Yotayikitsa, zaphindu nkhondo

Anthu ambiri amaganiza za nkhondo chodabwitsa mwangwiro zoipa, imbaenda okha mikangano mikangano ndi chiwonongeko. Komabe, zimenezi si zoona. Kuwonjezera pa kuwononga, palinso mikangano structural chopatsa chigamulocho mavuto ambiri chobisika.

matanthauzo

nkhondo ndi ena kutsutsana kapena standoff kuti kumachitika chifukwa cha zinthu zosagwirizana wa zofuna za maphwando. Iwo angayambe mwa anthu kapena magulu mu ndondomeko ya moyo.

Malinga ndi chikhalidwe cha zotsatira, akatswiri a maganizo kusiyanitsa yotayikitsa, zaphindu nkhondo. Mbali yoyamba, padzakhala kanthu koma kukangana, zonyoza ndi ubwenzi unasokonezeka. Nthawi zina nkhondo zowononga angapitirire siteji ya zachiwawa. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala chidani munthu, tsankho, kufuna phindu.

Kwathunthu zosiyana tanthauzo adzalandira mikangano structural. Amathandiza kuti chigamulocho mavuto zooneka ndi zobisika, kuthetsa mu timu, kulimbitsa ubwenzi. Pankhani mabizinesi, Ngopambana nthawi zambiri dala nkhondo, kuti zimachepetsa m'mlengalenga mkangano.

Moyenera ndipo zowononga nkhondo - n'kovuta potaya

Dziwani kuti nkhondo pakati pa aliyense payekha kapena timagulu ndi kovuta kuti aone. Kudziwa mtundu Sizotheka chifukwa zifukwa zotsatirazi Cholinga:

• Palibe i bwino malinga ndi zomwe kusiyanitsa ndi zaphindu ndi zowononga nkhondo. Nthawi zambiri, izi zikhoza kutheka pokhapokha nkhondoyo, pamene akhoza imawunikidwa zotsatira zake (ndipo ngakhale mu nkhani iyi, yankho akhoza kukhala wapadera).
• Zambiri za nkhondo, mosasamala kanthu za chilengedwe zimene zidzachitika, yodziwika monga ntchito moyenera ndipo zowononga imodzi.
• Makhalidwe standoff zingasiyane kwambiri malingana ngati iwo uli pa siteji ya. nkhondo zaphindu kwambiri moti pokhapokha gawo pachimake, kapena mosinthanitsa - kupita ku chiwonongeko.
• Potaya nkhondo ayenera kuganizira mbali zotengera malingaliridwe. Mwachitsanzo, gulu lina mwina amaona yolimbikitsa, ndi wina, adzavala ndi chionongeko. Komanso, n'kofunika kuganizira chidwi lachitatu maphwando, amene angathe kuyambitsa atasemphana.

ntchito zaphindu nkhondo chikhalidwe

Ngakhale wonse zoipa kumatanthauza chinthu monga nkhondo, kuti amachita angapo ntchito za makhalidwe abwino. Motero, mbali zaphindu nkhondo ndi motere:

• nkhondo limasonyeza zotsutsana ndi mavuto pa nthawi imene iwo afika kukhwima ndi amafunika Kupha mwamsanga;
• Iwo akhoza kumachita monga limagwirira ndi kumasula mavuto komanso kuthetsa vutolo, ndilo gwero la maganizo;
• anthu akhoza Integrated, kusonyeza kumvana ndi kufunafuna njira mwa mkangano;
• chifukwa mkangano kusamvana ndi kuchotsa gwero lake dongosolo chikhalidwe amakhala wolimba;
• nthawi akuwuka nkhondo Ukuchenjeza nkhondo yaikulu kwambiri ndi zotsutsana.

Choncho, n'zosatheka kulankhula mosapita m'mbali za chikhalidwe zoipa mkangano. Zaphindu nkhondo chikhalidwe si umalimbana aggravation, ndi kuthetsa mavuto.

mbali kandalama nkhondo lotha

Zaphindu lotha nkhondo ali nkhani zabwino:

• Timatha inu kupeza tanthauzo lenileni la mbali ya mdani, komanso kuwaululira zolinga woona wa khalidwe lake;
• mukakhala mikangano kuthandiza kulimbikitsa chikhalidwe ndi mapangidwe munthu;
• amalimbikitsa anatengera anthu onse m'dziko chake kudziletsa kuzindikira ndi kudzikonda watero.

