Kwambiri wokongola ndi wokongola kapena kukopa chidwi cha munthu ankakonda

Kodi maloto mwamtheradi aliyense woimira kugonana chilungamo, mosasamala kanthu za msinkhu ndi wosauka? Kumene, chikondi. Ndipotu, kumverera lodabwitsa akhoza kuuzira ndi kuuzira, kusandutsa ndi kupanga munthu kusangalala kwenikweni. Mu chikondi ndi mtsikana kapena mayi ali ndi mamvedwe zidzasintha ndi zomverera. Koma m'kupita kwa nthawi, izi sikokwanira - mukufuna maloto ndi chinthu nayenso kunthunthumira wanu udzu.

Kuti chikondi ndi kukondedwa

Izi yochepa akuti ali ngati kuziwerenga a. Kumene, mungathe kudalira chakuti maganizo matupi, ndi kubwereza kangapo dongosolo lino matsenga, mungapeze mukufuna, koma ikusonyeza kuchita, ndi bwino kuyamba posachedwapa kuchita.

Kotero, moyo chinthu amusankha. Patsalanso kumvetsa mmene kukopa chidwi cha munthu ankakonda. Mwatsoka, kapena mwamwayi, chikutanthauza kuti palibe malangizo omveka bwino. Ndipotu maganizo - ndi nkhani wosakhwima, choncho, ziwembu luso alibe mphamvu. Koma musataye mtima - ntchito iliyonse pa nokha, chilakolako kusintha maonekedwe awo, kuonjezera IQ, wotsegula M'maso ndi mantha awo - ichi ndi chinthu chachikulu kwa malotowo. Choncho mwachangu kusintha mindset ndi maganizo.

Choyamba, ife kubwerera mwakale kudzidalira. Kwa amene mukufuna kutsutsa deta kunja oyenera kusintha chithunzi: m'malo zovala baggy - kaso ndi wotsogola zovala, m'malo zotukwana mini-masiketi ndi mabulawuzi mosapitirira - kaso, achigololo zovala ndi madiresi chosalimba. Ambiri amuna kuzindikira dona wamng'ono kapena dona mwachikondi, chikondi ndi zimamvekera, chikhumbo kukhala ngati mnyamata kapena chitsanzo zokayikitsa za ntchito yoyambilira. Panopa ongowalingalirawa luso, chidwi komanso prepodnesonny chithunzi kudzakuthandizani kubisa zina zolakwika zonse maonekedwe anu komanso kutsindika ubwino undoubted za izo. Pamene atsikana kwambiri wamwano, iwo siyingawapweteke kupeza ziwerengero zotsatirazi: 90% ya anthu akusankha wodzidalira madona, koma osati brash ndi amwano upstarts. Choncho pali zifukwa ndikuganiza.

Kulera kudzidalira, mukhoza kulemba kwa maphunziro amenewa kapena maphunziro amene mukufuna. Nthawi zonse akulakalaka kuvina - pa utumiki wanu kulemera zigawo zosiyanasiyana za anthu kapena masewera kuti kuvina kumbali ndipo Mzere-mapulasitiki. Phunzirani Chiswahili kapena Chiesperanto katswiri ndi kuluka macramé kapena parachuti kulumpha - kusankha ndi zanu. Chinthu chachikulu ndi m'mene akwaniritsa osachepera bwino modzilemekeza, inu dzikhulupirireni ndi kukhala kuchiza munthu zake zambiri ndi ulemu waukulu.

Sizinapezekebe zimafika ndi Zochita tingachipeze powerenga pamaso pa galasi mu kalembedwe "Ine ndine kwambiri wokongola ndi wokongola." Only mawu ena yanu ndi yosiyana ndi Mwachitsanzo, pamene Bob adzaona zimene Ine ndine wochepa ndi wokongola, ndipo kenako yesani yophika ine mazira scrambled ndi bowa, ndi pakuwonana koyamba ine. Ndi zina zotero.

Monga tikudziwa, chidziwitso - mphamvu. Choncho, musanayambe kujambula chidwi cha munthu ankakonda, yesetsani kuphunzira za izo monga mmene ndingathere: m'pamenenso iye amakonda, kumene maphunziro kapena ntchito, zimene mtundu tayi wakonda. Choncho, ngati osachepera chinachake zokonda zake chikugwirizana ndi zokonda zanu. Vuto pano ndi angachite kuti munthuyo ndi, mosavuta solvable. Mwachitsanzo, ngati ndinu mafani onse a Chitibeta pakhosi nyimbo, kucheza ndi chinthu chikondi mochenjera Zokuthandizani kuti muli tikiti owonjezera konsati wa wojambula amakonda. Komanso, inu mukhoza amangotchula kulengeza mfundo zosangalatsa zokhudza chizolowezi chanu funsani mnyamata luso funso pa nkhaniyi.

Ngati amakonda thanthwe zovuta, ndipo inu - kuonera nyimbo zachikhalidwe, yesani kupeza kukondera ku gulu la "zachitsulo" ndi nthetemya yana.

Koma momwe tcheru anthu ankakonda munthu ngati inu ndipo - zosiyana kwathunthu? Monga tikudziwa njira sukulu sayansi, milandu zosiyana kukopa. Izi zikutanthauza kuti kuti chidwi anyamata samakukondani inu, zingakhale chifukwa choyambirira, zachilendo, mu maganizo ake, mawu, zochita ndiponso zochita. Mumadabwa ziganizo ake angapo, kusiya chophimba chinsinsi ndi wokongola. 99% ya 100 msonkhano wotsatira, iye anapempha foni chipinda kapena mlendo wokongola, mbali yatsopano kutsegula, ntchito anzake.

Choncho, chida chachikulu cha mayiyo, kuganizira za mmene kukopa chidwi cha munthu ankakonda ndi kumwetulira koona, ndi gleam owala mu maso ake, kaimidwe kwambiri, azidzidalira ndi maganizo abwino. Ndipo komabe, asananene tsiku, mukhoza mobwerezabwereza azisewera makhadi - kotero mwayi mu chikondi!