Kutaya - ziri za?

Gwirizanani, chirichonse zingachitike moyo. Panthawi ina, masiku amayamba kuoneka mdima ndi mdima, ndi zinthu zonse, kumene inu nthawi zonse nawo, asasiya kusangalatsa. Pomaliza, mavuto ankaoneka opanda pake suschimi kukhala unaffordable katundu. Zimakwaniritsidwa kutaya mtima wathunthu: tsoka akupitiriza kutaya mavuto amene kupirira maganizo kovuta. Mwina ambiri a ife mu nthawi ngati zimenezi, pitani ganizo: "Ine sindingakhoze kuchita kanthu imeneyi, ndi mapeto akufa!"

Zonse kumverera kuti lamizeremizere wakuda sangathe kulimbana, monga modetsa! Bwino? Kutaya - chisoni ichi, maganizo, mphwayi, kusowa mphamvu kusuntha. Mu ichi boma maganizo n'zosatheka ntchito, kusangalala ndi moyo, kwambiri kuvomereza - kukhala nthawi zina sindikufuna.

tchimo lalikulu

Ndi zoziwika kuti kakasi - kuli tchimo. N'chifukwa chiyani pali chikhulupirirochi? Choyamba, malinga ndi Mkhristu chipembedzo, kutaya mtima - ndi chosowa chikhulupiriro mwa Mulungu, chifukwa munthu nthawi yomweyo kulekera yekha, ikutha kudalira mphamvu apamwamba. Chachiwiri, ngati chikhalidwe kungabweretse mavuto ambiri, ndipo mu Zikavuta kwambiri - kubweretsa munthu kudzipha. Ndipo lino, monga Chikhristu - tchimo wamphamvu kwambiri kuti mukhoza, chifukwa palibe njira kupempha chikhululukiro kwa machitidwe ake a Ambuye pa moyo wake.

Ena amakhulupirira kuti boma akana mphamvuzonse a Mulungu ndi kuti mzimu wa munthu sali okonzeka kudzichepetsa. Mosimidwa - kunyada kwa mtima, kukhulupirira n'zotheka kuti wofuna Ambuye ndi kukhulupirira mu izo mwakhama.

Ngati mukuona kufunika, kupita ku tchalitchi, malingaliro bwino ndi kusinkhasinkha za ukulu wa Mulungu - kudzakhala kosavuta. Kumbukirani, "kupemphera mwakhama ndi imfa kukhumudwa." Ngati munthu agwidwa ndi kusimidwa, musati kudandaula, ndi bwino kutembenukira kwa Ambuye. Inde, pemphero - ndicho chimene mukupempha pompano moyo wanu.

Pitani ku zamaganizo ndi!

Choyamba, ngakhale kuti pa nthawi ya mavuto Ndikufuna kukhala ndekha, muyenera kuganizira kuchezera zamaganizo. Anthu ambiri dala mantha kudzacheza kwa katswiri, kukhulupirira kuti akhoza kuthana ndi mavuto alionse, ndipo popanda thandizo. Kumbukirani, kusimidwa - njira Onetsetsani kuti maganizo, ichi ndi matenda oopsa okhudza ubongo amene kumafunika umoyo.

Musaiwale kuti vuto lililonse bwino aona kuchokera kumbali. Komanso zamaganizo odziwa chofunika kuchita mayesero angapo popanda chiwongoladzanja, zimene zingakuthandizeni kumvetsa nokha ndiponso kupirira mliri.

Kugawana wanu

Ngati kukwera kwa katswiri pa zifukwa zina sizingatheke wina njira yabwino yogonjetsera kakasi - ndi kupeza munthu amene angamvetsere inu ndi kukupatsani malangizo abwino. Kubwerera kukaona bwenzi lake lakale, itanani bwenzi labwino - ndi kukambirana kosangalatsa bwanji inu monga mankhwala matsenga. Usaumire maganizo ndi kugawana nzeru ndi zofunika kwambiri - m'pamene kusunga chikhulupiriro, mphamvu adzakhala kuvutika wanu wa mumtima.

