Ndi amene chidaliro zinthu zimene sizikuyenda bwino Nkhata?

The yochepa yankho ku funso lakuti: "Ndani ali optimists," adzatembenuza chinachake monga chonchi - akuchita, ngakhale mu mtanda kuona ubwino. Mawu "chidaliro" amachokera ku Latin "Optimus" - yabwino ndi adzatenge zabwino, kukhulupilira ubale kwa dziko.

Mwachiyembekezo ndi zimachitika ngati njira ya kukhala otsatira a chipembedzo cha chikhristu, pamene takhumudwa kuti zikhoza kugwirizana ndi mtima woipa, amaona ndi machimo aakulu. Ndipo mwina ndi N'zosadabwitsa, kuyambira posachedwapa pakhala ziphunzitso polumikiza moyo kupindula ndi ngakhale thanzi la munthu amene ali ndi maganizo ofala. Mwachitsanzo, anthu timudziwe bwino matenda choganiza kapena prerequisites ziphunzitso za Luizy Hei, anayamba kumvetsa bwino amene ali optimists. Choncho tikuwuza anthu amene sindikutsutsa, sichidukidwa, kuvomereza Msikiti view, si kukakamiza anthu palokha ndipo amasangalala ndi mphindi iliyonse ya moyo. otere angathe zina muchisiye matenda oyamba makamaka mantha dongosolo.

Komano, kafukufuku wa posachedwapa wasonyeza kuti unsembe wa wolephera moti analekerera bwino ngati ankakonzekera kwambiri, si wolungama. Kafukufuku wa sayansi imachitika pa yunivesite ya Seattle, anasonyeza kuti sizikuyenda bwino sizichepetsa maganizo pambuyo zingapo zoipa. Amene zinthu ziyenda bwino pa mfundo iyi? Masiku ano, pali umboni kuti zabwino cholinga kolowera amapereka thupi lonse kukwaniritsa chimene mukufuna. Chitsanzo kumene pankhondo kundende ndi imodzi mwa andende, ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo, kuthandiza anthu ena kuti zikuchitika pa gombe pansi dzuwa amphamvu m'malo chipinda, amene adakula kulimbikira zamoyo ozizira - ndi ena amaundana.

Koma apa chinthu chachikulu - musati kuwotcha, chifukwa kutchulidwa kwambiri pessimist ndi optimist - ziri kwambiri. Mukhoza amayesa chongopeka kukhala "zabwino" kuti ndi nkhanza chikhalidwe chake, kuyambira njira zabwino kwa moyo zikusonyeza kuti zinazake zimabweretsa chimwemwe chenicheni. Ndi bwino kukhala ndi chidaliro realist, amene sadzayang'ana pa dziko kupyolera "magalasi duwa yofiira."

ndi optimists ndi ndani? Mwina pessimists amene, chifukwa cha zifukwa zosiyanasiyana kuphunzira luso ndichiyembekezo (pa Selingmanu). Kuchita izi pang'ono. Choyamba, kuperekedwa bwino okha ndi khama lawo, ndi mmene zinthu zilili komanso anthu ena. Kachiwiri, ine ndikukhulupirira kuti chilichonse chingachitike kulikonse, pa nthawi iliyonse, osati mwa chifuniro cha mwayi malo makamaka ndi kuti sizidzachitika kachiwiri. Chachitatu, kukhala ndi ena tsiku ndi tsiku, kuphatikizapo kuti agwire malangizo awa:

- Sankhani zolinga yotsimikizika ndiponso kukwaniritsa iwo;

- kuyang'ana pa vuto kwa mfundo zosiyanasiyana view;

- kumvetsera nyimbo, kuyenda mu chikhalidwe, ulesi kwa mphindi 20 tsiku;

- kudabwa ndi kudabwitsa;

- nthawi kwathunthu kusintha fano;

- nacho dziko akadzera mu mphamvu yonse;

- kuyamba tsiku ndi view zosangalatsa za chinthu, ndi malingaliro abwino kapena mapemphero;

- Khalani ndi zilandiridwenso, ngakhale sabweretsa ndalama iliyonse. Ambiri mwa katswiri wa chikhalidwe dziko zikungosonyeza ndi maganizo aluso;

- kuwerenga nthabwala ndi kukumbukira mphindi kupeza moyo.

Ngati inu simukudziwa yemwe inu muli - ndi optimist, pessimist, realist - n'zotheka kutenga mayeso, lomwe ladzala ndi Intaneti. Iwo angatithandize kudziwa mbali yaikulu ya chilengedwe ndi kudziwa malangizo a ntchito pa wekha.