Zowononga ntchito nkhondo

Pakuti mikangano yodziwika ndi zotsatirazi ntchito zowononga:

• chifukwa chakuti standoff mukhoza kupita ku wapakamwa thupi, chiopsezo kulandidwa katundu ndi ovulala anthu;
• disorganization wa anthu polingalira kusagwirizana ndi;
• ndi slowdown mu vuto la zachuma ndi chikhalidwe polingalira za kuyan'anila ubale lotha ndi intergroup;
• mu ndondomeko ya nkhondoyo akhoza kutsegula mikangano watsopano, amene adzakhala zachilengedwe zambiri zowononga;
• kuchepetsa mwambo ndipo disorientation;
• kuwonongeka mu nyengo maganizo pa kampani kapena anthu;
• ku maganizo a umunthu munthu angathe odzikayikira, kukhumudwa kubwera ku zikhulupiriro ndi makhalidwe;
• zoipa aziona ena;
• pankhondo ya lingachititse zimagwirira kuteteza psyche, zimene zingachititse kuti makhalidwe achionongeko ayi , kapena limati matenda.

Mitundu umunthu zotsutsana

Zaphindu njira yothetsera mkangano Sizotheka chifukwa makhalidwe payekha anthu ake. Zamaganizo mitundu isanu ndi umunthu omwe nthawi zambiri amabwera zosemphana ndi ena:

• woonekeratu - monga kukhala ndi pakati, ndithu maganizo, choncho zimakhala initiators mikangano komanso kukangana;
• okhwima - chifukwa cha mpweya kudzidalira , ndi mkwiyo nthaŵi zambiri amanyalanyaza maganizo ndi zofuna za ena, nchifukwa chake pali kusamvana kwambiri;
• unmanaged - yodziwika ndi impulsiveness zimabwezera alibe luso kudziletsa;
• kopitilira muyeso-yeniyeni - kwambiri udzafunidwa kwa iwowo ndiponso anthu ena, chabe tsatanetsatane, sindinkakhulupirira;
• nkhondo - dala kubwera zosemphana ndi ozungulira poganiza njira kusintha khalidwe ndi zolinga;
• nkhondo lopanda - amaopa milandu ndi kukangana, chifukwa kungakhale ofuna mkwiyo wa ena, imbaenda ku azisiyana.

Chitsanzo cha khalidwe nkhondo

Pali atatu zitsanzo zoyambirira za khalidwe nkhondo, akuti:

• Zowononga yodziwika ndi chikhumbo kukulitsa ndi atasemphana wamasiyeyo ndi kusagwirizana. Munthu akhoza kuyesera kuchita nkhondo ophunzira kwambiri, kuwonjezera ukulu. chitsanzo ichi amakhala ndi zotsatirazi:
  
  • kunyalanyaza mnzanu kuti kuchepetsa udindo wake kuthetsa mkangano;
  • ndi chipongwe munthu ndi ntchito yayendera zoipa;
  • lotseguka mawu a kukayikirana ndi chikaiko;
  • abwerere malamulo a makhalidwe abwino ndi za chikumbumtima kulankhulana.
• Khalidwe zaphindu zosemphana ndi chipilala chojambulidwa kuti "kulipira" chitsutso ndi kuthetsa vuto kupyolera mu njira za mgwirizano wa mayiko posachedwapa. Ngati wina mwa magulu umalimbana chiyanjanitso, anasonyeza kudziletsa ndi kudziletsa, kaya khalidwe mdani wake. Nkofunika kuchita zinthu ndi manyazi poyera ndi wochezeka, kusunga.
• The kukondera chitsanzo cha khalidwe umalimbana kupeza njira zina zothetsera kusamvana, izo amakhala ndi umunthu osatetezeka. Iwo zimapezeka m'malo chabe ndi kuzemba mayankho mwachindunji mafunso. gulu sanaumirire pa mwambo amakonda ndi wofunitsitsa asintha.

Zaphindu chitukuko cha nkhondo

Nkhondo a pa Tiyerekezenso kamangidwe, zinthu zotsatirazi ayenera kukwaniritsa:

• Maphwando kuzindikira kuti kuli kusiyana, kuyesetsa kumvetsa chikhalidwe chawo ndi kuzindikira mdani bwino kuthandiza ufulu wawo Kukwezeleza malo munthu;
• akuyendera kuthetsa zimene zimayambitsa nkhondo, ayenera kwathunthu inathetsedwa mavuto obwera chifukwa cha nkhondo, monga kuchuluka kamvekedwe, mwano mwagwirizana ndi zina zotero;
• ngati lokha sikutheka kufika vutoli, n'zotheka kuti abweretse kwa chigamulocho wa Kukolanaku disinterested mkhalapakati amene angapereke cholinga ziyenera a vutoli;
• chilolezo cha magulu onse nkhondo ndi malamulo okhazikika khalidwe zimene zimalimbikitsa kulankhulana mogwira mtima.