No zochepa zothandiza ndi kusunga zolemba ananena zimene zinamuchitikira pa pepala, ndipo kenako - yosanthula ndi kuyesa kuti pang'onopang'ono kumvetsa chifukwa Ndikouuma. Kodi kumvetsa izi? Nkhaniyo ayenera kufotokoza osati zochitika chabe, komanso malingaliro amene ndidzakuchezera iwe masana, yesani kuyankha mafunso akuti: "Kodi ine ndikuganiza za nkhaniyi", "N'chifukwa chiyani Ine kotero nkhawa?" "Kodi ndi mbanvu andithandiza pa moyo wanga? '' Kodi zimene zinachitikira ambiri mwa zochitika zimenezi? "

Mukhale woonamtima kwa nokha

Abalalitse maganizo awo, kuopa kuti muone kufooka kwake - ntchito wosayamika. M'pofunika kuvomereza kugonjetsedwa kuleka ndi kuyang'ana pa moyo kuchokera kunja: n'zoonekeratu kuti chinachake kwenikweni chalakwika. Woonamtima kwa nokha ndi kuyesa mopanda tsankho amayang'anitsitsa zinthu zimene zimachitika kwa inu posachedwapa. Simufunikanso zifukwa okha ndi odzisangulutsa mfundo yakuti zinthu si zoipa. Nkofunika kwenikweni vuto kuti apeze njira zothetsera mavuto.

mutu

Ngakhale kuti munthawi ya kusimidwa ndikufuna kuchita ulesi, yesetsani kukhala kunyumba: Khazikitsani lumpha zosavuta, kupita mafilimu, zisudzo kapena chionetsero - inu muyenera nthawi Ikani maganizo awo kuti chinachake wokongola. Mphamvu zazikuluzo za chikhalidwe ntchito ngati nthawi ingapezeke, inu mukhoza kupita kukwera kapena basi kuyenda kunja kwa mzinda mu nkhalango - funde la umoyo amaperekedwa kwa inu!

Kumwetulira!

Inde, ziribe kanthu! Mwina inuyo ndinu mmodzi wa anthu awa, chimene njira yapita amafika: kuganiza za boma osauka okha kukulitsa vuto lanu, ndi kutaya mtima unakhala inu mwakhama. Pankhaniyi, inu muyenera kuti athawe ndi kudzaza moyo ndi kuwala mitundu: kuona Comedy, kuvina nyimbo mumangidwa kusewera ndi mphaka kapena galu - kumwetulira pa nkhope yanu yomweyo idzakhala chizindikiro thupi: "Koma zonse zabwino!" Ndipo moyo Kodi kuchira!

Koma mwina njira yabwino kwambiri kulimbana ndi kutaya mtima - kuchita zinthu zatsopano, zachilendo ndipo wopenga - amene amalola yomweyo tuluka mwa mavutowo. Ife anafuna kugula wopenga? Kudumpha parachuti ndi? Kapena mwina kudya bokosi lonse la chokoleti ndi kuona filimu mopusa nokha? Tsopano - nthawi yabwino!

The nzeru za existentialism

Kutaya - si mawu chabe kuti angafotokoze mdima. Naye zogwirizana imodzi mwa mawu a nzeru chi - quietism pogwira. Muyenera kumvetsa ndi kutanthauzira ubwenzi. Nthawi zambiri, mu Ages Middle anawatcha quietism Catholic lachipembedzo chimene chimatsatira Kulingalira, alibe maganizo a dziko. M'njira wophiphiritsa ndi zambiri wamba - ndi khalidwe chabe la munthu ndi yosiya wake.

Patapita nthawi yaitali, mu XX atumwi, mu nzeru ya existentialism zinaoneka mawu akuti "quietism okhumudwa." . Kwa nthawi yoyamba nzeru zapamwamba Zh P. Sartr ntchito pa ntchito yake "Existentialism - ndi umunthu". Iye ankatanthauza kuti quietism okhumudwa - udindo umenewu, ngati vutoli sikunathetse, ndiye kulibe. Mwakuya nthanthi tanthauzo akhoza Adaniwo monga mchitidwe wamphamvu kulandiridwa ndi kusamutsa kwa moyo wanu mwina Ndithudi, ngati inu mukuzindikira kuti mavuto anu anathana - uwu si vuto, ndi kutaya mtima chifukwa palibe njira, si kofunika?

Muziganizira kaye mavuto aliwonse, inu ayesetse kuunikira izo ku mbali zosiyana. Mwina kukuthandizani kupeza kuchoka zosayembekezereka ndi kuzindikira kuti mavuto onse - awa ndi opanda pake. Malinga ngati munthu ali moyo, mavuto onse tingagonjetse. Only mpheto wathunthu amapezeka asanafe, n'kutembenuka ndondomeko zimenezi n'zosatheka. Choncho muyenera kuzindikira mphindi iliyonse osati kutaya nthawi pa maganizo ndi zokumana nazo.