Khalidwe labwino? Kuti ife Sizilowana!

"Ungwiro" - liwu bwino kuti tonsefe bwino, ndipo nthawi zambiri amatanthauza chinachake kosangalatsa. Sichoncho? Kukungooneka "nerd" magalasi, omwe anamasuliridwa madona akale kuwoloka msewu, kupereka njira mabasi ndi magalimoto ndi zonse ndalama, ndi madzulo amachotsa amphaka ku mitengo. Sindikukhulupirira kuti munthu atakwera Jeep ndi kukhala dziko, angakhale abwino. Kapena mungathe izo? Kapena chimwemwe iyi? Tiyeni kaye pa positi.

Khalidwe labwino tsopano salinso otchuka

Mmaonekedwe, mkati ndi kunja kwa mafashoni si zovala kapena masitayilo music, komanso makhalidwe ena abwino. Popeza ambiri a ife tinabadwa mu nthawi Soviet (ndipo ena ndi mwayi kukula ndi kupeza maphunziro pa nthawi ino), ife sitikudziwa yekha amene "timurovtsi". Icho chinali "azimuth" m'chilankhulo ano, achinyamata anayesa kuti ndikhale woonamtima, uthe, anthu. Mawu akuti "ubwino" ndiye izo zonse zinali bwino komanso ulemu.

Pamene Iron Katani anakweza, zinadziwika yapamwamba kukhala wosamvera. Beatniks, otsutsa - achinyamata amakonda kutsutsa kachitidwe, njira ngakhale sauza ndithu. Kodi mmaonekedwe lero? Ndithudi ayi mtima wofuna kuthandiza! Tiyeni si anaphunzitsa m'kalasi kusukulu, koma yapamwamba lero kuyesetsa kuti akumoto, chuma ndi kutchuka. Khalidwe labwino? Zimenezi akhoza kusokoneza kuchita chilichonse. M'kupita kwa mawu monga "Chutzpah - chimwemwe chachiwiri", "Munthu aliyense yekha" ndipo ndi "chipasuko" khalidwe ndi tacitly ovomerezedwa ndi anthu.

Mwachilungamo ndi kukhulupirika

Ndipotu, anthu kapena boma dongosolo sangathe kusankha momwe mungagwiritsire anthu. Kumbukirani kuti mayi anali kunena kuti ife mwana opusa mu maganizo ake khalidwe? "Ndipo ngati iwo kudumpha kuchokera pansi chitatu, pamenepo inunso mupite?" Tiyeni tsopano "yapamwamba" kukhala munthu wotereyo osamvera popanda mfundo ndi malamulo, koma palinso liwu la mkati, mphamvu wamphamvu kuposa mawu a dongosolo anthu.

Aliyense wa ife akhoza kumva mawu amene adakuyitanani chikumbumtima, maganizo, moyo, kapena mawu a mtima. Ubwino - ichi ndi chimodzi mwa kusonyezedwa zabwino. Kodi timakusonyeza?

umphumphu n'chiyani?

1. Kusiyana pakati pa "zabwino" ndipo "zoipa." Si za moyo, ndi yodziŵiratu zinthu pasadakhale mumtima mwanu. Popanda mfundo achipembedzo ndi malamulo a chilango ukudziwa zabwino osati kwambiri.
2. Posafuna kuti "Oyipayo" zochita. Internal wokhulupirika amatipatsa ife ndi lingo la manyazi pa nkhani ya kuchita zachiwerewere. Dziwani kuti palibe kukakamiza - ife nkuganiza chochita. Ndipo ngakhale inu kusankha "cholakwika" (mu maganizo athu), tikhoza kukhala wogwiritsa kwathunthu, ndipo patapita chikumbumtima chathu adzakhala amazunza.
3. Chikhumbo chofuna kuchita zabwino. The ubwino mkati "amavomereza" tikufuna kukhala "zabwino" ndi wopindulitsa wokhutira kwambiri.

Kodi kukhala oona mtima kwa munthuyo?

Zingaoneke zachilendo, koma anthu ambiri m'malo kayenera kukanidwa ngati mphatso zachilengedwe ndi lakuti mmene chawo. Chifukwa chiyani kuli kofunikira? Kusokoneza kukula munthu kupita patsogolo, patsogolo?

Komabe, monga mchitidwe ndi zimene zinachitikira anthu mamiliyoni ambiri, onse "zidole" monga ndalama, kutchuka, ulamuliro wosachita timasangalala abwino (kumene, ndi kukhulupirira, koma osati "mwadala" iwo zambiri). Anthu akuthamangira mabuku onse lalikulu mwa zinthu izi, koma kuti kukhala ndi kukhumudwa ndi kumverera chinachake wopondereza akusamba. Koma timayesera kukhala moyo moyenera! Simudzaupeputsa apeze chilichonse chuma, koma moyo onse kusangalala ndi kuyimba. Ndipotu cha nkhaniyi ndi kuti katundu monga zidole yabodza Khirisimasi - "si zolimbikitsa." Pa nthawi yomweyo akulola ukali kumva wamphamvuzonse ndi pafupifupi pamwamba pa dziko, ngakhale ndinu wophunzira osauka.

Ubwino - si khalidwe. Komanso, "chabwino" khalidwe, malinga ndi olakwika oona za chikhalidwe kuteteza munthu amaganizira. Koma izi pokhapokha ngati timvetsetsa ndi "kukhazikitsa" okha polimbikira kuchita zinthu monga chitukuko ntchito, ndalama, zinthu zatsopano kuwasindikiza. Ngati mukufuna kukhala okondwa basi, kukhala mogwirizana ndi wekha, ndiyeno inu simukhala kukhala wamakhalidwe.