Kuwongola nkhondo zowononga

Dziwani kuti chionongeko nkhondo zingakhale zabwino ndithu zotsatira zake. Pa nkhani imeneyi, pali zotsatirazi njira zaphindu kwa kuthetsa kusamvana:

• Kupha zimayambitsa nkhondo NADZIWA ojambula pakati pa mbali. Ngati ife kulankhula za kasamalidwe ka bungwe, ndiye ife tikhoza kulankhula za gulu la mphamvu kapena reshuffle.
• Kuchuluka zimachitika pakati pa zipani. Ngati chitsutso siliyankha kuthetsa ntchito anachita, m'pofunika kuika patsogolo pawo ndi cholinga wamba amene amakhala ngati chotikakamiza ophunzirawo kupeza chinenero.
• Kukondoweza kufufuza palokha njira kuchokera Kukolanaku. Ndipo iwo alibe kupita pa angakwezedwe mu mwambo wa omaliza oyambirira a nkhondoyo. N'zotheka kukhala dongosolo la ziletso umene ntchito kukachitika kuti mkangano si kuthetsedwa.

kasamalidwe nkhondo

zaphindu kasamalidwe nkhondo zikuphatikizapo zotsatirazi njira zikuluzikulu:

• A delineation bwino nkhani za nkhondo ndi ophunzira ake. Ndi zosavomerezeka kutsutsa makhalidwe kapena zinthu. Choncho, chisamaliro lolunjika mwachindunji pa vutolo.
• Zosintha Development kuti kukwaniritsa mbali zonse. Kubwera kwa lingaliro wamba, maphwando mkangano ayenera kutsogolera zoyesayesa zake zonse osati pa nkhondo laumwini, ndi kuikira iwo ndi kufunafuna njira zina. Izo ziyenera pogwirizanitsa ndi vuto, satsutsa mzake. Apa ntchito njira ya "kulingalira", umene ungaphatikizeponso lachitatu maphwando.
• Ntchito muyezo cholinga kumafuna cholinga tione vuto mosatengera zinthu za magulu kuti mkangano. Pankhaniyi akhoza adaganiza khola ndi ndale.
• Kucotsa zotsatira mfundo maudindo. Choyamba, aliyense wa zipani ayenera kusankha ndi zimene chidwi zake zomveka mu sewero makamaka. N'zotheka kuti magulu otsutsana ndi kuuzidwa, kapena sadzakhala ndi matanthauzo ofananafanana.

Akamaliza mkangano

Akamaliza nkhondo angayambe m'njira zotsatirazi:

• kusamvana - maphwando kutsutsidwa chifukwa cha olowa linagwirizana komaliza, amene ali kumlingo amakwaniritsa zofuna zawo;
• Pamudzi - kuwonongedwa kwa zotsutsana za wachitatu khama phwando;
• attenuation - ichi ndi osakhalitsa kapena wathunthu kutha kukaniza yogwira, omwe mwina chifukwa zikutha m'mayiko chuma, ophunzira, ndi imfa ya kufunika kwa zimayambitsa nkhondo ya;
• pothetsa nkhondo ndi "Kupha" a zanyengo structural (linanena bungwe mmodzi wa magulu a mkangano kapena kusapezeka yaitali ojambula ndi adani, ndi neutralization vuto);
• zina nkhondo panopa zingachititse kuti pachitika yatsopano padziko zinthu amene wapezeka pofuna chilolezo chake.

anapezazo

Ngakhale kuti anthu ambiri amaganiza nkhondo mwangwiro chodabwitsa zoipa, si chilungamo kwathunthu. Mwina zaphindu. Komanso, nthawi zina m'pofunika chabe. Mwachitsanzo, atsogoleri a mabungwe ena dala mikangano zaphindu mukadzayamba ntchito. Izi zimathandizanso kudziwa mavuto amene analipo, kuthetsa maganizo ndi kulenga chilengedwe wathanzi ntchito. Komanso M'pofunikanso kukumbukira kuti njira yolondola kwa eni nkhondo ngakhale zowononga atasemphana akhoza kukhala mapeto zaphindu.