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Moyo wabwino-otsimikiza mawu
Aliyense amaika tanthauzo la mawu akuti "chikondi." Koma tikhoza kunena molimba - kukonda moyo wanu ndi kuyamikira zimene muli pa mphindi. Munthu wokonda moyo, akuona tanthauzo mu zonse zimene iye. Kodi mawu kuthandiza ana anu azikonda wa moyo?
Chilimbikitso kwa tsiku latsopano
Pakuti ambiri, moyo otsimikiza mawu amadyetsedwa pachiyambi. Iwo ali ngati kapu ya khofi m'mawa, kuthandiza mlandu zabwino kwa tsiku lonse. Apa pali mawu akuti: "Aliyense musaphonye mwayi - ali mpata uliwonse bwino." Ndipo anthu - katswiri kugonjetsa malire awo. Anthu amene saona moyo wanu palibe mwayi kawirikawiri amalephera kutenga ntchito ndi anthu amene alidi kupezeka kwa iwo. Amangoika kuphonya mwayi tsoka chifukwa wotaya wake.
Aliyense akudziwa zimene zinam'chitikira: pali anthu olemera, koma n'zomvetsa chisoni ndithu; ndipo pali osauka, zomwe zimakondweretsa chilichonse. Pali achinyamata amene kuona dziko lapansi mwa prism maganizo zolunda ndi nkhawa kuyembekezera m'tsogolo; ndipo pali munthu wachikulire amene anamukonda mphindi iliyonse. Kumene, zimenezi sizitanthauza kuti ndi bwino - wamng'ono, ndithudi ndi mwayi munthu zambiri, komanso chuma ndi bwino kuposa umphawi. Komabe, tiyenera kukumbukira kuti kwambiri zimadalira maganizo a munthu. Ngati iye ali othekera kuona ndi mwayi mu moyo wanu - Chilengedwe Chonsechi adzam'patsa atsopano. Izi zikugwirizana n'loonadi ndi moyo otsimikiza mawu a m'Baibulo akuti: "Aliyense amene adzapatsidwa; ndi amene si adachotsa ngakhale kuti iye ali. "
Moyo Chozizwitsa
Tayerekezani kuti muli nawo mpikisano, amene amayendetsa komabe anthu oposa 100 miliyoni. Kusemphana kuwina pafupifupi negligible. Ndi chodziwikiratu kuti munthu ngakhale Akatswiri angavomereze kutenga nawo mbali mu mpikisano uwu. Ndipotu, ena a gulu akhoza kukhala amphamvu kwambiri, wina ndi kupirira kwambiri, ndi munthu - chabe zambiri wochenjera kuposa ena. Komabe, kwenikweni, aliyense wa ife ali wopambana. moyo wa munthu ndi chozizwitsa m'lingaliro lenileni la mawu. A mawu moyo otsimikiza yekha tizikumbukira izo kachiwiri. Apa pali chimene Tiutchev mu ndakatulo ake: "Kodi pamoyo sanaphunzitsidwe, koma mtima wanga amakhulupirira zozizwitsa ..."
Chinthu chachikulu - kukhulupirira
Ndipo apa pali wina amagwira moyo otsimikiza, adzaupereka kwa yopeka wolemba Ray Bradbury, "Palibe kukayikira zozizwitsa akapezeka." Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti munthu kutsogolo kwa chinthu chachilendo chikuchitika. Mwachitsanzo, iye anapeza yankho la funso lake akhala adzazunzidwa kapena kulota maloto aulosi. chozizwitsa ndi zina komanso ntchito yatsopano. Atafufuza yaitali zosapindulitsa kwa tsoka la munthu kupereka mphatso ngati. Komabe, anthu ambiri amakhala amantha chifukwa chodabwitsa - akufuna zifukwa, kuyesera kufotokoza zodabwitsa zinthu zonse cholinga. Aliyense amene takumana ndi zozizwitsa, M'pofunikanso kukumbukira: kwambiri munthu amakhulupirira mu zinthu zachilendo, ena a iwo mwina kukumana panjira.
Ngati munthu ayesera kukonda moyo, kusintha maganizo olakwika cholinga pa zabwino, ndiye posapita nthawi iye adzayambe kupeza. Kusiya kukhala pessimist, m'pofunika kuyesetsa: zochitika zambiri amayesetsa kuti adzathe kumangitsa munthu bog lapansi. Thandizani nokha ankamangidwanso akhoza kugwiritsa ntchito njira yaing'ono. Kungakhale moyo otsimikiza mawu kuwerenga, kuonera comedies ndi mafilimu abwino a Mitundu ina, kucheza ndi anthu abwino. Pamene munthu wayamba moyo ndi kuona dziko m'njira yosiyana, moyo wake wonse kwenikweni kusintha. Sasamala mphindi iliyonse ya moyo wake, iye akufuna kuyenda ndi kukaona malo atsopano. Dzulo pessimist amadziwa kuti osakhutira ndi ntchito kapena ubale omwe yekha negativity ndi maganizo. Iye amafuna kulenga mu moyo wanu ndi chinachake chatsopano, kuti kuposa zilandiridwenso ndi kuthetsa zinthu zoipa.
Ndi moyo otsimikiza ikuchokera pa ntchito otchuka Lewis Carroll - "Alice mu ochititsa chidwi":
"- M'mawa uliwonse, ine, monga bambo wake, ndimayesetsa kukhulupirira mu zozizwitsa asanu openga.
- Ndi aakulu ".
Moyo otsimikiza mawu kwa achinyamata
Unyamata - imodzi yovuta kwambiri. Mofanana ndi achikulire, mnyamata ayenera kukumbukira zinthu zochepa. Munthu amene amayamba kuzindikira moyo, nthawi zonse amayesetsa kufufuza padzikoli. Kumene pessimist, zinthu momveka bwino lomveka ndi zodziwikiratu, ndi optimist adzapeza zana masamu. Mu moyo simungathe kupewa ululu komanso kuvutika - koma aliyense ali ndi ufulu wosankha zimene kuganizira awo. F. M. Dostoevsky analemba kuti kwa moyo wosangalala ayenera kukhala osangalala kwambiri, mochuluka bwanji ndi chisoni. Sitingathe kunena kuti si - chifukwa mukatero anthu akhoza sayamikira chimwemwe. Ndipo Ernest Hemingway analemba kuti: "Ine sindikusamala chimene dziko liri. Onse Ndikufuna kudziwa -. Ziri monga kukhala m'dzikoli "
Quotes atsikana
Ndipo kodi kukulimbikitsani nokha madona wokongola? Moyo otsimikiza mawu kwa akazi - izi ndi imodzi mwa njira yabwino. Mat Tereza anati: "Mtendere limayamba kumwetulira." Koma mawu a Koko Shanel, amene chikulimbikitseni aliyense: "Chirichonse chiri mu manja athu. Choncho sitingathe kuchepetsa iwo. " Akazi amene ali okhoza kuuzira okha, zivute zitani kukhala kudzoza kwa ena - amuna, ana, abale, abwenzi ndi anzake.
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