Akuti: Kodi kudziwa maganizo a interlocutor chiyani?

Akuti ... Kodi akhoza obisalamo kozama awo? Palibe zodabwitsa iwo amanena kuti mzimu wina - mdima. Komano, maso - kalilole wa moyo. Choncho tiyeni tiphunzire mosamala kuyang'ana mu kalilore ndi kuzindikira kuti anthu pokuzungulira iwe, pa solo. Mawu (lofanana - view), pamodzi ndi mbali zina amalola kuti "werengani" ndi interlocutor popanda mawu.

Mfundo wa zamaganizo

zamaganizo anakumana ndi manipulators ndendende mmene kupereka maso anu kapena mawu ndi zimene zidzachitike. Zikafika poipa, maso zobisika kuseri magalasi mdima. Kotero, ife adzazindikira momwe mukhoza maso ako kapena interlocutor.

1. Kusintha kwa wabwinobwino, mwachizolowezi diso Mawu amenewo akusonyeza kuti interlocutor anasintha maganizo, maganizo ndi zina zotero.

2. Diso kayendedwe musanaganizire, amene amanena kuti "maso athamangadi" akusonyeza maganizo vutoli, mantha, manyazi, chinyengo, Alamu.

3. wanzeru maso amasonyeza mukubwadamuka mantha, malungo.

4. "Glass tione" - umboni wa zoonekera kutopa maganizo, kutopa. Ngati inu simunayambe konse diso ngati kumsonkhano yomweyo kumvetsetsa ndi kuti.

5. Zomwe ophunzira umboni wakuti Khalani ndi zosangalatsa, chidwi, kapena, Tikawonetsetsa cha mavuto amene tikukumana nawo. Sikuti achotse mbali ndi chotero kopanda, monga mankhwala chomwa mankhwalawa, zomwe kumachita ngati maso.

6. pupillary ndi predominance wa maganizo. Mwachitsanzo, zinthu monga mkwiyo, chidani, mkwiyo, irritability kapena kukana chilichonse. Komanso, kungakhale Chifukwa chotsatira mankhwala.

7. Pamene maso kusuntha mosintha, zingadziŵike kuledzera mowa. Ndi zambiri wachisokonezo ndipo mofulumira kayendedwe - zazikulu digiri kuledzera.

8. Kuchuluka kuphethira momveka bwino kwa inu kuti taputsitsidwa, kuyesera kuti akanyenge, kapena munthu akukumana chisangalalo chachikulu.

9. Kupanda diso limaimira kuchepa chidwi kapena kuganizira maganizo.

10. zikuwoneka nkhani ku phunziro amalankhula kuchepetsa bwino chidwi. Zikuoneka kuti monologue wanu anachedwa.

11. Kuyang'ana kuchokera kunja limanena za kusakhulupirira ndi atigwira, ndiye yang'anani kumbuyo izo zikusonyeza kuti munthuyo kapena kunama kapena kukutsutsani. Mawu Mwachidule, akhoza kunena zambiri.

Akazi zidule

Akazi, mwina Subconsciously anathamangitsidwa mu makhalidwe ena amene kuthandiza polankhula ndi anthu ena. akazi ambiri kukhazikitsa diso kukhudzana akamalankhula interlocutor lapansi. Pamene iwo kukhutiritsa munthu, kupatula akumuyang'anitsitsa ntchito kukhudzana wapakamwa ndi chogwirika ndi munthu. njira zimenezi kophweka khutu "pa timaganiza mofanana" ndi mnzake ndi bwino.

Ngati munthu zokambirana zikuwoneka osachepera chachitatu nthawi ya kukambirana pamaso pa ena, amene ndi mtendere wa mumtima, mukhoza kuganiza iye ukathyali. Pa dzanja lina, ngati munthu akuyang'ana inu, akhoza anatsimikiza kuti munthu ali nazo chidwi kapena chidwi (ana dilated), adzadana nawe (ana kudwala) , kapena amafuna akuwapondereza.

Koma kuti kuwerengera interlocutor mwina ndi mtima wake, malingaliro chinsinsi, muyenera kudziwa osati mawu a maso, komanso mawu, sanali kumukakamiza cues monga kusintha mu kamvekedwe, pallor, chizolowezi kupotoza mphete pa chala chake, pakani khutu.