto, agwire mutu pamaso mukudziwa izo, ndi kuti kumapangitsanso amapita, kuyamba, potsiriza, kupita ku yunivesite, koma kusiyana akhala aiwala, monga inu taonani, pokhapokha kumene inu kuphunzira.

Ndithudi, pali zinthu zambiri ndi masewera kuti posachedwapa kuvula mpaka mawa kapena nkucha. Munthu aliyense zobisika matalente ayenera kupeza iwo, kapena kuyesera kuchita izo.

Iwo ayenera kuchita zonse zimene tingathe kuti asasokonezeke kwa munthu uyu, kotero ndi ofunika nthawi kucheza ndi anzanu mgwirizano, ndi kumapita ku malo kumene iwe wakhala pamodzi.

Musaiwale za kulankhulana, muyenera amakhalidwe abwino a anu anzanu omwe ndi atsikana, amene pa mphindi iliyonse angakuthandizeni. M'kupita kwa nthawi, mavuto onse kakasi idzapita ndipo zonse ntchito.

Mwa njira, anthu ena, kugwa m'chikondi, ndilakwitsa wakulungama kwambiri, ndicho chiyambi kuiwala anzawo, musati muchite izo chifukwa chikondi ndi chikondi, ndi ubwenzi muyaya, kumene, yang'anani chimene ubwenzi, komabe. Ndipo zikuchitikadi kugwa m'chikondi ndi abwenzi akukuwerengerani, ndiyeno munthuyo ndekha yekha mu chisoni kotheratu ndi kusimidwa, musaiwale anzanu.