Chenicheni monga khalidwe la umunthu

The stringency wa khalidwe la munthu - chizolowezi kuwunika kwambiri khalidwe ndi lolondola zochita popanda kupatukira chitsanzo.

Chenicheni - ndi kumveka bwino mumtima mwa munthu wina. Chitsatidwe chenicheni cha chikondi zochepa. Kamodzi munthu kuswa pang'ono, malire a chilango, ndiponso zochita zake adzatchedwa mosiyana - chinthu chimodzimodzi, nkhanza kapena nkhanza. Chikondi - limiter rigor. A munthu ukhoza kukhala okhwima, ankhanza, ngakhale ankhanza. Ufulu kukhala okhwima kuti zinatsala. Ine kamodzi anafunsa seveni chaka mwana: - Inu mukudziwa chifukwa chake Ine akulangani inu? - Inde, - anati. - Mwina Sindiyenera achita? - I anafunsa. - Ayi, - anati, - mukuchitira. Inu akundilanga chifukwa mumakonda kuti Sindinachite nokha kapena ena zoipa. The mwana anadziwa kuti bambo nakazanie- kumasonyeza chikondi.

Iwo amapereka ufulu popereka chikondi. Ngati tiyang'ana pa austerity onse, osati monga ku maphunziro a ana, amakhala woopsa ngati akufuna zina anthu ubwino ndi chimwemwe. Komabe, izi sikokwanira. Ine misspoke likuvutika chikondi. Mukhoza sanalange akamaona anthu inu. Mwachitsanzo, pamene atumiki Simumva ulemu ndi chisoni kwa mutu, pamene malo ake si wofunika kwa iwo, ndi kuchotsa izo zosasangalatsa, mpaka mitundu yonse ya chilango adzakhala anazindikira mwa iwo monga rigor, koma monga nkhanza ndi wankhanza. Chilango popanda chifundo mwagwirizana ndi Zimalepheretsa ulamuliro wa mutu zimasonyeza kuti iye ndi kumvetsa osauka zimene zikuchitika. Mwachitsanzo, AV Suvorov Anali m'chiyanjano ndi aliyense wa asilikali zikwi makumi asanu. Iye anapita asilikali ndipo anafunsa, "Chabwino, mwana anachira?" Kapena: "Paulo, chimene iwo kulemba kwa Ryazan" Asilikaliwo anakonda mtsogoleri wawo, ndiponso popereka anazindikira monga chilakolako kubweretsa kunyumba moyo popanda kupwetekedwa. Pa rigor chomwecho suyenera kukhala munthu, koma zochita zake.

Chikondi ndi kuwuma amaoneka imodzi. Nthawi zambiri makolo ndikufuna ana kukhala wodzitukumula, kusangalala nazo. Wodzikonda wofuna chimwemwe mwana zimaphwanya makolo a rigor. Iwo kumuuza mawu kudutsa, kuvutika chosayenera ake onse kuchita. Munthu amakondadi mtima wake ayenera kusonyeza amphamvu ndi osakayika rigor wachibale cholinga cha chikondi, zimapangitsa poyera kulankhula kwa Iye chowona chonse. Izi ndi rigor weniweni, nandipatsa ndi chikondi. Mutu kapolo wachikondi, angakhale aakulu iwo. gulu lake chitsulo chilango ndendende chifukwa amakonda, amayamikira anthu ndi kuchita nawo mosamalitsa, kuopera kuti iwo sindinachite yekha mavuto, wosadodometsedwa mbiri yake ndi sanataye ndi ufulu kugwira ntchito mu gulu ili.

Pali nthawi zonse chodabwitsa: amamvetsa amawakonda ovuta kwambiri ndi chinthu chikondi. Zachitikiranji zimenezi? Chifukwa cha kukula kwa ndikufuna kumusonyeza chikondi zinali zoona kuti chikondi ndi kuyamikira kwake kuposa chilichonse kukhala akuopa izo. Mwachitsanzo, makamaka atate amakonda Mwana wake wosamalitsa akutchula izo. Pofuna mwana wabwino, ankaopa kuti sayenera sakuyenda mchikakamizo cha msewu. Wokondedwa, kusonyeza mwamphamvu, ankawaviika chikondi ndi mbali yaikulu amphamvu kwambiri pa munthu wina, amene nawonso, amamukonda. Koma kuti ndi mphamvu ya austerity, m'pofunika moona chikondi.

Mosiyana zofuna, amene kumaonekera pamene ntchito dziko, mwamphamvu wapezeka chifukwa pa phwando. Ngati zofuna akufunsidwa kuti "chochita", ndi rigor chidwi funso "Kodi". Mwachitsanzo, anaumirira akuti: "Uyenera ndikupereka lipoti miyezi itatu iliyonse ndi 15 mwezi wotsatira wina. Monga mbali ya malipoti ayenera mawonekedwe awa ... executors Akule ... "amapitirira lakhumi ndi tsiku, ndipo palibe lipoti, anagonjera kuti masiku khumi kenako. Ngati maso anu - kotero si rigor. Pamene anadzudzulidwa anamuopseza kumana premiums wosweka bwino ndipo anapempha remake - kotero anasonyeza rigor.

