Mbali yaikulu mu chitukuko cha munthu ngati munthu, kapena unyamata Kodi

Kulankhula chilankhulo wouma sayansi, n'zosavuta kuyankha funso limene lili unyamata. Uwu ndi m'badwo pakati pa ubwana ndi kukula munthu. Koma moyo nthawi zina zovuta lembani mzere bwino pamalo pamene ili nthawi kuthetsa zidole komanso magalimoto n'kuyamba wodziimira akadzakula. Mwina amayi ndi abambo m'badwo umenewo sichidzatha.

Kodi kum'siya mwanayo?

makhalidwe Current ndi njira ya maphunziro amene amaona wabwinobwino ngati mwanayo amakhala m'banja, ngakhale pa maphunziro pa anayambitsa, ngakhale zaka zingapo zapitazo, achinyamata anatumizidwa ku sukulu makamaka ana a zaka zaka 11-12. Mu tsarist Russia, ndipo anayambitsa mawu akuti "mnyamata" imene anachitira makamaka anyamata, kusamalira banja lake monga kuphunzira amisiri osiyanasiyana, ansembe, anthu olemekezeka.

Koma ana ankakonda ndi aakazi a makolo awo amafunitsitsa kusonyeza ufulu wodzilamulira, kudziyimira pawokha, kusonyeza khalidwe lake lonse, amene ndi unyamata. Mavuto a zaka kusintha - ndi kufunikira kuti mukufuna kukhala ndi kuwagonjetsa munthu aliyense. Pamsinkhu uwu, pali kadinala kusintha mu kuwerenga kwa maganizo ndi Maphunziro Akakhalidwe Kazolengedwa. Nthawi zina mwana dzulo zovuta paokha kudziwa ndi kumvetsa masinthidwe onsewa.

Umene malire zaka imagwera pa nthawi imene wachinyamata?

unyamata Kodi m'mibadwo kovuta kumvetsa. Mu zaka za iwo kuti "mwana" kapena yachizungu - "wachinyamata". Translation kwa English kwenikweni akhoza amaona m'badwo kwa zaka 13 mpaka 19 (wachinyamata - m'badwo munthu nthawi ili chimango, zaka - zaka). Mawu amenewa watenga mizu ndi chimagwiritsidwa ntchito mabuku ambiri a sayansi ndi tsiku ndi tsiku. Iye mwachuchuchu amadziwika unyamata, zaka, wa chibadidwe m'menemo. Koma pa nthawi yomweyo, zamaganizo akhala unachoka gulu bwino ndi mayikidwe a ana onse ndi burashi chomwecho. Nthawi pambuyo ubwana, munthu angayambe pa zaka 11 ndipo inatha pa 19, koma munthu adzayamba ubwenzi wathu ndi zaka 13-14, ndipo m'badwo zovuta iyoyomwe siingakhoze yayitali kuposa zaka 15-16. Onse makamaka payekha. Kuwonjezera, asungwana, njira izi kuchitika ndi pang'ono opepuka kuposa anyamata.

Mavuto a zaka kusintha

The psyche atsikana ndi wolimba kwambiri, iwo ali zokayikitsa kupereka maganizo opanduka, mwina chifukwa chakuti kulankhulana ndi amake, kuti kwenikweni wofufuza mavuto awo ndi zokumana nazo. Anyamata anayamba kumverera kusintha mu thupi, dziwani kuti akalamba, koma kudalira pa chifuniro cha achibale makina ndi kukhumuditsidwa. Zonsezi zingachititse kuti kudzipatula, opatuka, mikangano onse kunyumba ndi sukulu, mumsewu.

Ambiri, mikangano mwachindunji anapatsidwa kumvetsa kuti unyamata ali, awulule mavuto ake onse, zolakwa za machitidwe maphunziro, mlingo wa zopezera ndi psyche achinyamata. Kupewa mavuto m'banja amene kawirikawiri amalephera mu nthawi ino. Makolo kovuta kuzindikira kuti mwana ankakonda tidzawukitsidwe kwa mwana, m'pofunika mukumvetsera, kuchepetsa mlingo wa ulamuliro ndi pang'onopang'ono apite. Udindo wa woyang'anira zonse Tingati - ichi ndi cholakwika kuti n'kogwiritsa mikangano ndi kusamvana pakati okondedwa.

Features kulankhulana ndi achinyamata amakhala ndi anzawo, aphunzitsi, makolo

Komanso kusiyana unyamata kuyambira ali ndi banja ndi kusukulu unkagwiritsidwa bwino kwambiri, mwa anzawo, abwenzi ndi adani. Uwu ndiwo m'badwo wa umunthu ndi zokhazokha, amene ali chibadidwe mu idealization ndi polarity maganizo. Ngati Ana zonse ndithu kwenikweni, mwa achinyamata kuyamba zoyesayesa poyamba kuchita ndi luso mfundo zomveka. Achinyamata kuyesa malo pansi pano, zimachitika masitepe oyamba kulimbikitsa udindo wake m'dziko, yolimbirana utsogoleri ndi ulamuliro.

Izo zikusintha mkubwela wachinyamata, ndi kuyang'ana ndi aphunzitsi. Koma poyamba mphunzitsi ndi mawu ake sizinachitike kufunsidwa, tsopano akuyamba lovuta kuteteza maganizo ake.

Pa makolo unyamata ayenera kulabadira kwambiri kuti mwana wanu kudziwa osati kumumvera, komanso kumvetsera, kufunsa. Ugonthi kuti maganizo a kukula achinyamata angakhale ndi zotsatira mpaka kalekale kuti zidzakhudza wonse tsogolo moyo kwa mwana ndi banja lake.