Ndingatani kukwatiwa popanda kulembetsa mu ofesi kaundula? miyambo ya chipembedzo

Nthawi zambiri mukhoza kumva kwa Mkwatibwi ndi mkwatibwi funso chowawa: "Kodi ife kukwatiwa popanda kulembetsa mu ofesi kaundula" Posachedwapa kuyankha kuti: palibe. Amenewa ndi yochepa yankho. Koma pali chosowa kuchotserapo. Kodi tikambirana ena zigawo kwa nkhani ino. Kudalira yekha pa malamulo kachipembedzo, ansembe akulu, kufotokoza za zomwe wamoyo m'banja kwa zaka zambiri. Kuti timvetse chifukwa chake anthu akufunsa funso ili kukanikiza, kubwerera kumbuyo posachedwa, chiyambi cha 1900s, mu tsarist Russia.

Ulendo kuti chiyambi cha zaka mazana makumi awiri

Tiyeni kukumbukira nkhaniyo. Mwina munthu agogo anauzidwa zimene anali Russia mpaka 1917. Ndani amene ndinali nawo mwayi kumvetsera, onetsetsani kuwerenga. Zimenezo ndizosangalatsa.

Pamaso pa October kuukira boma, achinyamata alibe ankadzifunsa ngati ife akhoza kukwatiwa popanda kulembetsa, chifukwa kulekana kwa State ndi Mpingo sanali. okwatirana onse malinga mpingo. Pankhaniyi, banjalo zonse kunachitika banja osati kwa Mulungu komanso kwa boma.

Pamaso pa Kubwera kwa Soviet Union, pafupifupi anthu onse amene anali okhulupirira. Palibe akazi ndi sakuganiza, iwo kukwatira kapena ayi. Zinali mokakamizidwa kwa onse. maofesi kaundula kulibe pa nthawi imeneyo. Koma kuchokera 1917-1918, anayamba kuoneka chisawawa matupi kuti alembetse nzika. Mpingo wa anthu asamukira ku maziko, kapena analibe konse.

zaka 80 pambuyo pake unatha kuzunza mpingo, anthu anayamba kubwezeretsa akachisi, mchitidwe umenewu. Wina pali chikhulupiriro mwa Mulungu. Mabanja kapena m'tsogolo mwamuna ndi mkazi akufuna kuti ayeretse ukwati. Ndiyeno ndinayamba kufunsa ngati kuli kotheka kuti akwatire popanda kulembetsa mu ofesi kaundula? Poyamba korona wosakwatira. Koma patapita nthawi, iwo ayenera kusonyeza kalata ukwati. Chifukwa chiyani?

Ukwati - udindo waukulu

Siyense awiri anachita bwino, kuyeretsa ukwati wawo. Kutenga akutsanzikana atakwatirana. Pamene iwo amati ansembe ambiri, ichi ndi chifukwa chakuti anthu samaona udindo osati kwa wina ndi mnzake, komanso kwa Mulungu. Ndipotu, pamene tidze kwa kaundula, iwo kumvetsetsa malamulo iwo tsopano ndi mwamuna ndi mkazi, banja weniweni, udindo akuwonekera. Ndipo mu Mpingo wa anthu akhale nthawi yoyamba, iwo saona Mulungu, ukwati akhoza amaona kopanda mwambo kanthu. Ndipo ndi mantha. Ndingatani kukwatiwa popanda kaundula mu nkhani iyi? Kumene ayi. Pamaso pa Mulungu, yankho adzakhala ndi kubala kwa tchimo manda, monga kuwonongeka kwa ukwati.

Iwo akhoza kukhala ndi mwayi wodziwa kuti ochuka uja popanda sitampu mu pasipoti ndi osakwatiwa. Tikawonetsetsa, kuyambira achoka tchimo osasamalira awiri. Panopa m'matchalitchi ambiri ansembe kuchititsa mafunso mabanja amene asankha kuyenda pansi kanjira. Pali adzayankhe, mukhoza kukwatira popanda kulembetsa mu ofesi kaundula kapena ayi. Izi zili choncho makamaka kwa anthu amene amaona atate kwa nthawi yoyamba. confessors ake amadziwa, ndipo ngati amaganizira achinyamata zimene anathana ndi wapadera mafunso kuti, mwina kumugwira.

Kulembetsa ndi ukwati mu tsiku lina

Panopa, inu mukhoza zambiri kuona mkwatibwi diresi loyera ndi yowoneka bwino kwa mpingo pa dzanja la bwenzi lake. Ndi makolo awo, abale, abwenzi. Zonse zokongola, mokondwera. Ife pomwepo kuona kuti achinyamata angokwatira. Aliyense akhoza ndikuganiza, ngakhale anthu akudziko la mwambo kuti kugwirizana pasadakhale, kusankha tsiku. Ngati mkwatibwi chimadza kokha ndi chatsopano satifiketi ukwati mu kachisi, ndiye kuti akhoza kukwatiwa popanda kulembetsa? No. nkhaniyi zikuoneka kuti bambo amadziwa mpingo wake ndi amene Iye anati kale kuti anagonjera yofunsira kuti kaundula wa. Ndipo ngati wansembe si bwino banja? Palibe kumathandiza kuti adzafafaniza ukwati ngati wamng'ono alibe adzakhala kujambula lero.

Kodi onse korona?

Inu simungakhoze kupita motsutsana ndi malamulo a mpingo. Osati korona amene ali achibale ndi digiri chachinayi palimodzi. Mwachitsanzo:

• abale, asuweni, msuweni wachiwiri, m'bale ndi mlongo, ndi ana katatu kuchotsedwa amalume kapena azakhali;
• Amalume ndi mphwanga;
• ana kwa wina kholo (abale ndi alongo).

