Ngati munthu aperekedwa kachiwiri, kodi zimenezi zikutanthauza kuti iye adzandipereka kachiwiri?

Ngati inu anasintha mumaikonda kamodzi, pali mwayi kuti zimenezi zidzachitika kachiwiri. Malinga ndi kafukufuku latsopano, anthu amene amachita chinyengo anzawo, nthawi 3.5 zambiri kusintha okondedwa awo pa izi. Pa nthawi yomweyo, anthu amene akuvutika ndi kusakhulupirika mu ubale zapitazi, amakonda kuonetsetsa kuti awo anyenga kachiwiri.

Kodi kuperekedwa kachiwiri?

Ankachitira phunzirolo pa University of Denver. Iwo anali nawo anthu 484 a zaka zapakati pa 18 ndi 34, amene ali m'banja. Iwo wapezeka kuti ukathyali - ndi imodzi mwa zitsanzo za ubale chowawa chabe.

Anthu amene kale anali kuona mtima aukali, kuposa ena mwayi kubwereza. phunziro anapeza kuti abwenzi thupi aukali, amene angalere mawu anu kapena kumenyana katatu zambiri kulekerera zimenezi pa ubale zotsatirazi. Pa nthawi yomweyo amuna awo kasanu N'kutheka kuti kuvutika kachiwiri.

Mwatsoka, kusakhulupirira pachibwenzi kuli chinthu wamba: 33% ya anthu ndi 19% wa akazi anavomereza kuti anasintha anzawo. kafukufuku ameneyu kunachitidwa mu 2013, ndipo anthu 100,000 anatenga gawo mmenemo.

ziwerengero

Malinga ndi Malo matenda, pafupifupi wina mwa akazi anayi wakhala chiwawa ndi mnzawo wapamtima. Izi zikuphatikizapo thupi ndi kugonana nkhanza, nkhanza mokwiya maganizo.

Ife timakonda kuganiza kuti tikhoza chitsanzo athu ndi zolakwa, makamaka pankhani kukonda, monga iwo amati olemba kuphunzira. Komabe, kafukufuku pakufunika zambiri, komanso njira yachipatala kuthandiza anthu kusiya zizolowezi zoipa ubale. Kuweruza ndi ziwerengero zakuda, ife chokha chimene izi zidzathandiza m'tsogolo.