Kaya msinkhu ndi nthawi, ukwati - ndi mwambo zodabwitsa ndi mbiri yake zaka chikwi, miyambo ndi script a. Tikumbukenso kuti fuko lirilonse liri, wake wapadera kwambiri. Pointeresuemsya, monga mmene mu Mpingo Orthodox.
The chizindikiro cha madalitso
Mawu akuti "dalitso" akutanthauza mawu Mipikisano wofunika koma imodzi, mfundo yaikulu pulayimale zikumveka ngati "ulemerero wa munthu kapena chinthu, kukwezedwa." M'mawu ena, ndi cholakalaka bwino, zabwino zonse, chimwemwe komanso mipata kuti tikwaniritse zolinga zathu, etc. Ngati mawuwa ntchito kwa mkwati ndi mkwatibwi, dalitso kwa iwo ndi chokhumba kulenga ndi banja logwirizana, kukhala chimwemwe ndi chikondi, luntha, kukhulupirika ndi kutukuka. "Kodi wodala achinyamata" - mwafunsiranji? Mosiyana.
Ngati tiyang'ana pa mbiri, kanthu chikuchitika mu njira iyi. Pambuyo pa chibwenzi ndi chitomero, pamene mnyamata ndi mtsikana analengeza kufuna kuyamba banja, makolo monga chizindikiro cha kuvomereza pa iwo pamtanda, nampsompsona mphumi, Zabwino. Young kapena anagwada kapena anagwada. Kodi kuchita mwambo wa bambo ndi mayi mbali zonse kapena pa m'modzi.
Kodi akudalitseni achinyamata, ngati makolo palibe? Ndiye ntchito ndi udindo wa akulu m'banja: agogo, azakhali kapena amalume, m'bale, mlongo. Pomaliza, kupereka mawu nalo moyo watsopano banja ndi yakuti godparents angolowa kumene m'banja m'tsogolo. An chenjezo zofunika: kwa kanthu wopalidwa ubwenzi ayenera kubatizidwa. Ngati kudzipereka kwa Mulungu mmodzi wa iwo sanali, iwo amafuna kudutsamo. Ndiponso mmene dalitsani wamng'ono kwambiri?
kutsanzikana chachiwiri kupeza mkwati ndi mkwatibwi asanapite pa kupenta mu kaundula wa. Pamaso mwambo mlanduwu anakhala m'gulu la zinthu zofunika, panali kudzipereka ukwati mu mpingo. Pamene achinyamata anali kupita pansi kanjira, musananyamuke kupita naye kuchipatala, iwo kachiwiri walandira madalitso zithunzi banja kapena mafano, anagula mwapadera pa mwambowu. zithunzi ndiye anapatsidwa banjali kwa obereganiya mtendere ndi chisangalalo. Mkwati ndi mkwatibwi katatu kuposa Mtanda ndi mapemphero apadera ndi mafuno abwino.
Ndipo, potsiriza, momwe iwo akudalitseni achinyamata kachitatu? Anthu ambiri amakhulupirira kuti zimenezi zichitike pambuyo ukwati (kupenta), pamene sanafa mwalamulo analandira udindo wa banja wamng'ono. Asanalowe nyumba, kumene ukwati adzakhala phwando, makolo kukumana chakudya ndi mchere, zithunzi, zofuna ndi kunena anatsanzikana. Mawu amasunga bambo a mkwatiyo, hlebushek - mayi ake. Young Zabwino, mtanda ndi chipsompsono. Anthu poyankha zikomo ndi kulonjeza onani mkulu ndi kumanga banja losangalala kunyumba. Kumene, ngakhale kotala zoyambirira za m'ma 20, mwambo anali zogwirizana ndi zofunika. Koma anthu masiku ano achinyamata amachita popanda izo. Kapena kutsatira mbali mwamwambo chabe zokometsera. Koma pali mabanja ambiri amene anamupatsa iye kusiyana kwenikweni chachikulu.
Mafano dalitso
Amene chizindikiro akudalitseni achinyamata? Funso ndi m'malo woonda. Choyamba, monga tanenera kale, zingakhale banja image, opatsirana ku mibadwomibadwo pano mwambo. Chotero chithunzi namolennye kale ndi amphamvu mphamvu zabwino, makamaka ngati ukwati wa makolo achinyamata masiku ano, agogo awo, etc. Zinali bwino, olimba ndi achimwemwe. Ndipo iwo adzakhala mphinjiri wabwino latsopano achinyamata banja. Kachiwiri, fano amenewa fano la Peter ndi Fevronia wa Murom - oyera anazindikira mwa Mpingo wa Atetezi kwa moto banja. More anaganiza akudalitseni chizindikirochi ndi amayi a Mulungu ndi Mpulumutsi - chachimuna ndi chachikazi. Akukwana chifanizo cha Nikolaya Chudotvortsa. Ndipo subtleties otsiriza mmene bwino akudalitseni achinyamata. Zizindikiro atengedwa ku mpingo (kapena kaundula), kenako n'kupachikidwa mu ngodya yofiira chimodzi mwa zipinda za nyumba kumene anthu achichepere.
Kusunga kapena kusunga mwambo - wapadera zochitika za banja lililonse wamng'ono. Koma ngati inu mukufuna kuti lonjezo kwathunthu wodzipereka chimwemwe, kukhala moyo wautali pamodzi ndi chimwemwe - bwino tiyeni kholo madalitso ndi Mulungu akhale ndi inu!