Wachikazi: kuzindikira ndi kuthawa

Iwo kalekale kwa akazi si anadabwa kuli izi mtundu wa amuna ngati "wachikazi." Ndipo posachedwapa kugonana mphamvu za anthu amene amagwa pansi gulu ili, izo zimakhala zambiri. N'chifukwa chiyani zimenezi, fotokozani momveka palibe amene angathe, koma zimene infantilism kulakwa mwana wake mayi ake - ndi mfundo angatsutse. Makamaka odekha "nthawi" sonnies anakulitsa Mitembo yokhala, amene alibe mwamuna. Choncho iwo "kosangalatsa" chikondi changa zonse ndi chisamaliro kwambiri chifukwa cha mwanayo.

akazi awa ankavala ana awo, monga nkhuku ndi dzira: chakudya, madzi, malaya Pet, zovala zamkati ndi masokosi kusamba, ligonekedwa ndi kuimba lullaby. Ndipo izo zonse wosakaniza ndi syusyukanem, ngakhale kuti mwanayo akhala kuyambira anatuluka zaka zisanu ndipo anakhala kwathunthu kugonana okhwima, osalola munthu. Koma kodi palokha ngati amayi kulikonse imalamulira izo? "Musati muzipita kumeneko, kuti si anzathu, musati muchite izi ..." ndipo zimadza moti mayi wasankha mwana wake wamng'ono kuphunzira ndi amene kukwatira. Ndipo kaya kukwatiwa ...

Ngakhale ngati wachikazi ndi kupeza amakambabe za achibale ake, mayi wa zotsalazo akadali sadzatero. Makamaka ngati ndi kutsutsana ndi ziphunzitso zake, osati anakwatira msungwana, anasankha iye. Ndipotu, kodi zingatheke bwanji? Iye anakweza mnyamata wake, anakweza, kusamalidwa ndi holila, usiku sakugona, ndipo apa panadza "coquette" Anatengako chuma. Koma nanga kapu ya madzi mu ukalamba wake? Ndipo kuyamba chobisika (ndi zina lotseguka) nkhondo adzatsutsana ndi mwana wamkazi, amene amatsuka mbale si choncho, malaya si monga sitiroko ndi mokulira, sakonda mwana wake. Chifukwa mayi anga kwenikweni kokha kuyikonda. Ndipo iye pang'onopang'ono ayamba kusintha overage mwana wake Mosiyana mkazi.

munthu, ndithudi, poyamba anakaniza, koma posakhalitsa ndikupeza bwanji pomwe mayi ndi kufananitsa ndi mayi a mkazi wake sanatenge nthawi yaitali kudikira. A mkazi amene mwamuna - wachikazi, kuti kapena kutenga nkhonya ndipo adzakhala bwino mpongozi (kuti, mfundo, sikutheka kwa maganizo a mwamuna kapena mkazi) kapena kupala kusudzulana.

Chachiwiri, mwatsoka, izo zimachitika nthawi zambiri chifukwa mkazi aliyense olongosoka mukufuna kusamalira moyo wake wonse akumuyamwitsa munthu wamkulu, amene sangathe ngakhale kupeza chakudya mu firiji, osanenapo thandizo ntchito zapakhomo?

Choncho, ngati simukufuna kuti amange moyo wawo ndi munthu amene mawu mayi - choonadi chapamwamba, m'pofunika kuphunzira kuzindikira kwake ngakhale pamaso pa ubwenzi zavyazhutsya kwambiri. Mukhoza kuchita izi nthawi zina mwachindunji, nthawizina - patapita kanthawi, chifukwa tsopano amuna infantile chinthu okha odalirika ndi chikhulupiriro. Choncho ngati latsopano mnzanu - wachikazi, zizindikiro adzakhala zotsatirazi:

• Iye nthawi zambiri ndi kukoma mtima kwambiri akutchula wake mayi (Mayi, mamulenku, mayi, etc.) ndipo akhoza kukhumudwa ndi ngakhale okwiya ndi funso lanu ambiri osalakwa za asapita ake ndi mayi a.
• Zonse adzaitana mayi ndi kuuza iwe kumene icho chiri, amene ndi nthawi kubwera kunyumba.
• Mbidzi "kudzionetsera" mayi anu posachedwapa, kuti, mu nkhani akukulangani, musawononge zambiri pa inu nthawi ina.
• Atavala ndi mwaukhondo zoipa basi chifukwa mayi ake kwambiri.
• Kulikonda ena masokosi, mipango ndi zoluka ndi mphalapala (ndi kuvala iwo, ngakhale iwo zimasungika kwa masiku sukulu), chifukwa mayi anga osokedwa kapena anagula.
• Iwo amakamba kuti musankhepo kwa mtsikana kuti iye kumukwatira pokhapokha ngati atakwatirana adzakwaniritsadi ntchito yofanana mu mofanana wa makolo ake okondedwa.
• Izo sizimapanga pafupifupi khama kwambiri kuti azikupatsani, chifukwa iye ndi zolemba zina zimene tiyenera yekha mtsikana amene adzasamalira ndi makani chomwecho monga mayi. Ngati inu simutero, ndiye izo zidzakhala zoipa mkazi choncho sakuyenera ulendo odyera (anyamata zabwino ndi chakudya kunyumba), maluwa (apatsidwa okha mayi pa March 8) ndi mphatso (mphatso zawo zokha mayi mu mawonekedwe a zoluka ndi mphalapala ).