M'malo mokhala ndi mndandanda. Pali zoletsa pa ukwati pakati Kum (omwe ndi godson general) ndi pakati godparents ndi godchildren ndi ana awo. Sanakwatiwe ndi nthawi chachinayi.

Mpingo sadalitsa apabanja ndi kusiyana pa zaka 15, chifukwa maukwati otere osalimba ndi akanathetsa pa nthawi iliyonse masiku ano anthu ambiri. Ndingatani kukwatiwa popanda kulembetsa mu ofesi kaundula? Nkhani imeneyi akhoza kugwa payokha, ndithudi, wansembe adzayankha - palibe. Koma kaundula mukhoza kupita awiri aliyense pokhapokha palibe zopinga malamulo (osati anapereka chilekano, mwachitsanzo, kapena zaka zosakwana zaka 18), sipadzakhala munthu kudzifunsa kuti, ndani amene ndi amene ali ndi zaka zingati.

Kupanga zosiyana?

Monga tanena m'kachisi kufunsa kukwatiwa ndi zotheka, koma muyenera kupereka kalata ukwati ndi kuonetsetsa kuti palibe njira ndi wachibale: palibe monga mwa thupi, osati mzimu. Koma mukhoza kukwatira popanda kulembetsa mu ofesi kaundula?

Mwina mavuto kwambiri moyo Mwachitsanzo, limodzi la anthu okonda ndi mwakayakaya. Koma onse amakondana. Wansembe mukhoza kulankhula nawo za ukwati, kuvomereza. Childs, nkhani imeneyi angathetse bishopu kulamulira. ndi ndani? Kawirikawiri bishopu. M'lingaliro chidziko, "kazembe wa mpingo wa m'deralo." iye yekha angapereke chilolezo kuyankha, kaya kukwatiwa popanda boma mu ofesi kaundula wa aŵiriwo.

Iwo ayenera kumvetsa kuti udindo wauzimu lagona akazi osati kokha, komanso wansembe. Ndipotu ukwati Komabe, ubatizo ndi tsoka lalikulu kwambiri.

Wokwatiwa tsopano yapamwamba

Russia Modern lowani ofesi kaundula, mofulumira kukwatira. Koma osati mabanja onse amapita ku kachisi. Iwo Tingaone pansi akorona wopatulika ngati angolowa kumene m'banja ndi okalamba. Yotsirizira mwachidziwikire kumvetsa tanthauzo la ukwati zina moyo. Koma iwo anasintha udindo ukwati. Za pobereka si kupemphera, mwachitsanzo. Koma achinyamata wansembe udindo kukhala kucheza catechetical. Mwina atate wanga kulangiza ola ukwati mpaka nthawi yabwino. Chifukwa chiyani? Sanakonzekere mwauzimu, ndipo mwinamwake ngakhale utoto.

Kodi inu kukwatira popanda ukwati, ngati ndi udindo aakulu kuposa penti? Kodi pali chifukwa chochitira ndi kaundula wa? Ndipotu, pali pafupifupi palibe taboos, palibe udindo sitampu kwa sitampu mu pasipoti ali chachikulu kupita kumeneko. Pakuti ukwati ku matchalitchi ena kutenga nthawi zina zambiri, ndipo penapake zinthu monga chopereka.

Ndipo ife takhala m'banja

Ngati palibe zopinga ovomerezeka, banjali okalamba tinakwatirana. Cofunika n'cakuti kubweretsa kalata ukwati ngati wansembe sakudziwa inu. Monga tanenera kale, ukwati mwambo ndi wamfupi kusiyana kwa achinyamata.

Musalole kuti akwatire amene ali mu mgwirizano boma, kapena m'malo mwa mchitidwe wolowerera. Sitingathe kuitana wina mwamuna wina ndi mkazi, ngakhale banja akhalira limodzi kwa zaka 10. Choyamba, kulembetsa ubale, ndiye omasuka mupite ku guwa. Choncho yankho, kodi inu kukwatira popanda kulembetsa mu ofesi kaundula.

Kodi pali "debunking"?

Mwatsoka, moyo wamakono - Kusakhazikika izi. Osowa mabanja ali opulumutsidwa muyaya. Ngakhale anthu amene ali m'banja panthawiyo, sakhoza inshuwaransi ndi kuthetsa ukwati. Zachitikiranji zimenezi? Anthu tayiwala mmene chikondi, kulekerera n'kukhululuka. Zodabwitsa ndizakuti, izo zinali mu kuvomereza kwa wansembe, mwamuna ndi mkazi akhoza kundiuza kuti anthu osauka chiyani: kuyang'ana pa mtsikana wokongola, adamuyitana mwamuna wake, kunyozedwa mzake, ndi zina zotero. Ngati akazi akufuna kuchotsa machimo ndi kuvomereza mzake, lithe sati amutsatire.

Tiyeni tikambirane za kusudzulana. Asanakwatiwe mutu wanga sangathenso: Kodi n'zotheka kuti akwatire popanda kupenta? Pa nthawi ya chilekaniro akufuna kuti debunk mpingo? Palibe mwambo amenewa.

Kuti mwambo kogwira

Ndi bwino kupemphera kwa Mulungu kuyeretsa banja lanu pa ukwati. Iwo m'pofunika mosamala kumvetsera zimene Ambuye akufunsa wansembe, ndiponso kunena yekha. Osati kayendedwe zofunika, mfundo, mauta molondola ndi mapemphero a akazi onse.

Tinakambirana za mmene ngati ine akhoza kukwatiwa popanda kulembetsa mu ofesi kaundula. Ife kulongosola mfundo zambiri. mokoma aliyense akhoza anatsimikiza ndi wansembe, kufunsa mafunso, pemphani malangizo ndi madalitso.