Kodi kuyamwa mwana kuluma zikhadabo zake?

  Osati kuti pali vuto pa koyamba, izi si mwauchidakwa, ndi wotani, osalephera, lagona pa mlingo bwino nkhawa mkati. Mulimonsemo, Ngati mukufuna anayamba kuona nthawi zambiri - ndi nthawi kuganizira mmene kuyamwa mwana kuluma zikhadabo zake? Ana, gnawing misomali (powonjezera angayambe zonse kunyambita milomo yanu kapena wakuyamwa chala, etc.) kwenikweni kotero yesetsani kudzilimbitsa nokha. Pamene anawona ofanana ana amene alibe zochitika aliyense nkhawa, popanda chifukwa chenicheni - ndi nthawi kuwona zamaganizo, chifukwa n'zotheka kuti muphonye chiyambi cha chitukuko cha neuroses ana.

Zimenezi akhoza kukwera ndi chiyembekezo kuti zonse ndidzadutsa palokha. Mwachangu kuchitapo kanthu ndi kuyesetsa kuyamwa mwana kuluma zikhadabo zake mofulumira ngati nkotheka. Mu njira zimene - zimatengera pa chifukwa, zaka, ndi zinthu zina zofunika. Chinthu chachikulu - Mulimonsemo, musati anadzudzula mwana ndipo ngakhale kwambiri choncho, kugunda pa manja ake. Apo ayi, chizolowezi akhoza kulimbikitsa, ndi kuthana ndi adzakula yaitali zovuta.

Nthawi zambiri, malingana ndi kuwerengera, pali vuto lofanana ndi ana kuyambira zaka 3, theka la ana sangathe amusiye iye, mu unyamata, ena patsalanso ngakhale pamene iwo okula. chizolowezi uyu alibe kuwononga kwambiri thanzi Komabe, kuwonjezera pa ugliness zokongoletsa, pali chiopsezo matenda ena opatsirana ndi kutupa pamalo periungual. N'chifukwa chake tiyenera kusankha momwe kuyamwa mwana kuluma zikhadabo zake. Pamodzi ndi uwu, ana ndi vuto kawirikawiri maganizo womangidwa kuti kusadzidalira.

Kuyambira mfundo chithandizo cha, Onychophagia (dzina sayansi msomali kuluma) akuyamba kuonekera ana ndi mavuto, ndipo chifukwa cha zoopsa. The kutsogolera angakhale chilekaniro cha makolo, mikangano banja kapena Kukolanaku ndi anzawo, ndi chifukwa ina iliyonse imene munthu wamkulu mwina zindikirani mwana angatanthauze tsoka weniweni. Komanso, atatu mwamuna zambiri anatumizidwa ku sukulu ya mkaka, kotero iye ayamba nkhawa kulekana mayi ake. Ku chiphunzitso cha Sigmund Freud akusonyeza kuti kumverera osatetezeka mungakumane mwanayo chifukwa cha amakakamizidwa kuyamwa iye pacifier kapena kuyamwa ku chifuwa cha mayi pa molawirira kwambiri m'badwo. Kukumbukira kumverera kodabwitsa kwambiri omasuka kuti anali mai anga m'manja mwake pamene kudyetsa mwana ndi kuyesa kudzilimbitsa ndekha zina kuchokera anachitika wake "chisoni", kulanda izo mwanjira imeneyo. Kodi kuyamwa mwana kuluma zikhadabo zake, chizolowezi kuti sanali atathana pomalizira pake?

mwana A sayenera kuti akuvutika chifukwa cha kusoŵa chidwi, m'pofunika zambiri caressing ndi kukumbatirana - akuchikazi akukumbatirana ikhoza zozizwa. Malinga zamaganizo, ngakhale achinyamata zowawa ngati iwo anakhudza makolo a nthawi osachepera asanu ndi atatu patsiku. Ana amafunika kumva zowawa, ndi kukumbatirana bwino awo ndi mtendere. Ndipo n'kosavuta, makamaka Musataye kulemberana ndi ana awo amabwera kwa iwo ankakhulupirira kuti amakondedwa, ali ofunikira, ndipo ziri zofunika kwa munthu kukula! Izi ndi zabwino njira chida ndi chitsimikizo kuti m'tsogolo alibe kufuna yankho ku funso lakuti: "Kodi kuyamwa mwana kuluma zikhadabo zake".

Pamene vuto adanyamuka - izo basi ayenera kuchotsedwa pa siteji oyambirira. Choyamba muyenera tikupeza, pa chifukwa chakuti pali kufuna marigolds obkusyvaniya. Kuchita izi, penyani mwana, mwina, choncho relieves nkhawa mantha pamene mwakwiya kapena kuopa chinachake, kapena mwina amasangalala chifukwa osatetezeka mu luso lawo. Nditaphunzira chifukwa chake, sitepe yoyamba ndi kulankhula mwana wanu, kumuuza za zotsatira za chizolowezi. Komabe, tiyenera n'komwe ndi chakuti nthawi zambiri ana okha simungapeze, bwino palokha.

Kodi kuyamwa mwana kuluma zikhadabo zake? malangizo zamaganizo a

• Pamodzi ndi katswiri kuthandiza mwana wanu kuthana ndi chizolowezi choipa, zilibe angasokoneze izo mosatonza, ndi kumacheza wabwino naturedly.
• Kuthetsa kuthekera Kuchedwa kukula kwa mwana, kuchezera zamaganizo.
• The "ovuta" kamphindi, kutenga mwana amangomvera latsopano chidole, kuyanika, maswiti, etc. Mtundu wa "wofiira hering'i."
• Kuika khanda tulo, musakhale aulesi ndi kumupanga iye kutikita wofatsa, kachiwiri, ndi kukhudzana kukhudza pamodzi ndi zosangalatsa mawu osangalatsa. Tamandani mwana wanu, kundiuza mmene mumamukonda, chimene chinali chodabwitsa ndi wapadera.
• Fotokozani kuti mwana wanu kuti ali kumbali yake, kuti pamodzi mudzafanana ndi kufunsa, ziribe kanthu momwe zinalili zovuta kutero. Only tcheru, chikondi mwana, mtendere ndi mgwirizano mu banja, ndipo ntchito yake zingathandize kuthetsa khalidwe.