Mosiyana ndi chinthu chimodzimodzi, rigor, monga tanena kale, wodzala ndi chikondi ndi ulemu kwa anthu, ndi zina zofewa ndi ofunda. Kusalekerera Mwina zosangalatsa ngati mutu mu mawonekedwe azithunzithunzi amapanga "kumenyedwa" kapolo kulephera kale ntchito. Iye sizimabwera chilango weniweni zikumbutso zochepa ndi kumuopseza. Pa stiffness humorless khalidwe, nthabwala, zilibe kuwala. The chinthu chimodzimodzi wa ozizira, bata ndi lalikulu. Akamatiopseza ake ayenera kulandira chithandizo ndi chisamaliro, chifukwa iwo, monga ulamuliro, ayenera kukhazikitsa. Ndi cholinga chinthu chimodzimodzi maphunziro amatha kupanga mphamvu thupi kuzipenya. Kuuma mtima kwa anthu akuthamanga, ndi rigor kugwira.

Chitsatidwe chenicheni cha banja ayenera apadera. Mwachitsanzo, mkazi, ngati simukufuna kukula mwana wa amayi, ofooka kanthu, sikutanthauza komanso wosasangalala mwamuna sayenera kulera mwana wake yekha. Ndi mwayi wapadera wa atate wake. Chenicheni ponena mnyamatayo zikusonyeza kuthekera zolakwa. Mnyamata ayenera kuphunzira kuthetsa mavuto, kukhala okonzeka kukayezetsa. Nkofunika kangati mudzagwa, koma mmene kudzuka. munthu anamanga kumvetsa kuti mnyamata luso mavuto a moyo. Monga zidole, iye monga mmene Kodi kupinda moyo, ndi mphamvu ku sangalala uliri choyambirira mwanzeru. Mayi sangathe kumvetsa ndale za sayansi moyo ndipo akuyamba kusokoneza mwana wake, kuti ndi kosavuta kumufunsa bambo wa mayeso. Chotero chisoni izo zimayambitsa mavuto mwana ndi kuwononga tsoka lake. chikhalidwe akazi sangathe modekha taonani pamene mwana ali kudutsa chifukwa kukhazikitsa ntchito zopatsidwa kwa bambo ake. Choncho, amayi ayenera kukhala kutali ndi maphunziro a mwana wake. Kukonda ndi kusamalira - chonde, koma kuphunzitsa mwana wake - bambo ake ali zone ya udindo. Kupereka mwana wake mwayi kuwaphunzira maphunziro a moyo, motero bambo amapereka maganizo ake kuthekera okhwima ndi "minofu tchire." Pali anecdote: amayi anaganiza kuyambira tsopano kusunga mwana wake mwamphamvu.
- Ukupita? - akufunsa. - Kodi ndikufuna. - Ndipo pamene inu mubwerere? - Pamene kumasangalatsa. - Chabwino, angoyang'ana, osati miniti ina.

Ngati bambo zofunkha mwana wake, ndiye iye asokoneza mkazi wake, ndiye ulibe rigor mu ubwenzi ndi mwamuna wake. Ndipo apa pali chodabwitsa chidwi. Zoona ndi mwamuna wake - kumukonda. Pamene mkazi amakonda mwamuna wake, iye akhoza kukhala okhwima ndi iye, ndiyeno mwamuna ndi okhwima ndi mwana wake. Chitsatidwe chenicheni cha chikondi si moyo. Popeza chikondi zitha "kupeza" ana ndi Kumvetsela cavils zazing'ono kanthu koma atakana salandira ayankhe. Mtsikanayo ndithudi nawukitsanso mayi. Chitsatidwe chenicheni cha mtsikana chikuoneka pa ndondomeko ya kuphunzitsa makhalidwe ake oyenera, kufotokoza subtleties zonse ndi zina zabwino za ubale lotha.

Mu chenicheni ali pakhomo chinsinsi chake. Ngati mukudziwa kumene mwagona kuti fungulo, zimaonekeratu kuti mwamuna wake anali okhwima ndi mkazi wake kunja, ndipo iye anati - internally. Internal rigor zambiri yachilendo. Choncho, siwoyenera funso losafuna, "Ndani ali Bwana?" - mkazi amasunga mwamuna wake mu "mwamphamvu" mosavuta. Ndipo mphamvu ya rigor ake amachokera chikondi. Pamene mkazi wanga amakonda mwamuna wake, iye amatenga iye udindo wamkazi. Kodi kuchita zachiwerewere, mopanda manyazi Mwachidule, sizowona, mkazi yomweyo kuvumbulutsa zachisinsi zomwenso kupondeleza sewero lake akusonyeza kuti banja lathu, chithe. Mkazi amachita zinthu zoterezi mosazengereza kwambiri, molimba mtima ndi relentlessly. Amuna amakonda kupewa ngati zinthu, ndi olimbika kumenya kwa iwo, chifukwa anaopa kuona mkazi wanga mu chikhalidwe chimenecho. Kotero mkazi ndi mosavuta kukhala okhwima mu angamulerere mwamuna wake, malinga ali mphamvu ya chikondi kwa iye.