Kodi chofunika kwambiri? Kuthana Kapena ....

"Bola ngati inu sangagonjetse yekha, ndi chodziwikiratu kuti mupambane mdani wa '

D.Loer

Mungadabwe kuti ngakhale ndili ndi masewera zamaganizo, Ine musaike Cholinga cha mkulu ntchito othamanga wathu. Chikhumbo changa chachikulu n'choti - kuti aphunzire kukhala m'kati lopanda chotsatira kuti ana aphunzira kusangalala ndi moyo, ngakhale kugonjetsedwa mu mpikisano, kuti akhale ponse pa zolakwa zawo kuti akuona okha, kaya chiwerengero cha mfundo. Ndipotu, mu nthawi ya ntchito, ndinkakonda kuonera chithunzi chomwecho: pambuyo angapo kulephera, ambiri akubwera kusakhulupirira mwa iwo okha, yankho amphamvu kwambiri chifukwa, ndipo kumawonjezeka maganizo nkhawa. Ndipo ngati kuwonjezeka voteji, mantha dongosolo amakhala atatopa ndi mwayi wa luso pa masewera ali kwambiri yafupika. Ndipo Mulungu adzakhala nawo, ndi zotsatira .... koma pambuyo akuvutika kudzidalira kwa mwana wake matenda a maganizo, ndi maganizo maganizo, kusadalira ndi mavuto amagwira kuganizira thanzi thupi.

Ngati mamba kuika maganizo (ndi thupi) thanzi ndi bwino zotsatira, zimene mungasankhe? .. Ine kusankha thanzi. Ichi ndichifukwa akamufunsirire kuika mu malo oyamba kukhala mu chikhalidwe wothamanga zosagwira, pa mtima umene n'zotheka kuika maganizo wathanzi imfa ndi luso osati kundikalipira nokha chifukwa cha zolakwa, ndi kutengapo maganizo ndiponso kukonza m'tsogolo, kulemekeza mdani wa (palibe nsanje, udani) chifukwa ndicho chimene mdani walola inu aonetsere ulemerero wa chilengedwe. Incontinence, chipwirikiti, mkwiyo - zonsezi ndi chizindikiro osatetezeka ndi chilakolako champhamvu kwambiri kupambana, kukhala bwino kuposa mdani wa. Tsopano tiyeni kuganizira chifukwa tiyenera kukhala bwino kuposa ena? Amene ndi zimene tikufuna kutsimikizira? Kodi chikhulupiriro munthu kuti Iye ali bwino kuposa ena? Koma chikhulupiriro munthu bata, wachifundo, woleza mtima, mwaulemu, wokoma mtima. Koma pamene ife nkhawa zimene anthu ena amanena za ife (mwadzidzidzi ndikuganiza: "wimp, opusa woluza"), izi ndi pamene mavuto ayamba. Yemwe amalenga angalingane ndi mavuto amenewa? maganizo athu! Ife kuziyerekeza ndi ena, iwowo amati "Ine ndine wabwino kapena woipa," mmalo mwa kudzifananitsa ndi zomwe tinali nazo kale (ndipo uyu ndi zambiri cholinga ndiponso limapereka mwayi mwabwinobwino kuona ngati kapena ayi tikupita patsogolo).

Ife tokha anali kukhulupirira kuti pazifukwa zina osati kuchita zinthu mumakonda, ndipo onetsetsani kuti "kulumpha pa" munthu. Society amalimbikitsa mfundo mwamphamvu. Matamandidwe a sukulu m'mizinda, dziko ayenera kukhala akatswiri! Ndipo makhalidwe anthu palibe funso. Mwina izi ngwazi ya kukwiya, adyera, mwano, etc. Ndipo ngati inu mukuganiza chiyani za izo, mukhoza kuona kuti okha pa makhalidwe a anthu? Mwina tiyenera kunyadira anyamata wachifundo, wokoma mtima? Ndipo kodi ntchito othamanga?

