Ngati mukuganiza za maholide ana nkubwera m'maganizo kukumbukira yowala ndi zokongola zikondwelelo mokondwera ndi mpikisano zosangalatsa. Chipani cha achinyamata makamaka adali ndi nyimbo ndi kuvina, koma akulu kwambiri mwanjira kukana okha mwayi ndi nthawi yaikulu. Nthawi zambiri, tsiku lobadwa, ngakhale, holide ina iliyonse kwasanduka misonkhano ndi banal pa gome, ndi chinthu chokha chimene zikusintha - mndandanda akutumikira. Pofuna kukumbukira tsiku lanu lobadwa chipani mozungulira nthawi yaitali, n'zotheka bungwe mipikisano yosiyanasiyana oseketsa akuluakulu pa phwando tsiku lobadwa.
Ena amakhulupirira kuti ntchito tchuthi chidwi onetsetsani kuitana otsogolera akatswiri amene akhoza kuyambitsa ndi kuchita kupikisana ndi quizzes. Ndithudi, ife kusaletsapo chakuti ovomereza mosavuta kupirira udindo wawo, koma Pakufunika inu ndalama zina ndalama. Ndipotu, choyambirira kugwira mipikisano pa tsiku la mwana kubadwa ndi chithunzithunzi, ndipo mukhoza kubwera ndi mfundo zawo. Komanso, kugwira chochitika mulole aliyense wa anapempha Mwachitsanzo, mnzanu kapena wachibale, m'pofunika okha patsogolo izo kukambirana ndi kukonza zosangalatsa.
Choncho lingalirani za mtundu wanji mipikisano akuluakulu pa tsiku la kubadwa mungathe bungwe tchuthi sichikwiya chachisoni phwando. Pakuti starters, mukhoza itanani onse kuti alembe kapena kujambula pa pepala zomwe akufuna kuti aperekepo phwando. Zingakhale chilichonse, kuyambira nsapato zatsopano, kutsiriza ndi galimoto, nyumba ndi ulendo dziko. Timapepala ta ndi "mphatso" amagwira ndi chingwe taut, mnyamata kubadwa ayenera m'maso kudula tsamba kuti mokweza chimwemwe kwa alendo. Pofuna kuti mpikisano kusangalala, ngwazi ya mwambowu ali kupeka amene cha alendo ndikukhumba iye mphatso imeneyi. Ngati bodza Mlendo amakwaniritsa cholakalaka, koma ngati ayi, mlendo n'kukwiya ntchito tsiku lobadwa. Nkofunika kuti kupikisana pa maphwando inakonzedwa mu njira yakuti iwo onse anatenga gawo - ndi ngwazi za mapwando, ndi alendo ake.
Pano pali mpikisano wina kusangalala kuti adzadzetsa kukhudza choseketsa ndi osangalatsa, makamaka ngati gulu lako kale ndiyotani usavutike mowa. Pakuti amafuna batani kapena ina ing'onoing'ono chinthu. Dziwani kuti, ngati mukufunadi kugwira mipikisano akuluakulu pa phwando tsiku lobadwa, ndiye muyenera kukonzekera zofunika "zida" onse ndipo zabwino tisaiwale mphatso yaing'ono. Kumayambiriro kwa batani Mpikisanowo aikidwa pa index chala cha mnyamata kubadwa, amene adatembenukira kwa alendo wakhala pafupi naye, amauza yakuchoka chala chake pa batani. The nsomba ndi kuti inu mukhoza ntchito index chala, munthu waponya batani, mwa masewera. Kumapeto pali anthu awiri okha amene ali kufika pafupifupi kudutsa tebulo kugwedeza batani. Chotero kupikisana kwa kubadwa wamkulu chipani kubweretsa wosangalala kwambiri ndi kuseka, makamaka ngati masewerawo ali ankapikisana wathanzi ndi wofuna kupambana.