N'chifukwa chiyani sindine mwayi?

Nthawi zambiri timamva kwa munthu kuti: Ine ndine wosasangalala kwambiri, chifukwa ine sindinali mwayi, ndi zina zotero. Anthu ambiri kotero ophatikizidwa ndi chithunzi cha miyoyo ya anthu wosakondwela kuti akakhulupirire amakhala pafupi zosatheka. Nthawi zambiri, maganizo awa ndi chifukwa chakukhosi ichi kapena mkwiyo pa anthu ena. Munthu ayamba kuganiza kuti aliyense wotsutsana naye. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, iye mavuto kutaya abwenzi ndi mwakemo.

Kupereka yankho zobweretsa n'chifukwa chiyani munthu weniweni wosachita pa moyo wawo, kuntchito kapena mu unansi wathu ndi abwenzi, inu simungakhoze. Komabe, vuto ili likhoza kukhala nokha.

Choyamba tiyenera athandize onse maganizo anu negative. Iwo m'pofunika kulemba iwo pa pepala ndi kuwerenga bwinobwino. Patatha izi, reformulate iwo mu njira yakuti iwo kukhala zabwino.

Nkofunika kudziwa mmene khutu kwa bwino. Nzosadabwitsa ngakhale grandmothers athu kuti zonse zimene anachita, onse bwino. Izi akuti yosavuta mwangwiro amathandiza kuti apulumuke ngakhale zinthu zitavuta kwambiri, zomwe, mwatsoka, nthawi zambiri zimachitika m'moyo.

Yankhani nokha mafunso atatu okha:

1. Kodi inu sindimakonda mu moyo wanu?
2. Kodi mukufuna kukhala?
3. Chindiletsa kukwaniritsa kufunika?

Pezani mayankho omveka a mafunso anu, mudzatha kuchotsa moyo zonse zosafunika kuti salola kuti mukhale osangalala. Yesetsani kukhala ngati muli mwayi kuti abwere. Ndipo izo sizimapanga inu kudikira nthawi yaitali.

Amaleka kufunsa funso: N'chifukwa chiyani si ine mwayi? Mu moyo uliwonse pali nthawi zina pamene izo sizimagwira ntchito ndiponso kuti musalefuke. Nthawi zambiri, vuto zimachitika zokha m'dera lina la moyo. Zimakhala ntchito, munthu ndi banja moyo. Sindizidzakangana ndi okondedwa chifukwa chakuti si kuyenda bwino ntchito. Kotero inu simukufuna vutolo likhale poipa.

chosowa kwambiri padziko lonse zoipa zonse. Nthawi zambiri chifukwa chakuti "Ine sindiri mwayi" Kodi mapulani zosatheka kapena zolinga zanu sizingatheke. Zimenezi zimathandiza munthu kuchepa umoyo, kusadzidalira, ndi kusafuna kuchita chilichonse. Ngati zinthu sizingasinthidwe, ndiye njira yokhayo adzakhala kusintha maganizo kwa izo. Change nthawi zonse bwino, ngakhale pakhala ikuyendetsedwa ndi zochitika zosasangalatsa inu. Kukhulupirira izo - chinsinsi bwino.

Kodi Khadili vuto kapena funso "N'chifukwa chiyani ndili ndi masoka", mungapeze mayankho. Koma izi si kokwanira. M'pofunika nacho chikhumbo athetse vutoli ndipo, ndithudi, kudziwa momwe angachitire izo.

Yesani pang'ono kuchepetsa zofuna za okha. Sikuti kuti mukupanga zolinga, amene adzakhala zosatheka kukwaniritsa. Nthawi zambiri, zoipa zimene tinachita zokha mu kukumbukira. Yesani kusintha maganizo ake. Samalani zinthu zonse zosangalatsa zimene zimachitika mu moyo. Ndipo izo tsiku ndi tsiku.

Chifukwa, inu azolowere lingaliro moyo umene nthawi zonse zinthu zodabwitsa zichitike, ndi mwayi, ngakhale kuposa anzanu ena.

Chinthu chofunika kwambiri - kukhulupirira nokha, mu loto lanu, ndipo mudzaona mmene dziko lilili idzasintha bwino, ndipo gudumu chuma adzayamba atembenuza mu njira ankafuna. Amaleka kufunsa funso "chifukwa sindinali mwayi," inu potsiriza kuyamba kukwaniritsa moyo.

Musaiwale kuti kaya duwa kapena dziko, mavuto Kodi zimachitika. Nkofunika kugwera mu mtima kapena maganizo. Pakuti lamizeremizere wakuda ayenera kukhala woyera, ndipo, nthawi zambiri, mavuto masiku ano okha bode bwino m'tsogolo. Khutu ku positive. Kuganizira kuchita zimene zimalepheretsa ku malingaliro zosasangalatsa. Kupita kukayenda mu kalabu mafilimu a kanema. Itanani abwenzi akale amene akhoza sitinamuone. Chezani ndi anthu abwino, mwaubwenzi adzapanga inu mukukumbukira zinthu zonse zabwino m'moyo wanu. Choncho, iwe kwambiri maganizo abwino, zimene zingakuthandizeni kupeza njira yoyenera kapena njira vuto ili pa mphindi.