Kamodzi ndinkafuna kukhala bwino masewera zamaganizo m'dera Samara. Tsopano izo zikuwoneka oseketsa kwa ine. Chifukwa chiyani? Amene ndi chimene ine kutsimikizira? Izi ndi zofunika, ndili ndi udindo sayansi, zikalata yapamwamba ya akamaliza maphunziro kapena ayi? Mwina kwambiri Chofunika, ngati ine ngati katswiri angathandize mpikisanowo, ndi munthu amene ndili lonse ...

Ine ndikutsimikiza kuti zokhumba zathu zokha amawononga moyo. Kudziwika amakakamizidwa mwanzeru si zosangalatsa ndi zinthu mumaikonda, ndi kukwaniritsa chotsatirachi, choncho anakhumudwa pamene zotsatira si kukwaniritsa.

Mwina munamvapo mawu akuti kawirikawiri amagwiritsidwa ntchito zamaganizo ndi anthu ambiri anzeru ndi anamatetule, "Khalani pano tsopano" ndipo kwenikweni ndi opangidwa ndi mtima wabwino kwa moyo. Moyo, kuphunzira kukhala mu kamphindi pano, tiyeni iye kwathunthu, m'malo kuthamanga patsogolo ndi kujambula ndingaliro ya zithunzi lowopsya la zolephera. Samala, nthawi zambiri, timaganiza za m'tsogolo sizinachitikebe, kapena mpukutu mavuto a zinthu zakale, mantha ngati kuti sizinachitike. Anthu ambiri kotero moyo, ndi nkhawa ili mosalekeza ndipo, chotero, kuchepa cha zimene zikuchitika. Ndipo kwa absurdity wodzala anachita chochitika imfa (mwachitsanzo), tiyerekeze kuti penapake mu dziko lakutali nkhondo ndi zina mwana ndikungofuna kuti apulumuke, ndipo nthawi zina njala ndi mwana wina analibe kanthu kakudya, ndipo kwinakwake chivomezi .... ndipo tsopano Osayerekezera moyo wanu ndi moyo wa anthu amenewo ... Ndiyeno inu simutero kupusa kukhala nazo "kuphedwa" chifukwa cha imfa ya? Inde, imfa - ndi zabwino, ndi ife phunziro, mayesero a khalidwe athu, mwayi palokha kuwona alipo, mwayi wophunzitsa nokha kulimbikira mavuto ... Ndipo ngati mukukumbukira kwambiri za izo, ndiye patapita kanthawi zimenezi kuti khalidwe kulephera musaumitse ndi kukonzekera mphindi kwenikweni zovuta za moyo, umene muyenera chidaliro, kudziletsa ndi kudzikayikira.

Anthu ena, atakhala pafupi imfa, otsalafe mozizwitsa kwa nthawi yaitali akuyang'ana pa zolephera wamba monga zinthu zazing'ono ku moyo, chifukwa iwo ali poyerekeza sukupita ndi mavuto kwenikweni ... Kodi tiyenera kulowa mu zochitika kwenikweni oopsa kuti akazindikira kuti zonse zinthu zina ife takwiya - kwenikweni zachabechabe? Mwina zinali nthawi kukumbukira kuti chinthu chachikulu si kupambana, koma mtima wathu moyo, kuti azisangalala ndi zinthu zing'onozing'ono ndi osangalala.

Ine ndikupereka kwa tiyeni kutchuka kutenga kuti ntchito othamanga chingapezeke, kapena ayi, ndipo zimenezi siziyenera kutilepheretsa miyoyo yathu. Koma ngati tili ndi maganizo abwino ndi chikhulupiriro mwa inu nokha, ndiye Mwina bwino ndi apamwamba kwambiri. Choncho, kuphunzira kukonda masewera ndondomeko (zinthu ankakonda) ndi chofunika kwambiri kuposa kuyembekezera zotsatira zake.

"Kuwomboledwa" Chifukwa, kukhala pano zambiri kumbukirani kuti kofunika kwambiri pa moyo ndi kuona momwe chikhulupiriro, chimwemwe ndi mtendere moyo wosangalala, ndi kusintha ntchito othamanga - adzakhala mbali zotsatira za maganizo abwino ngati kwa moyo.