Kodi kuvomereza munthu m'chikondi.

Iliyonse mtsikana kulota kalonga. Ndipo pamene amakumana woyenera, monga zikuoneka, limene liri theka wake wachiwiri kwambiri mwachidwi, ndi mawu a chikondi kwa osankhidwa. Koma chigweranso kuti munthu si kwambiri mofulumira kunena mawu matsenga, kotero nthawizina inu muyenera kuchitapo kanthu pa manja awo. Atsikana sindikudziwa basi momwe kuvomereza munthu mu chikondi choyamba. Izi ndi chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndipo muyenera kukhala okonzeka ayankhe iliyonse. Mwina mnzanuyo basi wamanyazi ndi kuopa osayamba. Koma chigweranso kuti asaone chimodzimodzi kwa inu kumverera ndi kuzindikira reciprocal Pankhaniyi simungathe kumva. Anazindikira chikondi choyamba, ngati munthu ameneyo ali ndi inu, koma muyenera kumvetsa kuti salamulidwa kuti ndimakukondani inu.

Nthawi zina atsikana sindikumvetsa chifukwa chimene iwo ayenera ndi kuzindikira kuti idzasintha ubale, mungafune ndiziyembekezerabe zopita pa munthu, ndi kukhalabe maso ake chachinsinsi ndi zovuta kuzimvetsa? Women zambiri kukapanga chivomerezo kuika unagona pa gawo lina. Kumene, ndi bwino, ngati inu mukukhulupirira peresenti 99 kuti mnzanuyo akuona chomwecho. Ngati mukukayika, musawafulumizitse, kucheza kwambiri, kudziwa mzake pamene inu muyenera kukhala pafupi mokwanila, mwinamwake iye akufuna kukuuzani zakukhosi kwawo.

Ngati inu kusankha munthu woyamba kuvomereza chikondi chake, tiyenera kuona kulingalirapo. mawu awa alibe kuwomba tsiku ndi tsiku ndiponso anthu wamba. Muyenera kukonza chirichonse kuti kamphindi zamatsenga anakumbukira kwa nthawi yaitali nonse. Pafupifupi onse akazi adzaweruzidwa paokha. Iwo amakonda chikondi reader, maluwa, mphatso ndi makhalidwe ena pa chibwenzi. Ndi anyamata ndi osiyana. Tiyeni tinene mawu oipa rifmuete ndipo lolembedwa, uyesa iwe, ndakatulo kwambiri za ubwenzi wanu. Koma funso n'lakuti: Kodi mukufuna mkazi kapena mwamuna wanu, ngati sasamala za ndakatulo, kapena mwina ndi ofunika kuti abwere ndi chinachake? Musapereke zinthu wokondedwa wanu ngati inu, Taphunzira kusankha mphatso kwa kukoma kwake. Kotero kudzakhala bwino ndiponso mwachilungamo.

Ngati simukudziwa mmene kuvomereza munthu m'chikondi, kupambana-Nkhata zinthu akhoza kukhala chikondi chakudya. Konzani mu odyera kapena kunyumba. Zilibe kanthu, Chofunika kwambiri kuti alenge malo abwino ndi pa nthawi inayake kulankhula mawu opatulika. Chophweka njira kuuza ndi losavuta: "Ndimakukonda." Koma izi sizikumveka snobbish ndi kumusangalatsa. A chakudya chikondi kwa anthu amene sakonda makampani phokoso ndi ntchito. Ndipo apa pali m'mene kuvomereza munthu mu chikondi, ngati amakonda kwambiri ndipo nthawi zonse pakati pa anzako? Pankhaniyi, akhoza anapima kuzindikira kwa kukwera ku mapiri, kuchokera m'mwamba kapena kusambira pansi pamadzi. funso ndicho ngati mudzatha kusankha izo? Ngakhale Inde, pafupifupi ndithu ekstremal anu kuzindikira wolimba mtima ndipo Sangathe kuti yankho "Ndimakukonda."

Palibe asanene mawu matsenga mwa mauthenga SMS. Poyamba, kumene, anthu analemba mzake makalata achikondi, koma tsopano anazindikira ntchito foni - iyi si njira yabwino. Ngati simukudziwa mmene kuvomereza munthu m'chikondi, chinthu chabwino adzakhala kuyang'anitsitsa pa iye ndi kumvetsa zimene akufuna. Anthu amene amatengeka oyendayenda, inu kuzindikira ulendo wokonzedwera kwa mlungu mu nkhalango kapena mzinda wina. Ndipo kumeneko mu chikondi zinalili chakudya mu malo odyera kapena ngakhale mu hema mu glade nkhalango adzamva mawu a chikondi n'koyenera ndipo achilengedwe.

Mulimonsemo, ngati mwaganiza kuvomereza chikondi chake choyamba, usaope, ndinu munthu wamakhalidwe angachite kuzindikiridwa woona mtima reciprocal. Ndipo anthu amene sayamikira mukamva kapena kuseka, osati woyenera chikondi chanu, ndi misozi kwambiri. Osadandaula, moyo wautali ndipo anthu inu mudzakomana kwambiri.